blushingflower -> RE: Attached at the hip !! (3/17/2007 1:27:32 PM)
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It's important for people to have their own lives, yes. But my life before I met Daddy was kind of dull. I worked, I went to school, and for the most part, I stayed home. Occasionally I went to a movie alone or with a friend, but I don't have that many friends here. I have the dual problem of being an extravert and being shy. I get my energy from being with the people that I like, but it's very hard for me to meet new people, since I don't like going out in crowds and such. So then I get depressed from the lack of human interaction, and don't have the energy to go out and fall into a rut. I still go to church (though not every week, sometimes I just don't feel like schlepping up there), and I still sing in the choir at church, and I still hang out with my friends on occasion. I still call up my friends. All things that I did before I met Daddy. But when it's 6 PM and I'm home and Daddy's still at work, I can sometimes get lonely. Many people don't really have things that they like doing alone. The only things I prefer to do alone are things that I can do more efficiently alone, and even then I sometimes would rather be less efficient if it means being with a friend (unless it's something I hate doing under any circumstances). I only like being alone if the alternative is to be with people I don't like (or strangers). If I say "I want to be alone" it means that something is wrong. This may be because I get more alone time than I need, and if I was never alone, I might start craving it, but I've never been in that position. Daddy once asked what I used to do after work before I started coming to his place, because he didn't want me to give things up for him. He thought that surely I must have gone out with my friends/collegues or something, but I only ever went home.
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