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You appear to look down on those who choose a different path than yours. While I find it difficult sometimes to see what people get out of it, when they are weekend warriors so to speak or have limits within their relationship, it obviously fulfills a need in them or else they would not do it.

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My apologies if that wasn't conveyed by my words. They were responsive to the challenge of the way we live, and not meant to disparage anyone else's "way". There is NO "way".

I DO challenge those that live on-line because I believe they are cheating themselves. I especially challenge those that ONLY have on-line "experience" (NOT the correct word).

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You haven't exactly been honest with many here. When you are it is in private as you are saying everyone here is a joke. Which I am sure you've said about me many times in the past to other's as well. Keep saying it...because I have my own feelings as well.

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I never said every ONE here is a joke, although may people, especially those that have multiple personality disorder evidenced by multiple profiles ARE a joke. If some of the posts here aren't intended to be jokes - they sure fooled me. I accept NO ONE here as real until I've met them. No one should. The large percentage of threads pointing out the fakes, phonies and wannabes bear out that attitude is correct. Yet, if someone posts a question or brings up a concern I trust they are representing themselves honestly. I won't try to interpret what they "REALLY" mean.

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

The rules portion which is included in My contracts is for the slave's benefit as far as referring to and learning the rules. They are just included in the contract for the sake of convenience, and also indicates that the slave has read them and has agreed and signed.
My rules have a tenddancy to be more on the service oriented side, as opposed to the sexual areas, as the largest percentage of a live-ins life is about non-sexual service (with Me, that is). So it is helpful to have these things clearly understood up front.
Regarding a journal...I say a page a day, handwritten, and I do spend time each week reading, discussing and I initial the entries. It is a good discipline.
Ya know, whatever works for any relationship, is a good thing.
I don't find Myself bogged down by too many rules, and there is always flexibility in given situations. But I have found that most of the boys really want to know, and need some sort of strict guidelines they can agree to, learn and become acclimated to. It seems to make clear My expectations, and they don't have to play a guessing game.

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ORIGINAL: asissyforher


i have heard an awful lot about journals. funny thing is i just never can find anything earth shattering to write about. everyday is the same to me. get up, do what ya have to. go to bed. there is just nothing that sticks in my mind worth writing down. i am lucky if i write in my one here, once a month. and it is mainly my running exploits when i go somewhere to meet someone. my daily life i find dull and boring. and what is the purpose of writing something in a journal when She is right there to talk to? i never could grab that concept. must be some new generation thing.

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

it doesn't have to be eath shattering. It just has to be something. I write things that I've been wondering about, or things that caught in mymind, or things that I did that I was particularly proud/ashamed of.

If -you- find your life dull, what is there for your owner? I'm not saying this as an insult, rather as an idea for a change of outlook. I figure if I cant muster enthusiasm about my life, why should anyone else?

Sure, my partner is right here to talk to. Sometimes, it's easier to say things in print. For example, I have a very hard time asking for sexual things. We're working on my ability to verbalize it, but my journal is a good place to ask without having to ask face to face. It's sort of an intermediate step for things that make you uncomfortable.

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what is the purpose of writing something in a journal when She is right there to talk to? i never could grab that concept. must be some new generation thing.

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ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

I've been doing some research into service contracts (the kind that simply outline the expectations/rule for both parties) because the person we've just begun a relationship with is interested in them as a starting place for my basic rules.

I've come accross some that make a lot of sense and some that make a little, but in the spirit of curiosity and inquiry, I'd like some input on this one. (Not the whole thing, selected aspects and the list of expectations for the slave) (Upfront, I don't know if this is for a cyber relationship or a realtime relationship, nor if it matters either way)

On either side of the whip-- Are these rules fesable? Are they advised? Would you impose such on your girl/boy? Is this the kind of service contract that would be easily applicable to every day interaction? Would you find yourself bogged down by too many rules?

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Rules for Life:
1.Upon acceptance of this life all that this slave’s is belongs to Master, therefore no longer will the words “My, me, mine or I” be appropriate. As a possession of Master, all reference will consider this.

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2.Cumming is a gift given by Master, permission to do so must be requested and granted by Master.

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3.Within 30 seconds of being alone or with Master all clothing must be removed.

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4.Wearing panties or bra is not permitted.

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5.When alone or with Master, collar and cuffs must be worn. Collar and cuffs must also be worn when sleeping.

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6.When alone at Master’s residency, chains will be attached in a manner directed by Master.

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7.When with Master, or at the Master’s residence, nothing, including personal hygiene, is done without Master’s permission – no permission is to be implied.

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8. gs, underarms, and genital area must be completely shaved smooth, until Master deems to have it permanently removed, for Master’s touch.

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9.Crawling will be my mode of movement when alone or at Master’s residence unless otherwise directed by Master.

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10.No use of furniture unless approved by Master.

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11.Master must be thanked immediately for all gifts or privileges granted, including punishment or discipline.

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12.Master’s ultimate gifts are his fluids, either his cum or his piss. Being precious, they should be begged for and either worn or digested, but only if first given permission. If Master deems sluts mouth worthy of receiving His cum, slave must hold it in her mouth and ask for permission to swallow.

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13.If Master deems slave’s cunt worthy of cum, slave will use her fingers to scoop it out and either wear or eat it as directed by Master.

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14.After every use Master’s cock and balls will be licked clean by slave. If the slave’s ass is used, slave may use a warm washcloth finishing the cleaning with slave’s mouth.

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15.When instructed, the following positions will be maintained: (Each position practiced each day – getting into position and maintaining it for 30 seconds while saying it’s name aloud.)
A.Rest: Kneeling, legs apart, sitting on heals, hands palms up on thighs, head bowed.
B.Present: Same as above, with hands interlocked behind head.
C.Puppy: On back, knees bent toward chest, elbows off ground, feet off ground, hands palms up, mouth open, tongue panting.
D.Bitch: Ass up, head on floor, arms stretched fully in front.
E.Slut: On back, legs spread wide, knees slightly bent, cunt lips pulled open by fingers.
F.Pretty Tits: In ‘Rest’ position with hands cupped under tits.

16.A journal entry will be made each day, minimum 250 words. Included will be all infractions of thought or deed, questions, desires, ideas to please Master, fantasies, fears, frustrations, accomplishments, goals, and progress toward goals. This is not limited to sexual or slave related things. Master will read, comment, and initial the entries.

17.Master must approve all clothing. Clothes should be modeled, either on slave, or in front of slave prior to putting on and receiving Master’s approval. Clothing should be picked based upon their attractiveness to Master and allow easy access to slave.

18.Touching breasts, nipples, cunt, or clit in any manner in not permitted without the express permission from Master.

19.Master has use of His slave’s body in any way, at any time He desires and His slave will always be available to Him. Any indication of sexual desire by Master either by touch, motion, word, or gesture will be encouraged by slave by providing access.

20.It is expected that slave will suggest ways to further training and use, verbally or through journal writings.

21.It is expected that slave will offer various parts of her body to Master in hopes He will take pleasure and use them in whatever ways He wishes.

22.Master’s pleasure is paramount. Sexual overtones should be a part of all behavior. All actions, walking, running, standing, kneeling, speaking, listening, will be in a manner pleasing to Master.

23.Master’s ‘toys’ will be maintained in good condition by slave, and displayed by slave in a manner providing easy access.

24.Whenever ‘Instant Messaging’ with Master, slave will always have webcam providing Master view of slave.

25.Each day, slave will kneel in the ‘Rest’ position in front of a mirror and read this entire document out loud. Ultimate goal would be to have them memorized. Afterwards, slave will close her eyes and meditate in that position for a minimum of 5 minutes.