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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 1:13:18 PM

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LOL!!! number 1 food to avoid! but such a tasty one!

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...must be the asparagus..

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Sheesh i can smell an oral thread a mile away

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 1:15:36 PM

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How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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i never gave oral in my vanilla life and so most of it conotations are submissive ones for me - however, that is one of the main reasons i enjoy it so much

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/25/2007 2:39:58 PM

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obviously as a slave i cannot have my own limits, but if i had the power to do so, receiving oral would certainly be on that list. it makes me extremely uncomfortable...feels unnatural, awkward, backwards, the world's gone upside down type of thing. because of the connotations oral sex on a female has in the vanilla world (namely that it's done to try and please/arouse the female), and also because of the physicalities of it (a man being in a position "beneath" you, looking up at you, etc.) it just disturbs my subbie wiring. so i would much prefer never having to experience that.

however giving oral to a man is something else altogether....for me it is definitely an act of submission and service, and one that i have always cherished.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 5:21:26 AM

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I am not a submissive woman, but I love to give oral sex for a long time as punishment.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 5:32:32 AM

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I like giving head. I'm happy to receive oral, but it doesn't get me off, or come anywhere close unless I'm being fingered at the same time, so I don't really care. If the Dominant enjoys performing cunnilingus, then he's welcome to it whenever he likes, but it's not something I expect, and I certainly don't expect that I should be given anything at all in return for fellatio. That to me is just a standard expectation.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 6:19:04 AM

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I enjoy giving oral as much as anything and never expect anything in return. I personally don't think a particular sexual act makes something submissive or dominant. If it is what the dominant wants it is what they get.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 6:40:52 AM

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It's not an act of submission for me, it's something I love to do and can do for hours at a time. I love being able to look up and see the look of pleasure on my partners face, and as much as I enjoy receiving I don't expect anything in return.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 7:47:30 AM

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I love receiving oral, I am a man after all. However, I also love giving cunnilingus on a bound woman because it can be so much fun to use to tease.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 3:41:24 PM

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I like giving oral to my Master and he likes giving it to me but I view my part as an act of submission because he has the power to cum on any part of my body he pleases. He views it as an act of dominance when he performs oral on me because he controls when I cum and when I don't.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 3:56:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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It's strange, but I don't enjoy cunnilingus. I don't know what, but it just doesn't rev my engine. When I imagine another woman doing it I get a little more excited about it, but I haven't had the opportunity to see if all those images of me squirming merrily are just in my head :P

Aside from that, I don't request anything in return when I give oral. I like giving it, strange enough, it's sort of relaxing, even when he's cinched down on my hair and it hurts like a mother. If I ever started bargaining, I don't think he'd be too pleased. That's not the type of submission he's after, and honestly, that's not the type I am either! Thank goodness we mesh so well <3

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 4:35:44 PM

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I saw in here someone (in jest) was taking names. With all posts in mind, I just have to say that though I have been told by many ladies that they could perform oral sex on me for for hours, I don't ever recall one of them who actually could do it for hours, let alone longer than 45 minutes.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/26/2007 4:41:46 PM

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I don't think Ron jokes about blow jobs...

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/28/2007 5:23:31 PM

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usually girl does not respond to such things.lol and in ways is quite shy when it comes to some things in public. although girl can relate to this. girl ultimately enjoys giving oral to both her Domanants. in fact girl gets off more by giving them pleasure then receiving. girl finds it common. she has talked to quite a few others like this as well.
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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/28/2007 6:15:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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I do not know the exact number, but for myself it is a bit of a fetish of mine and i loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee to provide oral service for my Sir, I do not expect nor need anything in return.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 3/13/2007 3:29:02 PM

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I enjoy performing oral for a period of time...(not 4 hours...geesh Doug..what about muscle spasms, muscle weakness and exhaustion), but not receiving. Not becuase "I need to find someone who does it right..."

I am on a journey of self discovery...I have found forced oral is a hard limit. I like to discover a man's penis during oral, I like to take my time to work towards a deep throat attempt. I like to literally get familiar with it. It turns me on to "hear" how good it feels, turns me on to feel his penis get larger in my mouth or throb.

As an act of submission....I don't have to be asked twice for oral if I like a man, but...I fantasize that I will be in a relationship where at one point....i suprise my man with oral when least expected.

Oral and vibes are too over stimulating to me I would much prefer a mans finger or 3 or intercourse to acheive orgasm. When married, the only way I could have an Orgasm was through oral...well, I found out there are other ways, and they feel so much better, more intense.

So I would not expect it back....I would prefer my man tell me how much he wants to be inside of me while I am performing oral on him...but if he HAS to perform oral...I won't turn down a few minutes of it.

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How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 3/13/2007 7:26:03 PM

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I'd like to go on record as saying....
I LOVE it.
And no, reciprocation is never expected in any form (nevermind that I don't like cunnilingus). The act itself reciprocates by satisfying my desire to feel submissive.
I especially LOVE it when he chokes me with his cock.
When it's fast, furious and ...and...and...lol
The only downer is if he can't come before my jaws start to ache. Nice if he lets me use my hands to help it along, so I can last longer. I always wondered if one was wearing a whitehead or jennings gag, if you began to choke, would the convulsion ruin your jaw muscles?
Comment anyone?

and for your reading pleasure, next......SQUICK warning!!!!....
I once went to a swing club 'cause I always wanted to see what it was about. Nevermind about the foolishness of being sexual with untested strangers, I know, I KNOW....
Anyhow, there was this guy laying on a bed with a girl sitting on him. He'd pull her close and slap her face and make her say all sorts of things and then work him a bit. I was trying not to stare, but as I had not seen such things all evening (everybody was so borrrring), I was looking at the mirrors above the beds which were angled and provided a nice view without giving someone the 'creepy' stare. So my date comes over with this couple and I am pretty much ignoring the conversation 'cause (shrug) I'm sure they're just more boring mundane people and this guy's behavior on the bed with his gal is pretty hot.
So suddenly it's being made clear to me that my date would like to go off with the chick and her husband wants to hang out with me. Yeah, yeah, whatever. So I guess he gets the right idea after two seconds and blocks my vision of the couple and pushes me down to my knees right there. (Most folks slip off to some convenient spot -not in the middle of the walk-thru.) So then he starts ordering me to suck his cock in a different voice and I am starting to get the Domly vibe from him and comply. But I ate a little while earlier and while he is not large, he is just long enough to gag me and so I keep pulling off because...well..y'know, I don't want to barf on the poor guy. So after I keep pulling off a few times, he finally says, "Do it. Throw up." I say, "Where." He says, "Right here, on yourself." I look at him kinda aghast. Then he says, "I've got a towel, I'll clean you up, but do it." And then he procedes to kick off my gag reflex again. And I do it 'cause I'm a bit of a sicko perv when it comes to humiliation, etc. So I choked a couple of times and then proceeded to give him exactly what he wanted until he finished. Yay us.

So yeah....I find giving head to be a submissive act and the less in control of it I am, the better -no separate reciprocation desired.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 3/13/2007 7:28:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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I truly love giving oral to a man; so for me, there is nothing submissive about it at all. Instead, it's a treat

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 3/13/2007 8:26:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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Another one here who enjoys giving. But I don't care for receiving. I haven't made it a hard limit (yet), but I always make clear that I don't like it. Just squicks me out more and more over time, like each time I get it reinforces how much I don't like it. I can cum from it, but it takes a LOT of mental focus and fantasy on my part. Too much like work if ya ask me!

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 3/14/2007 7:26:01 AM

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this is in the daily routine of mine. it is not returned to me until it is forced upon me. i feel weird being on the receiving end, and i am too ticklish *down there*

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 3/14/2007 7:27:02 AM

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I can cum from it, but it takes a LOT of mental focus and fantasy on my part. Too much like work if ya ask me!

same here

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