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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 11:01:30 AM   
amuzingtoyou


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Status: offline 		I don't really look as oral sex as an act of submission any more than anything else we do together. It's just part of our dynamic. If he wants to use my mouth, my ass or my pussy, that is his choice. However he wishes to use them. I just happen to be fortunate he enjoys using my pussy with his mouth. GRINS.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 12:06:11 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		I'm just a silly old dom, I guess.

To me, part of 'what I do' is to allow a submissive female to embrace her sexuality, to try and work out part of society's ills.  To make a greedy slut out of her, if you will.

So, I would 'perform' on her a highly disproportionate amount of times than the amount where I 'take' as a part of her service.

All in the spirit of training, mind you.

Jeff

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 12:11:45 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		I much prefer to give than receive. Dunno why. Both are pleasant, mind you, but there's just something about a cock in my mouth that does it for me.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 12:12:16 PM   
fairerthanshe


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Status: offline 		Greetings Master Hup,

thats   f-a-i-r...

well wishes,

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 12:40:34 PM   
sugarcandy


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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 1:14:25 PM   
tricia


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Status: offline 		I'm more than content to be in a relationship that does not include cunnilingus.  Why doesn't it include this? I never asked.  I tend to stay away from dominant profiles that advertise this as an activity they particularly enjoy - simply because i do not.  A hard limit? No. 
 
I know there has been many a debate over whether  actions can be submissive or dominant.  I see sucking cock - at least in my current relationship - as a submissive act.  I often joke that while there are many who claim to be an expert at giving a blow jobs, my Master is an expert at getting them - and this suits me just fine.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 1:34:41 PM   
hisannabelle


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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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i love giving head. i just...love giving head. i'm not sure if it's the submissive connotation for me, but i love pleasing men in that way, and, well, i just have an attraction to the cock in general, especially when i can put my mouth on it :P i've come to enjoy being given oral more than i ever used to, but it's rare for Him to do that and it still makes me self-conscious and uncomfortable...i don't expect it, while i would and do actively choose to give head, often even to the exclusion of intercourse. as others have mentioned, i don't expect anything in return...i do it because i like it, because i like pleasing Him, because i love the reactions that i can elicit and because in general i just enjoy feeling men's pleasure in that way.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 1:58:07 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Ummmmmmmmmmm-----

Can you guys hold up a bit?  I have to run out and get another notebook.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 2:08:05 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		They train us submissives in cock worship at subschool, yanno.

~hoping she doesn't get her license to sub revoked for revealing a non-secret~

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 2:19:14 PM   
freyjasdottir


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Status: offline 		oh my, I can suck on my special person's cock all day every day if we were free to do so.  I've went years and years without the other so its not a big thing for me.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 2:20:02 PM   
texancutie


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Status: offline 		Oral sex a hard limit????  Maybe if you are vanilla.  Sorry, about that but maybe there are kinky people out there that have it as a hard limit, I just have never met anyone yet.  I don't think of oral as an act of submission, even though it could be percieved as such under the right circumstance.  I beg to give it, and I think he loves it when I do. 

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 2:23:25 PM   
Skarredwolfpuppy


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Status: offline 		i can't even begin to explain how much i love sucking cock! all day everyday,..if it were possible! i'd be doing it now if i wasn't sick....

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 3:12:42 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Do you have a fever?  It is so nice and toasty snuggly in there when you do----

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:28:50 PM   
violetangel


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Status: offline 		Hmm, love the taste and texture, not to mention the sounds that accompany it.  That's just the vanilla relationships, although most of the men I dated prefered to give not receive.  One told me he didn't want to "degrade" me that way.  LOL, if only he knew.  Must have an oral fixation ;)  That might explain playing the flute--definite phallic symbol if you know the history of it.

definitely need to practice my typing.

< Message edited by violetangel -- 2/22/2007 7:29:57 PM >

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/22/2007 7:36:47 PM   
Mustardseed


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Status: offline 		oops.  I forgot the other part of the question.

I've found oral sex to be an act of humiliation or even degredation when I'm choked on cock -- that is, when my throat is being slam-fucked.   I have no control over what's going on, no chance to demonstrate any talent for cocksucking whatsoever short of trying to keep my teeth out of the way, can barely breathe and am mainly trying not to yak all over the cock in my mouth.   I detest it, as I have a serious gag reflex and find that sort of activity doesn't help much at all.

As an act of submission?  Generally when my Daddy grins at me evilly and wishes me a "Gooooood morning!"  It's become an in-joke between us from well over a year ago.  One morning he greeted me, and *whammo!* -- I dove face first into his croctch and started sucking him off.  After his initial alarm and bout of giggles, he got into it and has decided that it's my official secret signal.

Which can make things incredibly awkward in public, let me tell you. 

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 12:01:36 AM   
Sternhand4


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ORIGINAL: violetangel

Hmm, love the taste and texture, not to mention the sounds that accompany it.  That's just the vanilla relationships, although most of the men I dated prefered to give not receive.  One told me he didn't want to "degrade" me that way.  LOL, if only he knew.  Must have an oral fixation ;)  That might explain playing the flute--definite phallic symbol if you know the history of it.

definitely need to practice my typing.


Band camp girl?

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 12:23:26 AM   
kate


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Status: offline 		for me...it is something i just love to do....i'm good at it and i like to show off, lol....i like to put stuff in my mouth...my thumb, a finger, a cock someone's toes.....anything i can.... but there is something very special about sucking on something that "when you do a good job and do as you are told" get a treat at the end *grin*..... i could suck a cock all day if i had one around that much....and if he wants it......... as for expecting it is return....no, i don't expect anything.... i do enjoy it, but i don't expect it. 

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 1:51:39 AM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Like so many here, I do it because we like it.  Never given in return?  Nah, don't think that would work for me.  Expect it?  That wouldn't work either.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 3:22:24 AM   
violetangel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Sternhand4

quote:

ORIGINAL: violetangel

Hmm, love the taste and texture, not to mention the sounds that accompany it.  That's just the vanilla relationships, although most of the men I dated prefered to give not receive.  One told me he didn't want to "degrade" me that way.  LOL, if only he knew.  Must have an oral fixation ;)  That might explain playing the flute--definite phallic symbol if you know the history of it.

definitely need to practice my typing.


Band camp girl?


Yes, and I was the quiet one in my own little dream world.

Also, I don't quite see this as an act of submission, but it could be in certain circumstances.  Of course, I'm looking for a local group and meeting time.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 4:36:30 AM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		If the flute is a phallic symbol, then how do you explain the piccolo?

Anyway, I don't think of performing oral sex on him as a submissive act at all.  I feel as though I am totally in control and have the power to render him unable to stand, or move....reducing him to trembling, perspiring and begging me for release.  Of course, I want to please him, and if he has any requests while I am doing it, I would definitely honor them.  But I feel sort of a sense of dominance rather than submission when doing it.

I don't expect immediate reciprocation, but I  love it, too! 

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