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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:50:35 AM   
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Oh, he's not gay, he's bisexual. He doesn't mind getting bj's from women and being affectionate. He just doesn't like having sex with them. After we split up, he moved in with another woman. He has no problem getting women because he looks just like Leonardo Decaprio in Man in the Iron Mask.  I'm sure he tells her he's straight too. He shacks up with women to hide his sexual orientation from his family and straight friends. That's why he married me I'm sure.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:52:07 AM   
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quite simple really put it in your profile that you won't be involved with men who've done bisexual things, then when they don't disclose it say it's in the profile read them closer next time.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:52:53 AM   
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Oh, he's not gay, he's bisexual. He doesn't mind getting bj's from women and being affectionate. He just doesn't like having sex with them. After we split up, he moved in with another woman. He has no problem getting women because he looks just like Leonardo Decaprio in Man in the Iron Mask.  I'm sure he tells her he's straight too. He shacks up with women to hide his sexual orientation from his family and straight friends. That's why he married me I'm sure.


Ok... let me explain this very slowly and carefully.

Some people are asses. It does not *REPEAT* does not matter what sexuality they are. Your husband was an ass. That does not, again does not, mean that all bisexuals are asses.

Some straight men cheat. That does not mean all straight men cheat. You can not say that because one bisexual man cheated, all of them will. If you do, you look really really stupid.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:53:27 AM   
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Good idea. Thank you.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:54:39 AM   
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Man I am glad I am a lesbian. Being str8, gay, or bi would be friggen hard to deal with.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:57:17 AM   
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You know... there are so many days I want to be straight. At least if I were straight, anything I do would be blamed on the actual reason behind it. Like I'm asshole. Not my sexuality. And then people would assume I'm capable of being faithful, instead of me having to prove it.

"You forgot to get the milk at the store! It must be because you are bisexual, not that you are forgetful!"

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:58:59 AM   
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LMAO!!! Hey I am a poly lesbian though.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 12:59:55 AM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

Oh, he's not gay, he's bisexual. He doesn't mind getting bj's from women and being affectionate. He just doesn't like having sex with them. After we split up, he moved in with another woman. He has no problem getting women because he looks just like Leonardo Decaprio in Man in the Iron Mask.  I'm sure he tells her he's straight too. He shacks up with women to hide his sexual orientation from his family and straight friends. That's why he married me I'm sure.


Ok... let me explain this very slowly and carefully.

Some people are asses. It does not *REPEAT* does not matter what sexuality they are. Your husband was an ass. That does not, again does not, mean that all bisexuals are asses.

Some straight men cheat. That does not mean all straight men cheat. You can not say that because one bisexual man cheated, all of them will. If you do, you look really really stupid.


Very true, not all bisexuals cheat. You convinced me of that awhile back.....although it is a common misconception I no longer believe that. My point is, I don't want to be with a bisexual man whether he cheats or not. That doesn't mean I don't respect bisexuals, gays, or lesbians. It means it's just not my thing.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:00:42 AM   
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Oh see that makes you even weirder then me.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:01:54 AM   
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I know you have probably posted this 6 or 700 times... but just to be clear... you do ro don't want to be with a bisexual?

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:02:02 AM   
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Man I am glad I am a lesbian. Being str8, gay, or bi would be friggen hard to deal with.


Sounds like somebody had a recent sex change.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:03:00 AM   
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Oh see that makes you even weirder then me.


Damn if you are going to put it that way.... i'm going to bed... all depressed and shit.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:06:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

quote:

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Man I am glad I am a lesbian. Being str8, gay, or bi would be friggen hard to deal with.




Sounds like somebody had a recent sex change.


Nope. Just soooo hetero I am lesbo!

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:07:27 AM   
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Very true, not all bisexuals cheat. You convinced me of that awhile back.....although it is a common misconception I no longer believe that. My point is, I don't want to be with a bisexual man whether he cheats or not. That doesn't mean I don't respect bisexuals, gays, or lesbians. It means it's just not my thing.


I totally understand that. The idea of being with a woman right now turns me off because I'm a one person gal, so for all intents and purposes I might as well be straight. However, you've commented that the possiblity of being with a man whose been with a man a few times and realized he's straight is "scary" (your own word). I can't respect that and no matter how many times you say you respect us and believe that we don't all cheat you keep saying "I guess other women will have to learn the hard way the way I did with my husband".

I know what you went through sucks. I know it hurts. I've been there. But it really sounds like you've got some issues with bisexuality that come from your husband that you should try to work through.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:07:42 AM   
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Nice pic on your profile Troll. I just had to check out the male lesbian lol

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:08:59 AM   
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Oh see that makes you even weirder then me.


Damn if you are going to put it that way.... i'm going to bed... all depressed and shit.


Awww.... *gives a hug* I really should go to bed myself. I just can't tear myself away....

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:09:36 AM   
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Thankies.

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:10:41 AM   
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Is this when you tell her you used to play doctor with the boys?

Seriously though, isn't he a cutie?

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:11:11 AM   
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Awww.... *gives a hug* I really should go to bed myself. I just can't tear myself away....


You ever watch that episode of Roseanne where the nudist couple moved next door to them?

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RE: honesty about sexual orientation - 2/19/2007 1:12:28 AM   
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Is this when you tell her you used to play doctor with the boys?

Seriously though, isn't he a cutie?


heh coroner is as close as I got.

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