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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 12:54:42 PM   
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Thanks for the vote of confidence.  i did handle it poorly.  Shouldnt have gotten aggressive.  She is just a cat.  i honestly know better then to tangle with her and i usually steer clear of tangling with that cat, cos i always lose. 

LOL LaTigresse.  Female cats are TERRIBLE.  My Snow is the most laid back cat i've ever seen.  i could drive a car over him and he wouldnt think twice.  LOL  He's just chill.  And of course, he's the only male in the house.  Two other female cats.  Sox is mentally impaired (lets thank hartz flea med) and abit high strung, but not so terrible.  She bit me cos i was trying to figure out a linux server instead of pet her.  Nadia.. (Naughty Nadia) is just wicked.  I get the same thing when i try and pet her.  i can pet her for about 2 minutes and then she bites.  I usually just instigate her more.... or steer clear of her.  LOL  She also beats up Sox = (  Mean little witch Nadia is.... 

BR - i usually offer tuna fish for them.  i open up the can (they all know what that means) i give em a whiff and then i attack with pills and then i treat them to tuna afterwards.  The whole meat thing wouldnt work because their smart cats.  i tried putting garlic in their food (helps with fleas i heard) and they literally ate around the garlic.  i think i'll just let the vet do it in the future.  Nadia does sort of give me the willies anyways.  she's WICKED.  Let the Vet handle it.  LOL

this i know Katy and i keep away. 


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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:03:11 PM   
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The only sympathy I have here is for the cat!
Too bad she didn't get out the door and run away.
 
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i tried to ignore you, but i cant.  My schools linux server is pissing me off.  We go a long way back on "cats" and i remember the last time you said anything to me about cats - it was pretty damn harsh.  Merely because we have opposing views on whether to keep cats indoor/outdoors.  You remember, it was when i lost a cat and was really really upset about it and all you wanted to do was slam me for my choice of letting it go outdoors. 

Too bad YOU cant grow up abit and learn that your way isnt the right way and we all have our own "right way".  Too bad you cant learn to be less judgemental and step off your high horse for a moment.  Too bad you have to be a know it all. 

Its unfortunate i already know your feelings on the subject with me and my cats.  i guess you also feel for the stray cats that i try and rescue when i have time since they are "outdoor" kitties.  

She did get out the door  = )  She just came back. 


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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:05:18 PM   
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have never ever gotten upset?  Never had a bad day?  You've never handled ANY situation in your life poorly? 
 Answer yes to all the above.  But I don't come on here ranting and raving about it. Then insult everyone because they commented on it. Hey You wrote all that. So deal with itNever said you abused the cat either (if you read). And wtf does this perfect crap have to do with anything? Never said I  or anyone else was.
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throw the first stone lady. 
 your a feisty lil thing  LOL

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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:10:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

last night a threw a clipboard at my screaming parrots cage.

I still have a bite mark on my finger tip from when i tried to feed him.

Get rid of the cat, if it is biting you =-=


Pahunkboy..get rid of the bird.  You aren't having any fun and neither is the bird.  (been there done that)

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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:19:30 PM   
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your a feisty lil thing  LOL


hey now, who you calling little.  i'll have you know mentally i'm 6'3 and 200 lbs.  Aye, i've been in a terrible mood lately.  Luckily i am controlling it alot.  When the lady at the chinese place the other night rolled her eyes because i couldnt understand her.... i simply apologized and explained i had a pounding head ache.  Instead of going off the mouth about customer service and having patience and being polite and rolling ones eyes will just have you losing customers and she REALLY didnt want me sitting outside (or near) her resturant telling everyone i found roaches in my food. 

Other then here, i've only gone off the mouth at my brother.  But then, when i dont answer my phone - that doesnt mean call me again 2 secs later.  Obviously i'm busy and Obviously i'd return his call when i could.  Which is generally why a phone isnt answered. 

i just sort of let it all out last night in this post.  Its hard to be nice when all you feel is bitchy.  Sorta builds up.  And i feel MUCH better after this thread.  LMAO.  Feels great to be bitchy when you are bitchy.  kwim?


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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:19:38 PM   
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Now count the number of posts here that all "assumed" the same thing.  Grow up. .. you got called on your behaviour.. suck it up.  (you may have to suck hard)
 
BTW.. didn't  you say you were a cutter?? And a cat  gets you upset because you bleed a bit??
 

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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:23:09 PM   
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Oh, and anyone that thought the described handling of the cat was too much.........I suggest you avoid ever seeing what goes on behind the scenes at a vet's office.

What you see when you are there and the reality, two vastly different things.

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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:38:27 PM   
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No lotus, i didnt get called on my behavior.  i got called abusive.  i agree, i was rough.  Call me on that.  Yup, a few ppl did assume and a few ppl didnt.  They assumed i was abusive and brutalizing.  Abit extreme dont you think? 

and no.... i wont be sucking up anything....... as i dont swallow shit

Actually, i'm an ex cutter.  It was her intent, not the fact that she scratched me and bit me.  She was doing it to be wicked.   Her malicious intent pissed me off.  Just like your malicious intent is pissing me off.  = ) 

i was called on something that was untrue that others assumed.  If they called me on handling the situation poorly and being overly aggressive - i'd of agreed.  Sorry i cant just throw the abuse word around like so many do on these threads.  Personally, thats a serious allegation. 

<wicked grin>  NOW if you want to call me on something.......  when i walked by my pool holding the wicked little thing (awhile ago) and she dug all of her nails into my back and had me hollaring out........  i managed to find her.. pick her back up.. and THREW her into the pool.  God damn right.  And your god damn right it was malicious and spiteful.

Want to call me on something?  Do it RIGHT.  Call me what ever you'd like for tossing her in the pool.  LMAO That shit was funny.  Served her right

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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 1:49:10 PM   
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And you know what?  You can call me a few other things for the fights i used to get into with an ex dog.  Piss ant cocker spaniel he was.  Literally picked him off my bed by the hair on the back of his neck and the skin on his ass and threw him and he went into a wall.  Damn right too.  Lil bastard.

Pissed ON my bed and was laying ON my bed and when i went to get him off he snapped and almost got me.  LaTigresse.. i've most of my scars from him.  Aggressive little shit he was.. but so sweet when he wanted to be.

i did have to get rid of him cos he jumped, snarled, snapped at my 6 month old when she was petting him.  = (  He was soooooo jealous.  But i found him a "best friend" and he lives with her now.  Cos otherwise... if he had bit my kid - i'd of been liable to throw him off the balcony.  Literally. 

call me on that too = )  Infact you can call me abusive even.  Cos he would have gone over the balcony.

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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 6:21:45 PM   
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Oh, and anyone that thought the described handling of the cat was too much.........I suggest you avoid ever seeing what goes on behind the scenes at a vet's office.

What you see when you are there and the reality, two vastly different things.


I was a vet tech at one time.  Been there..done that also.  And never had to "slam a cat".. oh..and I raised show cats for 15 years.  Never had to "slam" a one.

Edited to add:  The vet I worked for decided a gentle golden reteiver she just met for treatment might be a threat and while it was in the back room.. the first thing she did was belt it in the stomach.  No provacation. She was afraid of big dogs! I reported her ass to my usual vet.. who was presesident of the board of vets at the time.  Strangely enough.. I don't see her around anymore.  

I do not suffer fools lightly.

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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 11:38:27 PM   
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If you need to give them pills in the future, save everyone the stress and stick the pill in a small clump of raw ground meat.  If need be, give them a little taste of just ground meat to start with, then the clump with the pill.



Thank you, thank you, thank you!  i myself will try this the next time....pill mixed in some food.  Sounds like it could work for me!
 
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RE: venting - 2/2/2007 11:56:20 PM   
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      As a general rule (and there are all kinds of very cool exceptions), cats are savage little predators.  If they were twice as big, it would probably be illegal to own them.

     When our vicious little ADD or demonically possessed kitten was new, she scratched at my eye while sitting on my chest.  She did a triple somersault on her way to a landing and my wife's reaction was similar to what happened here.  But she never went for my eyes again.

    Many medications for dogs now come in the form of a 'treat.'  Maybe the same is available for felines.

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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 4:48:21 AM   
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you just take it out on the cat cause your still bigger then her.
I suggest you go deal with your real problems now.

As for the tape worm pill.
Hope you realize those suckers crawl back out and get in your food when your not looking.

If you end up loosing weight all of a sudden.
Lots of luck kitten.

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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 7:17:35 AM   
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I once had a whole animal shelter investigated a couple of years back because of the way they treat their animals.  The Miami - Dade Police Shelter.  i've also stolen animals out of their euthanasia room because they were too lazy to have a vet look at them and figured putting them to sleep was easiest.  I've also stood in the shelter and a holier then cow fit over a few things.  Whats your point Lotus?

Unfortunetly Wyrd my demonic kitten still attacks = (  But then the closests she's ever come to flying was a pool and then of course she's never hit me in the eye.  i cant imagine how much that would hurt.  Oh good lord. 

Actually Mas, no offense, but your ignorance is showing.  After speaking to the vet intensively about tapeworms i was assured that they can not pass them to me.  Tapeworm comes from FLEAS.  What happened was 2 of my cats swallowed a flea (that had tapeworm) and i medicated the whole lot of them.  (had a flea problem)  I was assured that unless i was swallowing fleas, i was good to go.  I was also assured that the possiblity of a human swallowing a flea was next to none.  Although i did present the question of "what if one climbs in my mouth while i'm sleeping" and i was assured fleas dont like wet mouths.  Now pinworms are abit different. 

On top of that none of my pets started to lose weight.  They're all ummmmm... healthy little buggers.  i thought they might just be getting bloated.. but i think they're just a bit over wieght.  Even lil Nadia who was always scrawny seems to have put on some weight.  Whatcha gonna do? I cant force them to excercise, not gonna starve them.  And if i try and cut back on their food - they bite and get pissed off.  Ah well. 






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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 10:54:19 AM   
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My ADD kitten only likes my husband, unless I have a goody or dinner. Occasionally she will have a mood swing towards me, and she starts licking me and purring, then the next thing I know she is chomping down on me. It's likes she has to wash me before she eats me! Then she just gets the cat-apult from my lap.

I have probably kicked her in the face a couple of times. She attacks me from under the bed, and my first reaction is to get her claws / mouth the fuck off of me. I have shut her in the closet (not for a long period of time) because she won't stop opening the door, and causing us to run into it and hurt ourselves. I have probably smacked her in to the wall on occasion, when she won't stop attacking my butt / thighs when I am trying to pee.

Am I abusive, I think not. Is Devilslilsister abusive, I think not.

You should see my skin; I look like I am a cutter. When I get a pedicure they look at me weird. I have all these scratches on my feet, and between my toes.

Though I probably ask for it sometimes. I do like to instigate. It is ever so much fun. She receives as well as returns.

My cat is wicked and occasionally I will call her The Spawn of Satan

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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 12:04:16 PM   
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lol MsPoet - that has me cracking up..........  "spawn of satan"  heh.  We call my wicked one "Naughty Nadia"  i usually dont pounce on her unless she instigates first.  i have been known to "help" a cat down the stairs, but thats usually because they're trying to trip me up as i'm going down the stairs and my arms are full.  If they dont get the F*** out of my way, i'm going down the stairs.  Same with the damn dog.  Damn thing has knocked my wee one down the stairs a few times, so now i've got her trained to were if there is another HUMAN on the stairs she best keep off of em. 

Talking about problems.  i've a 2 year old golden, whose a GOOD dog.  Even if she's an attention whore.  She's starting to get aggressive issues and i'm not too sure what to do about em.  I think its because her main "job" is to protect the house.  God help anyone who walked into my house uninvited or was in the neighbors yard, or was in my court.. or came out of their house.  Never bit anyone, but literally scared the daylights out of em.  Had a UPS guy cornered on my neighbors driveway (lol very funny)  Sweet dog and once i tell her some ones "ok" she is all tail wagging and their best friend.  I think her "protective" thing is becoming an aggression issue.  I knew i had to start keeping an eye on her when a neighborhood dog appeared on my drive way startling me and i ended up having to pull my dog off its throat.  That and a few other incidents and granted she was "protecting" but i knew it would carry over to us.  The wee one plays with the dog, the dog gets tired, the dog gets grouchy.  Had to stick her outside last night for 2 hours cos her groutchiness had her teeth coming in contact with my wee ones forhead.  No harm done, but not acceptable.  ::sigh:: Other then keep an eye on the two of them i'm not sure what to do.  She's a good dog, but i swear if she harms my wee one - i'm liable to become a lion and destroy the threat.  No matter how much i keep on top, i end up missing something.  I try and limit the aggressive behavior.  She's not allowed to chase down ppl out front, not allowed to chase the cats.. not allowed to growl at ppl through the window..... 

i dunno what to do about her - but it seems like eventually we wont be able to keep her.  Cats are cats and the only thing i can train them to do is follow me while i take a walk.  The dog listens to me, obeys me.....  gots to be something.

any advice?


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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 12:12:38 PM   
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Insert the pill directly into the evil kitty's tummy...scissors work nicely.

If God didn't want us to eat animals...they wouldn't be made out of meat.

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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 12:17:27 PM   
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Cats now WE love them, our little willow sleeps at dads head on his pillow smiles,,NOW show me a man that doesn't like cats then I"LL show you a man that doesn't like women...I swear smiles..bounty

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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 3:02:52 PM   
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Funny thing is, most of the people we are talking about will not post on this thread.
That tells you something right there.

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RE: venting - 2/3/2007 5:33:21 PM   
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Talking about problems.  i've a 2 year old golden, whose a GOOD dog.  Even if she's an attention whore.  She's starting to get aggressive issues and i'm not too sure what to do about em.  I think its because her main "job" is to protect the house.  God help anyone who walked into my house uninvited or was in the neighbors yard, or was in my court.. or came out of their house.  Never bit anyone, but literally scared the daylights out of em.  Had a UPS guy cornered on my neighbors driveway (lol very funny)  Sweet dog and once i tell her some ones "ok" she is all tail wagging and their best friend.  I think her "protective" thing is becoming an aggression issue.  I knew i had to start keeping an eye on her when a neighborhood dog appeared on my drive way startling me and i ended up having to pull my dog off its throat.  That and a few other incidents and granted she was "protecting" but i knew it would carry over to us.  The wee one plays with the dog, the dog gets tired, the dog gets grouchy.  Had to stick her outside last night for 2 hours cos her groutchiness had her teeth coming in contact with my wee ones forhead.  No harm done, but not acceptable.  ::sigh:: Other then keep an eye on the two of them i'm not sure what to do.  She's a good dog, but i swear if she harms my wee one - i'm liable to become a lion and destroy the threat.  No matter how much i keep on top, i end up missing something.  I try and limit the aggressive behavior.  She's not allowed to chase down ppl out front, not allowed to chase the cats.. not allowed to growl at ppl through the window..... 

i dunno what to do about her - but it seems like eventually we wont be able to keep her.  Cats are cats and the only thing i can train them to do is follow me while i take a walk.  The dog listens to me, obeys me.....  gots to be something.

any advice?


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