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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/13/2007 10:55:19 PM

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LA LA is right. You need a real bra. Those suckers are big money. Mrs. Troll does bench pressing and strength training and her back doesn’t bother her as long as she sticks to it and keeps her back strong.

That's another problem. To get a bra that fits me properly and won't break in a month (my breasts destroy underwires) I have to spend 50 a pop on the possibly the least sexy bra on the market.

Agreeing with what was said above about strength-training and proper bras. I've a good size rack at 34I and I've zero pain from them due to having a strong back and properly fitting bras. I've some cutesy bras that are nicely supportive, then I have full-coverage bras that I can do jumping jacks and jogging in and nothing moves.

Quality bras do cost a lot but are SO worth it. Mine normally cost between $80-120 each, unless I find a sale, but they support wonderfully and all have lasted for years without any need for repairs (to include no underwire slippage).

Bravissimo.com is my favorite supplier, figleaves.com also supplies larger sizes, brastop.om often will sell you the same bra as is being offered on those sites for a lower price (once you know your right size in that make, this can be handy!).

Most females are wearing the wrong size bra, hence so much pain for anything above a C cup out there. I don't know if you know them, so I'll mention a few of the most common signs of a wrong bra fit: if you can put snap it in front and twist it around to the back, if the back raises up during the day, if your straps are taking any of your breast weight or digging in, if the point between your breasts does not lay competely flat.

Best of luck with whatever you decide on the reduction, hopefully in the meantime at least you can get more comfortable.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/14/2007 12:04:05 AM

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Speaking from experience:

I had my reduction close to 6 years ago. It was the best thing I could have ever done for myself and for my back. In total I had 8 pounds removed. When seeing the specialist he explained that I had torn muscles and tissue being that large and pendulous that would never 'snap' back into place.

The surgery took close to 4 hours, but I was able to go home the very same day. All of my stitches were internal -- nothing to be removed. I had an excellent doctor. I recommend that you talk to your surgeon about how the procedure will be done. I did not have my 'nipples' removed from blood supply -- so I lost NO sensitivity -- as a matter of fact I GAINED some in losing all the extra weight pulling them down. I also recommend that if you are choosing a doctor you ask for or seek out real life experience and recommendation. I did and I am very glad I did. Shortly after my own reduction, a neighbor went to another doctor who sized her down (a total of one pound) and her scaring and experience were FAR worse then my own.

Also if you choose to do it -- follow the doctors care instructions to a T after surgery --- drink tons and tons of water --- start massage of the scars (using a really good moisturizer) and it will help eliminate some of the scaring -- mine are BARELY noticable now and my doctor says that the way I healed had a lot to do with how I took care of the incisions in the days/weeks after.

Please message me if you want more information -- or support if you choose to go through this .... *huggles*

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/14/2007 12:13:48 AM

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Hello Aquatic Sub,

How long is the expected recovery time? Do you have someone
to tend your needs while you are healing?

Also, I had a friend who was very petite and took ballet lessons
for years, until she started to develop. Well, she developed out
of proportion to her body size and had to switch to modern dance.
Later on, she had the reduction surgery and was very happy with
the results. But her first experiences of standing and walking
afterwards required assistance, as her sense of balance was
learning to re-adjust.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 5:34:56 AM

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Also if you choose to do it -- follow the doctors care instructions to a T after surgery --- drink tons and tons of water --- start massage of the scars (using a really good moisturizer) and it will help eliminate some of the scaring --

Just on that note:

The homeopathic remedy Arnica is fabulous for both pre- and post-op healing, bruising and swelling, as well as trauma and shock. A qualified homeopath can advise, but the remedy is also freely available from health food shops, just talk to the salesperson and follow the instructions (less is more with homepathic remedies, always stop when you feel an improvement!)

Also, the 100% natural essential oil Lavender is an excellent massage oil for scar tissue, as is Mandarin oil (brilliant for stretch marks!) A combination of 3 drops each of these oils per 10 ml of a carrier oil such as sweet almond, or grapeseed, will dramatically reduce scarring and aid with healing time. That's 6 drops only per 10ml of carrier, for an average sized adult, if in any doubt use less.

The best of luck to you, whatever your decision.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 6:51:42 AM

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Y'know, as the person who lives with her and sees her dealing with these two colossal breasts day in and day out, I think perhaps I should weigh in on the issue. Now, don't get me wrong - I'm a breast man through and through, but I know from a simple self-assessment of my body that carrying around her breasts would tear my back to pieces. I used to work in landscaping, which was a good deal of heavy lifting and carrying, so my back muscles are in relatively good shape, and I still wince at the sort of load she's carrying.

I've seen her bras, and I've seen her clothes... I wear a Large-size t-shirt, and what's loose and comfortable on me has to stretch pretty tightly to cover Aqua's chest. She's always arching and twisting her back, leaning or laying against things, trying to give her muscles some relief. I've been to a chiropractor many times and been given instructions on how to keep my spine in alignment, and I don't believe that her back pain is so much the result of a mis-adjustment as it is from the muscles being constantly overworked. I've been shown what a properly aligned back feels like, and Aqua's feels fine to me - except that she's carrying nearly 20 pounds on her chest, and she's a small - if sturdily built - woman, about 5'3" or 5'4" tall.

I love this girl with all my heart, and as much as I like putting her in pleasure/pain, it kills me to see her suffering. I've told her that I'll support her no matter what she does, and that includes getting the reduction - would rather have her happy and well than over-busty and in pain.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 9:15:57 AM

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Speaking as someone that was overly blessed, I totally understand the desire to downsize. When I can afford it (my insurance will not pay because it is not causing me any health problems) I will most definately have surgery.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 9:26:35 AM

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Not much to say, but I am enjoying the breast chat. :)
My Mistress lost weight and her bra size went from a 40C to a 36C. and she only lost about 25 pounds.
I do understand that all women will not lose weight in their breasts when they drop weight.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 9:36:26 AM

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I think that if it causes you discomfort, then He/She should allow you to do what is needed to help yourself. You may belong to Him but you still need to take care of yourself.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 9:41:51 AM

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I have a very hard time believing surgery is the answer.

Of course a plastic surgeon is going to tell you it is, what else would you expect?

Our society today is far too geared toward magic pills and surgery to cure everything. I suspect that, with a good diet and good exercise, your natural shape would be quite functional and beautiful. It's so much easier just to have a surgeon 'fix' you, I know, but that doesn't mean it's the best way to go.

I don't know if you missed the part where I said I've been losing weight and they aren't getting smaller... but there it is again.

Some women are born with breasts that simply do not match their figure. Some women, like me, are suffering incredible back pain. In extreme cases there are women with permanent marks in their shoulders from their bra. Second off, the plasic surgeon isn't going to lie to me and tell me I need something when I don't. Trust me, he makes a ton of money and doesn't need to tell a suffering 22 year old lies in order to make a little more. Also, he's a family friend.

Very true but how much weight have you lost so far? It may or may not take a bit more weight loss before you begin to lose breast mass. But then again, I'm not sure. For some, it has only meant losing a bit more weight before the breasts reduce as well.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 9:48:27 AM

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Y'know, as the person who lives with her and sees her dealing with these two colossal breasts day in and day out, I think perhaps I should weigh in on the issue. Now, don't get me wrong - I'm a breast man through and through, but I know from a simple self-assessment of my body that carrying around her breasts would tear my back to pieces. I used to work in landscaping, which was a good deal of heavy lifting and carrying, so my back muscles are in relatively good shape, and I still wince at the sort of load she's carrying.

I've seen her bras, and I've seen her clothes... I wear a Large-size t-shirt, and what's loose and comfortable on me has to stretch pretty tightly to cover Aqua's chest. She's always arching and twisting her back, leaning or laying against things, trying to give her muscles some relief. I've been to a chiropractor many times and been given instructions on how to keep my spine in alignment, and I don't believe that her back pain is so much the result of a mis-adjustment as it is from the muscles being constantly overworked. I've been shown what a properly aligned back feels like, and Aqua's feels fine to me - except that she's carrying nearly 20 pounds on her chest, and she's a small - if sturdily built - woman, about 5'3" or 5'4" tall.

I love this girl with all my heart, and as much as I like putting her in pleasure/pain, it kills me to see her suffering. I've told her that I'll support her no matter what she does, and that includes getting the reduction - would rather have her happy and well than over-busty and in pain.

I applaud you! We don't find decent men like you very much anymore. Aqua's lucky to have found you. Good luck and best wishes to you both.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 9:56:32 AM

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The homeopathic remedy Arnica is fabulous for both pre- and post-op healing, bruising and swelling, as well as trauma and shock. A qualified homeopath can advise, but the remedy is also freely available from health food shops, just talk to the salesperson and follow the instructions (less is more with homepathic remedies, always stop when you feel an improvement!)

Also, the 100% natural essential oil Lavender is an excellent massage oil for scar tissue, as is Mandarin oil (brilliant for stretch marks!) A combination of 3 drops each of these oils per 10 ml of a carrier oil such as sweet almond, or grapeseed, will dramatically reduce scarring and aid with healing time. That's 6 drops only per 10ml of carrier, for an average sized adult, if in any doubt use less.

The best of luck to you, whatever your decision.

Ooo I love arnica gel. When I got to college I was introduced to it by the first dominant I played with. It's great for getting those marks on your neck to go away before your parents come down visit!

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 9:58:44 AM

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Speaking as someone that was overly blessed, I totally understand the desire to downsize. When I can afford it (my insurance will not pay because it is not causing me any health problems) I will most definately have surgery.

My insurance won't pay either and the doctor was sure they would. They are evil.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 10:01:33 AM

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I applaud you! We don't find decent men like you very much anymore. Aqua's lucky to have found you. Good luck and best wishes to you both.

*Smiles* I got real lucky.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 10:09:05 AM

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Not much to say, but I am enjoying the breast chat. :)
My Mistress lost weight and her bra size went from a 40C to a 36C. and she only lost about 25 pounds.
I do understand that all women will not lose weight in their breasts when they drop weight.

As a side note, the problem isn't with the band size but the cup size. Weight loss can easily turn someone from a 44 to a 36 band size, but the cup size is what is causing her pain. And, if the band size went down significantly while the cup size stayed the same, it would just mean even more pain.

I don't have this problem, thank god, but I wish you the best of luck!

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 10:30:58 AM

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As a side note, the problem isn't with the band size but the cup size. Weight loss can easily turn someone from a 44 to a 36 band size, but the cup size is what is causing her pain. And, if the band size went down significantly while the cup size stayed the same, it would just mean even more pain.

I don't have this problem, thank god, but I wish you the best of luck!

More pain? *whimper*

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 11:15:02 AM

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Considering how young you are I'd suggest looking at a good bra and also strengthening your back muscles as well as upper body (for instance in your user picture/avatar it doesn't look like you are wearing a good supportive bra). I've found that a good bra is really the main thing that helps and also having strong back muscles I haven't really had a problem with back pain at all. For day to day wear I usually use Playtex 18 hour bras because their straps are extra supportive. Bali and Olga bra's are also very good brands in general.

Personally I find Lane Bryant's bras are pretty and good for when someone is going to see me in my bra but not really good for long hours of support (they also don't have a lot that go into DDD sizes which is where I'm at in cup range).

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 12:25:05 PM

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Well, the outfit in the picture is not what I wear on a daily basis. What I'm wearing there is a bra with the straps pulled down. :-)

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 12:29:31 PM

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I really don't think that a woman could have too many breasteses.

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 2:32:40 PM

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As a side note, the problem isn't with the band size but the cup size. Weight loss can easily turn someone from a 44 to a 36 band size, but the cup size is what is causing her pain. And, if the band size went down significantly while the cup size stayed the same, it would just mean even more pain.

I don't have this problem, thank god, but I wish you the best of luck!

More pain? *whimper*

I meant like if you were a 40DD, and went to a 34DD, it is less proportionate, so you would be balancing more boob on less weight/support, so possibilities for more pain. It is possible to lose weight in the cup size as well, keeping you proportionate. I was just frustrated that everyone thought the 38 part was what the problem was, but that is just a measurement of your chest area, not the 10lb bundles of lovin' on your chest. I hope I'm making sense here, I know sometimes people don't get what I'm saying :).

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RE: Too Much Breast? - 2/15/2007 10:38:01 PM

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i am a very lagre breasted girl...size J cup.....for the girls in thispost that have trouble getting nice baras for us big girls. gotot your local masetomy clinic and ask about where ppl get there fake boobs.. they often have a person who customs makes bras for theses woman.. i get my bras made there...and i can choose sexy colours

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