WhiteRadiance
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I do not think it is my place to decide who is "real" and who isn't. All I know is what is right for ME. They are either connected mentally to me and we understand one another, or there is incompatibility. Incompatibility does not mean they aren't real. There are subs who I consider to be bottoms,as well as doms who I consider to be tops. [If someone seems to have the right attitude, is not looking for their needs to be met (in the obvious way), and seems to dote on you and your needs and desires, BUT does not physically seem to be 'getting their rocks off'. In other words, whatever you do, he isn't getting an erection. Seems to be enjoying himself, or not making any missteps in his submission, but not obviously excited.] I think Jeff makes a valid point here. If a (so-called) sub is enjoying the service and he is excited, erect, happy.. does this make him less genuine? I think if it doesn't work out- it is personality clash more often than one party being less than real. Perhaps this is why there are so many subs who can't find a "real" Domme?
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