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NakedGirlScout -> RE: Doms requiring us to be braless (4/13/2007 3:23:46 AM)
I think you did the right thing, patina. The only better thing would have been not to meet him in the first place. A dom I was going to meet once told me that he refused to see me unless I was going to "expose myself" to him during our first meeting (which was in public at a bookstore). After several days of arguing and carrying on about it, he finally convinced me to do it (ok yes it was stupid of me). So I arrived and gave him this tiny little flash of a view beneath my skirt, which probably he couldn't even see let alone anybody else, but it satisfied his urge for me to follow his order. Needless to say, I got nothing out of it, since all of his other behavior after that was equally pointless and self-servingly sexual. I wish I had walked away like you, it would have saved me a few months of wondering "why, why, why?"

servilecat -> RE: Doms requiring us to be braless (4/13/2007 3:26:35 AM)
patina, It looks like you got an amazing amount of good advice. i'm about a 42I so i feel for you and completely understand. It's called a hard limit. Going without a bra is one of the few hard limits i have for obvious reasons. Daddy completely understands and accepts it because He cares about my long term health and wellfare but if He asked me to not wear one, for a little while, i would have no problem. i can not tell you how many times over 10 years i have had the exact same conversation with some supposed Dom, especially from online. Basically i don't think he had any right to you and about you at all until you had decided to give up that right. Please work on your communication and what it is you want and don't want from this lifestyle and relationships within it. Youre a beautiful woman and it is alright to be precise in what you expect and to find out what His expectations are of you up front. Just remember that being a submissive does not mean you are open to becoming anyones victim. Don't assume and don't expect Him to assume.

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Doms requiring us to be braless (4/13/2007 3:26:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NakedGirlScout I think you did the right thing, patina. The only better thing would have been not to meet him in the first place. I do not. It was just as bad as subbies that get cold feet and do not have manners to show up or even respond to calls of there where abouts. rudeness is not becoming A dom I was going to meet once told me that he refused to see me unless I was going to "expose myself" to him during our first meeting (which was in public at a bookstore). After several days of arguing and carrying on about it, he finally convinced me to do it (ok yes it was stupid of me). So I arrived and gave him this tiny little flash of a view beneath my skirt, which probably he couldn't even see let alone anybody else, but it satisfied his urge for me to follow his order. Needless to say, I got nothing out of it, since all of his other behavior after that was equally pointless and self-servingly sexual. I wish I had walked away like you, it would have saved me a few months of wondering "why, why, why?" you at least did what you said you would agree to she did not you can justify all sorts of reasons but bottom line is she did not keep her word. period. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

darcyinshadows -> RE: Doms requiring us to be braless (4/13/2007 4:51:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll ~Quicky~ After 9 pages if I don't see some boobies I am blocking the lot of you! Here's a nice pair of Boobys for you..... [;)] <image removed>

CandleInTheWind -> RE: Doms requiring us to be braless (4/13/2007 6:37:44 AM)
Patina, when i was still a member of the ample boosom crowd daddy had the same requirement...no bras....BUT....he didnt say when i had to take it off....LOL so off it would come in the car just before meeting him and on it would go after seeing him...he was ahppy i wasnt too mortified...i was always permitted to dress appropriately as we were both professional people cant have an RN and Vice principle sitting there with Giagunda tahtahs sitting onthe floor after all....LOL My advice is honestly a comfort zone...first meets in my opinion are just that for me....hard limits i give up front and if that is one for you speak up my dear!! red

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