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siamsa24 -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 7:59:47 AM)
I think that my post on men in kilts was misunderstood. I think that there is nothing more manly then a man that can wear a kilt. And some of the guys here make it look so good (there are almost 100 men in the band). I know that was waaaaay back there in the thread, but I just felt I needed to clarify.

WulfMan -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 8:29:29 AM)
chuckles some I think most of us got the picture. There is nothing femine about a kilt in my opinion, having a scottish backround, I'd probably take offense to anyone that said it wasn't manly. busts out the bag pipes and keeps on trucking

siamsa24 -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 8:33:18 AM)
Well, some of the replies seemed to imply that they thought that I was saying men in kilts are not masculine (I shudder to even type those words). I have a kilt too, but it just isn't the same...... And speaking of bagpipes, I live next door to the music center, I get to hear the pipers practice every afternoon. Everyone should have that luxery.

quietkitten -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 8:37:00 AM)
[&:] * gets wet warm feelings thinking about a man in a kilt....

PaintedLady -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 8:52:02 AM)
quote: And speaking of bagpipes, I live next door to the music center, I get to hear the pipers practice every afternoon. Everyone should have that luxery. My neighbor, about three houses awy, is a flautist (flutist? person that plays the flute lol) and when the weather is warm and windows are open, I can hear her playing two or three nights a week. it's pretty cool.

PaintedLady -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 8:57:57 AM)
quote: Mmmmm....manly men. I love the way men smell, the feel of their hands after they've worked, the slight five o'clock shadow they somtimes have, the clumsy way they have with words when they want something, are desperate for something....mmm men. Yummyyummy! I have a probelm on the other side of D/s too- I can't get into a guy with soft hands.

TallDarkAndWitty -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 9:19:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika I think Lily and I would like to sign up as your co-authors... You gals are on...I will start up an outline. smile Taggard

SweetDommes -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 10:12:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: siamsa24 I think that my post on men in kilts was misunderstood. I think that there is nothing more manly then a man that can wear a kilt. And some of the guys here make it look so good (there are almost 100 men in the band). I know that was waaaaay back there in the thread, but I just felt I needed to clarify. I love a man in a kilt, but for me, it doesn't have to be a kilt - it just can't be all frilly and froofy (is that a word?). Anyone who watches TNA wrestling, or who watched WCW before they went under - think Raven lol

Hickory -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 11:37:57 AM)
After the British defeated the Scots at the battle of Culloden in 1745, they were so afraid of bagpipes, kilts and "The Plaid", that all three were banned as "tools of war". What we have come to know as the "Clan Colors" came after 1820, when they became quite a fashion statement among British aristocracy (kinda like much of the "Native American" jewelry we might encounter now.) The "bottom line" is that Scots wear kilts 'cause they don't fit in trousers. Ask any Scot, he'll tell you! quote: ORIGINAL: PaintedLady My neighbor, about three houses awy, is a flautist (flutist? person that plays the flute lol) and when the weather is warm and windows are open, I can hear her playing two or three nights a week. it's pretty cool. Both forms are correct, but it seems to me that your nighbor is a "flutist" until a strong wind blows up his kilt, when he becomes a "flautist". Hickory

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 11:42:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Ok. So I have a fetish. It's masculinity. It isn't my only fetish, but it one of them and one that I rarely see discussed. My kink is masculanization. I like to bring a man in touch with his true masculinity. Not some macho overcompensation but what it is to be a true gentleman, to take pride in manhood, in strength, etc. Any other Domme share my fetish? - LA Dear LadyA, (I've been hiding from some of the storm for a few days)... I immediately wanted to say AMEN sister when I saw your thread... I agree Masculinization is not talked about enough; sometimes from what I hear/read, it almost feels like being a strong woman does not allow for honoring a strong man and vice versa. I grew up in a home with a strong manly man (stature/integrity/protective of his woman), while at the same time being sweet to his wife, and treating her like a most precious gentle flower. I most definitely share your fetish; I love men, he doesn't have to be 6' tall to be manly, I know several shorter manly men... There's nothing more erotic than a strong man who submits because he can/isn't afraid of it; just that thought alone, gets me hott, lol. I feel yah Lily when you say a man dressed as a man doing housework is erotic. I don't mind some feminization as ahumiliation tool (for fun), but I am not turned on by a man in frilly for sure; oh hell, no one should ever wear anything frilly, lol (aside from not erotic, it's always a fashion mistake). Just my 2 cents worth... M

LadyBeckett -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 1:26:08 PM)
quote: I have never been comfortable with the idea that 'feminism' should cancel out chivalry or good manners. It is simply a matter of our femininity being treated with grace while our intellect and strength are acknowledged and respected. Quite frankly, I've never had a problem with it. On the contrary it has been my experience that gentlemen have always been gentlemen, to my ultimate fascination and pleasure. [;)] quote: ORIGINAL: GentleLady Feminization does not turn My crank but if it is a big deal for the submissive I do not object to him cross-dresing (providing he looks any good). I usually just avoid them so it never occurred to Me to think about trying to enhance the masculinity of the submissive. I get off on the maleness of the male body...its scent and taste and feel. I do know that one of My goals with Mine is to help him regain his pride in being male because that has been battered pretty badly. It is so gratifying when a big burly construction worker kisses My ass and I can smell the sweat of hard work drifting from his body...to see the strength leashed and ready to meet My needs...to watch those strong male hands prepare supper...and know that he is a strong confident male who glories in being a gentleman. As Maniac and others have said before me, that wonderful male scent, hot, mmmmm...there just isn't anything like it to get my imagination in gear. [;)] quote: Original: ProtagonistLily I'd much rather have a man in a pair of well worn jeans at the sink doing the dishes than a sissified man in a dress anyday. Oh I second Maniac on the "image of loveliness"! [;)]

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:34:58 PM)
quote: Males in these roles generally just want to either prance around & look cute, being totally useless or else they wish to be taken care of. Blech. You have no idea what you are talking about. What a crock!!! I can VERY WELL take care of myself thank you very frikken much!!!!!!! Totally useless? Thanks a LOT! What a GROSS simplification!!! [>:][>:][>:][>:][>:][>:][>:]

SweetDommes -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:38:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71 quote: Males in these roles generally just want to either prance around & look cute, being totally useless or else they wish to be taken care of. Blech. You have no idea what you are talking about. What a crock!!! [>:][>:][>:][>:][>:][>:][>:] Um, please keep in mind that she said "generally" ... and from our experience, it is true that, in general, males who are sissies or crossdressers or into forced fem mostly want to play dress up and/or be taken care of rather than serving. This does not mean that all males are like that, but most are - if you aren't, then that's fabulous ... but don't take offence when someone says "generally" or "in general" because that doesn't mean that everyone fits that definition, and that means that - if it doesn't fit you, then it wasn't actually referring to you.

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:39:58 PM)
What a steaming load!!!! If ANYTHING...a sissy will take care of YOU!!!...Basically . [:'(][:'(][:'(][:'(][:'(]

SweetDommes -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:45:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71 What a steaming load!!!! If you don't fit the description, then fine, but IN GENERAL every last one of the ones that has contacted us didn't want to serve - they wanted to be forced to do things ... and that is not what we are looking for. If you are not one of that variety, then GREAT state that not all are like that, that you aren't, and/or that you know others who aren't ... but DO NOT tell me that my experience is incorrect, false, or otherwise "a crock" or "a steaming load" ... YOU HAVE NOT TALKED TO THESE PEOPLE AS WE HAVE SO DON'T YOU DARE TELL US WHAT WE HAVE SEEN!!!

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:48:27 PM)
I certainly do not generalize dominants like that. Thats like saying...all dominants care about is money...or all dominants care about is themselves.

SweetDommes -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:56:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71 I certainly do not generalize dominants like that. Thats like saying...all dominants care about is money...or all dominants care about is themselves. And that is exactly why NO ONE said anything about "all" ... geez, read what we said, for the love of whatever you hold Holy ... "in general" means that there are exceptions, so does "generally" ...

onceburned -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:57:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sissyslave71 You have no idea what you are talking about. What a crock!!! This has been a very nice thread with the dommes discussing something they personally enjoy. And I think they have been polite in saying that there is nothing wrong with femmed men - but that it is not their kink. I have found it to be a refreshing, and intriguing, discussion. It has felt like a breath of fresh air. Please do not get hung up on one sentence. I think the conversation has been polite -- unlike the manner in which your comments were framed. Remember, this is the 'Ask the Mistress' forum. You and I are here as guests. We should conduct ourselves accordingly.

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 2:59:11 PM)
Thats not the way I read it.

Sissyslave71 -> RE: forced masculinity (2/24/2005 3:00:24 PM)
quote: This has been a very nice thread with the dommes discussing something they personally enjoy. Fine...goodbye. [>:]

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