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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 5:03:34 AM   
kinkiminx


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Status: offline 		I love to give oral to a Dom, and certainly feel there's an element of submission there. I don't require cunnilingus in return, and can't help but feel those who give oral simply to get it (in a relationship) must be with the wrong partner if they can't enjoy their partner's pleasure and not just their own! It's not a limit for me either, I don't object to it, but as a sub, probably get more out of giving than recieving oral sex.
 
-ok, I confess it's not on my profile yet as I'm only looking for 100% Dom guys right now and still haven't got round to changing it, but I do switch, and would be much more interested in recieving oral when Domming than when subbing.
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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 5:53:52 AM   
cinnfulhussy


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Status: offline 		I adore giving oral, its always a wonderful way to throw me into subspace.  I am uncomfortable in recieving it from a dominant partner, however.  I'm just biased and I admit it.  I feel that the focus is on me if he is giving me oral, not on his pleasure and so I do not enjoy it.  Giving him oral is also physically pleasurable for me so I really don't feel that I'm missing a thing.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 8:58:30 AM   
s1utkitten69


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Status: offline 		I absolutly love to be forced to give oral, and I never respect it in return. Yes I love to receive it as a reward, but there is nothing like pleasing someone with oral, at least in my opinion.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 10:18:23 AM   
Missokyst


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ORIGINAL: missturbation 
Sheesh i can smell an oral thread a mile away


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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 11:27:44 AM   
StellaByStarlite


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Status: offline 		Hello. =)
 
I think it all depends on how it's done. My owner doesn't just lay back and enjoy when I'm performing oral, he gives me directions like slower, faster, more tongue, and stuff like that. At the same time, I don't expect a return favor but he loves to hear me beg and watch me wriggle for it. =)
 
So yeah, both giving and recieving oral sex has a D/s spice to it for us, sure
 
 
Cheers,
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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 2:48:45 PM   
violetangel


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

If the flute is a phallic symbol, then how do you explain the piccolo?

Anyway, I don't think of performing oral sex on him as a submissive act at all.  I feel as though I am totally in control and have the power to render him unable to stand, or move....reducing him to trembling, perspiring and begging me for release.  Of course, I want to please him, and if he has any requests while I am doing it, I would definitely honor them.  But I feel sort of a sense of dominance rather than submission when doing it.

I don't expect immediate reciprocation, but I  love it, too! 

Hmmm, it's not been loved enough?!?  oh, no mind out of gutter and down the sewer drain now.


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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 3:54:16 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		Giving him a blow job is rarely an "act of submission" for me.  Most often it is empowering and I love it. 

Him giving me oral sex is something that is rather scarey.  You have sadist plus teeth on extremely sensitive parts and there will be screams of pain, not pleasure.  Since I hate, hate, hate genital torture, this is something that I prefer not to happen.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 4:03:44 PM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?




With the right person in the right frame of mind, I enjoy giving oral to a dominant.  It feels very intimate to me and like a form or worship of sorts. 

I do not like receiving oral at all.  It makes me cringe, frankly.  But even if I did desire it, I would not be engaging in sexual intimacy of any sort,  with the thought of reciprocation fueling my actions.


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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 4:21:25 PM   
patina


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Status: offline 		I too would never expect any thing back for giving service to my Lord.  I look upon the service as a pleasure so do not need a reward as it is one in itself. 

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/23/2007 4:42:38 PM   
Zsuzsanna


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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?

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Me.  I don't expect anything in return. It is my pleasure to serve and please my Master and I do so happily.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 5:42:51 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		i love giving oral.  i don't think of it as an act of submission because it's an activity i indulged in strictly vanilla reltationships.  i'm not sure it isn't a little power exchange because i feel SO empowered when i can see His eyes start to roll back into His head and .... i can honestly say the more intense His reaction the more likely i am to orgasm without any other stimulation.  i never expect to be the recipient of oral sex and it doesn't bother me either way.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 6:26:28 AM   
rascallymisty


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Status: offline 		I could not have said it better eyesopened........well stated..... ditto for me.
 
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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 6:39:33 AM   
krys


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Status: offline 		Does it still count as an act of submission if you have orgasms while doing it?  As for getting anything in return, well, for me its kind of one stop shopping.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 6:45:50 AM   
KenDckey


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Ron   I got your back on the list.  

Giving oral is on my top 3 favorite foods list too

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 6:49:57 AM   
danreeves


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Status: offline 		I would tend to agree with Misty and eyeopen as well as stellabystarlite--I always beleived that oral is diff. a two way street--yes it pleases her-but in return for being a good slave ot sub and returning the favor espc if the day has been long-and she is tired is indeed my pleasure also--question--why is it called a blowjob-when you actually suck on it??

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 6:51:26 AM   
MissEnchantress


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Status: offline 		If he is choosing to give you oral, to pleasure you, say as a reward why wouldn't you enjoy it?  Or if he is choosing to do it because it makes you uncomfortable... wouldn't that make it a wonderful torture and enjoyable?

As posts don't convey tone very well, I am simply curious... I have a great love for exploring the psychology of BDSM.

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ORIGINAL: cinnfulhussy

I adore giving oral, its always a wonderful way to throw me into subspace.  I am uncomfortable in recieving it from a dominant partner, however.  I'm just biased and I admit it.  I feel that the focus is on me if he is giving me oral, not on his pleasure and so I do not enjoy it.  Giving him oral is also physically pleasurable for me so I really don't feel that I'm missing a thing.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 10:10:55 AM   
Wildfleurs


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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex as an act of submission to a dominant male without cunnilingus desired in return or even a hard limit?


This will probably sound trite but in my relationship pretty much everything is an act of submission since I'm his.  Whether its doing his laundry or giving him a blow job, it all falls under submission (and sometimes service) to me.

In terms of reciprocity, I don't expect it and I very rarely get it which is fine with me, I didn't get into a ds relationship expecting to get precisely everything that I give nor do I believe in keeping a scorecard.

C~


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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 10:30:13 AM   
StellaByStarlite


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Status: offline 		Hello. =)
 
 
Okay... I know ideally that a slave/sub should be always joyfully obedient and happy to pleasure her master or dom, but I'll be honest here and admit that sometimes my owner wants his knob polished and I'm not in the mood for it. LOL.
 
Being a slave, though, and mindful that I made the commitment to obey or serve him, I do it, and try to do it as well as I can. Afterward, sometimes my obedience gives me a sense of satisfaction. Sometimes it doesn't, it really depends on what I was doing before I was ordered. Which is usually sleeping. =)
 
That all sounds so damned unromantic and matter-of-fact, but to me, that's a large part of what submission is. In our relationship, that is.
 
 
Cheers,
Stella
 
 
 

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 10:33:57 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		The sub women I know have no problem with givig their Masters oral without expecting anything in return.  I know they dont prefer it to be one sided all the time, but they would never request or expect reciprocation. I have never met a single female submissive who had cunnilingus as a hard limit, in al the years I have been in the lifestyle.

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RE: How many submissive women prefer to give oral sex a... - 2/24/2007 10:38:57 AM   
BabyNyla


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I will be the wild child of the thread and say that I hate giving oral and I would do anything to get out of it.  But ... this is simply because I am not experienced in it very much (as my new hubby is my first sexual partner) ... so listening to him critique me and tell me what I am doing wrong irritates me.  I am hoping that over time I will get better and then it will become something I love to do ... since I know how much he truly does enjoy b/j.


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