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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 9:20:17 AM

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You still haven't answered us as to if you are going to pull your own weight money-wise or if you are going to expect to be taken care of.

Well, all thats needed is some bleach and a brush?

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I think the bleach would put a quick end to his "serviceability" and prematurely end his fantasy of dying a slow death while in service of a Domme as her functioning toilet.

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 12:07:45 PM

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But if you really think that being viewed as the free fetish realization soup kitchen, being someone's pair of black pumps and nice tits, being someone's outlet and muse and never being ones SELF is that much of an "advantage" I have to say you're missing how we're both kind of screwed over.

Perhaps, but i'd say that being the object of desire, even if it does become tiring after a while, has to have an advantage over never being desired. At least from this submissive's POV, being wanted physically, even if it is only for a specific thing, would be a lot more emotionally satisfying than never being more than the sum of the value of your labor.

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 12:23:12 PM

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humantoilet, I think the point you're missing (or don't care to see) is that most people prefer to use the porcelain throne over a live person on a regular basis.

Ask yourself, if someone approached you and asked to be used as a human coffee table - full time - would that be particularly interesting to you? Would you want a human coffee table? Me either. Generally, even if there's a play only relationship involved, people expect more out of their interactions than to objectify someone, full time, for the rest of that person's life.

Edit: I can't believe I'm trying to rationalize the desire for being a toilet by comparing it to being a table.

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 12:32:28 PM

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But if you really think that being viewed as the free fetish realization soup kitchen, being someone's pair of black pumps and nice tits, being someone's outlet and muse and never being ones SELF is that much of an "advantage" I have to say you're missing how we're both kind of screwed over.

Perhaps, but i'd say that being the object of desire, even if it does become tiring after a while, has to have an advantage over never being desired. At least from this submissive's POV, being wanted physically, even if it is only for a specific thing, would be a lot more emotionally satisfying than never being more than the sum of the value of your labor.

...dave

I guess I would not know. I've never taken on anyone for whom I was a physical "type" and no more (even when I was professional) and I've never taken on anyone who was only a physical type OR only a means to get a job done and no more. Not enough "there" there for me, there's got to be some simpatico among brains to really make it worth doing.

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 4:37:41 PM

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Yes and that attitude is why you still are seeking it. Just as there are fake Doms/Dommes there are timewasting wankers who are all talk and no action or follow through. I have had my share in my short time of being active on this board. I have to take the time to get to know those requesting a paid session or for domestic servitude, claiming they want to, they are ready and they will do anything only to have them suddenly disappear or not show up at all EVEN after weeks or months of communication. You take the good with the bad. We have to weed through to get to someone sincere just like you do...It's call dedication and working for what you want. And as it has so OBVIOUSLY been pointed out to you the whole purpose of D/s relationship is giving and taking, the sub does the giving and the Dom/Domme does the taking...you are offering nothing and are coming off as one of those timewasting wankers....to the death, oh yeah I want to take care of an adult until I die or they die...sounds like a real win/win for the Dom/Domme!

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 4:46:40 PM

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this is a position to the death, severe whipping and full toilet slavery to the death of me..how much more real than that can you get?

You are basically asking someone to commit murder which is a crime in every country I know of with a serious penalty.

You are not looking for a consensual relationship if you asking the other person to committ a crime to fulfill your fantasy. That isn't very slavelike or submissive, in fact, I'd say it was incredibly selfish.

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She's losing out . . . - 12/22/2006 4:47:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: humantoilet4

to answer some questions, yes i have been doing full toilet for 20 years or more, i don't gag or vomit like some, after awhile you become quite good or at least used to it. No i would not offer some kind of support, if you are serving as a full toilet every day soon your health will fade and you will die, i guess you could call it suicide by Dom, or being shit to death.Yeah, i suspect that somewhere out there ,there is a Mistress thats more into this kink then she is interested in me as a bank , who's only mission in life is to get her rich. Well that about answers most of your questions.

The other posters have painted a very good picture as to your prospects of finding a domina that would be more than happy to accept your arrangements.

Reading your posts, I’m getting a sense that this is all about you. And that you’re taking action assuming that the domina would like nothing more than to use you as a toilet, that she would be willing to pay through the nose to get herself one.

But you’ve gotta understand that this fantasy is your idea, not hers.

Let’s look at the reality of what you’re asking.

In exchange for using you as a toilet bowl, the woman gets the following in return:

1. Pay for your meals . . .

2. Pay for your health needs . . .

3. Pay for your clothing . . .

4. Have a man of your age, build, and weight, lounging around her home when she’s off to work or away somewhere. Eating at will . . . watching television at will . . . using her furniture . . .

In other words, to sponsor and fund what would be the remainder of your life. Just so that you could do at a great expense for her what a regular toilet bowl and whipping post could do for her without the cost.

Now, you’ve said that you’d be willing to sign a slave contract or release form. Since you’ve acknowledged that this could result in your death, you’re adding another cost to the domina.

No amount of agreement between her and you would protect her from being charged with manslaughter as a result of using you as a toilet bowl.

In fact, you may be breaking the law by what you’ve already written.

So what else does she get for using you as her toilet bowl? Possible life in prison for “killing” you? Doesn’t matter if you’ve asked her to do this to you.

Even if she “gets away” with it, she’ll have to make funeral arrangements for you. They’d ask about how you died. Now you’re asking her to embarrass herself answering that question. Not to mention her having to explain to friends and family how you died and where - in her home - you passed away at.

You’ve offered her no real benefit for taking you in. Not even a promise not to haunt her home should you pass away because of this.

Here’s something else to consider. She’ll have friends and family coming over. How is she supposed to explain your presence? How would she explain to her parents her not going to the bathroom after she says she’s gotta use the bathroom?

Unless you’ll permanently lay down in her master bedroom bathroom. How comfortable would her man be to that?

The more you think of this, the more you’re putting the woman - that accepts your offer - in an awkward position.

As you indicated, you would not offer any support.

But, the other’s have explained what you have to do to improve your chances of finding a woman that would be happy to use you as her toilet slave.

Do you have any assets, inheritance, or other item that she could convert to substantial amount of cash? Would she be a beneficiary to any kind of retirement program that you have? Are you willing to do things that will save her a tremendous amount of money? Such as fixing things around the home, giving her home a good cleaning, fixing her vehicle, and so on? Do you have a skill that could earn her some money?

You have to prove to her that you’d be a good investment of her time and energy. The others have tried to stress this to you in their responses.

Don’t expect these women to fall heads over heals over each other to take advantage of your offer if all you offer them are costs, disadvantages, and future jail time. Especially since you’re bordering on breaking the law.

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RE: She's losing out . . . - 12/22/2006 4:50:27 PM

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Don’t expect these women to fall heads over heals over each other to take advantage of your offer if all you offer them are costs, disadvantages, and future jail time. Especially since you’re bordering on breaking the law.

Oh but you don't know... considering reality makes you a fake!

Excellent points though. I hope they get through to the OP.

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 5:32:37 PM

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Has read all the replies and Found DominatrixDevia to be of sound advice
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RE: Full Toilet - 12/22/2006 6:50:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: humantoilet4

i probably won't get much feedback on this topic, but there seems to be no Fem Dom's here into severe whipping and full toilet. i just want to be a toilet, no rights, permanantly owned, till my final demise. i will sign any kind of slave contract or release form.

humantoilet:
Others have mentioned that you would be a financial drain on your hoped for mistress. Have you considered hocking some body parts. The first month a kidney. The following month a cornea.
Eventually ending up pawning your heart.
Just a thought, albiet a sick one

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 1:23:56 AM

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Using fancy words to paraphrase part of a post by LTRsubNW he said......
The social/sexual desires/pressures present in many men are simply inexplicable to many women.

Grlwithboy replied
It's an awesome post, the kind that you could bronze.
But if you really think that being viewed as the free fetish realization soup kitchen, being someone's pair of black pumps and nice tits, being someone's outlet and muse and never being ones SELF is that much of an "advantage" I have to say you're missing how we're both kind of screwed over.

I think the reply demonstrates LTR's point !

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 7:02:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: humantoilet4

yeah Pixel, i already wrote her, she still hasn't answered back, i'll let you know though if she does, she's probably as fake as all the rest of them on this site, all talk ,no action

So anyone who points out the flaws in your fantasy world is a fake? I'm not realy sure why you're looking for a job as a toilet, you already seem to be full of it.

~stef

Speaking of fakes, I spotted a fake Domme profile today, I know its fake because I've seen "her" picture a thousand times on other sites by other fakers...I just hope nobody falls for it. How do you report fake profiles anyways?

Edit: I just realized I quoted the wrong person....stupid me

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 7:08:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: rick19

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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: humantoilet4

yeah Pixel, i already wrote her, she still hasn't answered back, i'll let you know though if she does, she's probably as fake as all the rest of them on this site, all talk ,no action

So anyone who points out the flaws in your fantasy world is a fake? I'm not realy sure why you're looking for a job as a toilet, you already seem to be full of it.

~stef

Speaking of fakes, I spotted a fake Domme profile today, I know its fake because I've seen "her" picture a thousand times on other sites by other fakers...I just hope nobody falls for it. How do you report fake profiles anyways?

Edit: I just realized I quoted the wrong person....stupid me

You don't. It just makes you look like a whining child and you can't prove it.

Edited because it sent before I was done: Does this person actually say it's her picture? Not everyone puts up their personal photo.

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 7:32:22 PM

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Does this person actually say it's her picture? Not everyone puts up their personal photo.

I sure hope they do AquaticSub! If you read the TOS (Terms of Service) for CM, one isn't allowed to upload an image to their personal profile here on CM unless they own the copyright to the photo they are uploading! If someone has uploaded a photo to their profile which they've downloaded from someplace else, they've violated the TOS for this site and most likely have infringed on the copyright of the individual who owns the image!

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 8:18:01 PM

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...(because quite frankly...from my perspective...you are...and...I'm just a smidge more tweaked than you...god help me),

Yea? Really? More tweaked? Good for you, man!!! Who knew?

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ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW
Son...ain't nuttin wrong with being pee'd on...most men like it (most sub men love it), most women don't understand it...but do "get" that we men are just a smidge freaky and really do like it....so they go with it....

Heyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy There ARE women who get it...and likes it lots!!!

<smiles at mantis> B I N G O !!!

ACK…I’m responding to a post by someone who hasn’t been here since July???!!!
I’mmm sooooo embarrassed!!!

yeah...too embarrased!

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 8:41:25 PM

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All I did was ask how to report fake profiles in my post, I don't see how I came off as a "whining child".

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 8:50:15 PM

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All I did was ask how to report fake profiles in my post, I don't see how I came off as a "whining child".

I don't think there is a way. If you complained and they took it down..all the person will do is start another one. It's something that comes with the territory.

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 10:04:39 PM

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<smiles at mantis> B I N G O !!!

ACK…I’m responding to a post by someone who hasn’t been here since July???!!!
I’mmm sooooo embarrassed!!!

yeah...too embarrased!

Hmmm, methinks you've been isolated in the mountains a wee bit too long. This thread was just started on 12/21/2006 at 4:37:56 PM. I've no idea how someone who's not been here since July could possibly have posted in this thread! But if I were you, I'd still be embarrassed!

Too many hot toddies tonite??

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 11:17:25 PM

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would it be OK if your mistress ate three curries and drank five pints of real ale the night before?

just askin

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RE: Full Toilet - 12/23/2006 11:32:16 PM

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All I did was ask how to report fake profiles in my post, I don't see how I came off as a "whining child".

You didn't but trying to report/warn people about fakes tends to come across badly, no matter how hard you try. Sorry if I came off too harshly. You just can't prove fakehood and the person you think is a fake is perfect for someone else.

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