AquaticSub
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ORIGINAL: valeca Y'know, I gotta agree here. My x-husband cheated on me, and the outcome of the infidelity devastated my life as I knew it (married out of high-school, at-home mother of two, no marketable job skills suddenly forced to support myself and my small(er) family, loss of my home...). At first, I (and most everyone in our 'world') held him entirely to blame, but at one point, I had to admit I held some fault in the breakdown of the marriage, as well. Maybe not the bulk of it (he was responsible for his actions, of course), but some. It sucked, and it was a hard pill to swallow, but it was worth it. I grew from that experience, and I used to say, "If it wasn't for all the emotional crap you have to go through, I'd really recommend divorce! It shows you how tough you can be!" I wouldn't really recommend it, of course, but I would say that the 'cheater' isn't always soley to blame. I never said they are entirely to blame. However, it still isn't right.
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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair
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