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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/20/2007 4:38:45 PM   
apettiger


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ORIGINAL: MasterRobssara

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ORIGINAL: apettiger

i was on a different site in a Gorean chat room when a Female took offence to my profile name (which is the same as on here) She insulted me and told me that i needed to read, because there were no tigers on Gor.... well, W/we are not on Gor, but i digress ...... She insisted that i leave the chatroom, i said if Another requested that i leave, i would, and i waited, then started to converse with an online friend. She got so upset She left the room, saying She would return when They decided not to allow animals inside anymore.
now how funny is that?


being a gorean lifestyler, I tend to not have to much patience with silly roleplayers who insist they live on gor...rolls eyes. Unfortunatly its dummies like that girl who make people believe all goreans think they live on another planet and really fly tarns...



thank You MasterRobssara. there are some of U/us that believe in the philosophy and live it without having to fantasize about being on another planet. not all Gor's are lost in a fantasy world.

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/20/2007 7:19:21 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: zindyslave

Ok today I received an e-mail from a Dominant and he insulted me, because of my weight. It doesn't really bother me except for the fact that I thought we all were supposed to be on here to be supportive and the fact that I am owned already should have signaled to him that it didn't matter what he thought. I don't know guess I am just sensitive about me weight. Anyone else have problems like this?


I'm sure it's already been said but... this isn't exactly a safe place.

Honestly I don't get the whole weight thing. There are plenty of men and women who love a rounder frame. God knows Valyraen does. So far no one has mailed to tell me that I'm fat, but then again my profile says "I snark stupidity. E-mail at your own risk" or something like that.

I'm sorry you had that experience and I hope you won't let  it affect you. *sends hugs through her cable cord thingy of internet*

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/20/2007 7:34:42 PM   
curiouslyseeking


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ORIGINAL: Emperor1956

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"we choose who we give power to over us, don't empower fools."


Or as Eleanor Roosevelt said::

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

E


I like that too Emperor!  Truly words to live by.

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/20/2007 7:52:37 PM   
zindyslave


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Status: offline 		Well, I guess the reason I believe that this site is supportive is because of the fact that it seems supportive to me from what I have read and from the people I have talked to. Plus I am new to the lifestyle and this site and it has been pleasant thus far it just seemed rude and 'undomly' at the time to me. I thank you all for the support and even the people that might not been too supportive I know what you mean.

Thank you Aquatic. =)

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/20/2007 8:32:38 PM   
lonlyrossInNeed


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Status: offline 		I have had the same emails from DOmmes who are shalow and doms who are rude i dont understand why some morons are out there

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/20/2007 10:12:40 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		First off..I am sorry you got such an e-mail, but you should listen to what LA said to you..second off..do you really think that the person who e-mailed you was a Dominant?..maybe he was simply an insecure,scared fool..or possibly a teenager playing about on his computer..either way more than likely someone who lives with "mommy" and has his rubber doll girlfriend "sucking" his fears away....be well..Tempting

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 1:36:20 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		There's a thread asking if age equals experience but that's because we already know that age doesn't equal maturity.  What happens on the planet Pornia is that all females are physically perfect, nymphomanicas, who are capable of inserting anything just smaller than a toaster, and who cannot wait to financially support any man who winks at them.  When people from the planet Pornia visit earth, they really don't know what to say to real human beings.  Perhaps on their planet these utterings aren't insults.  *shrug*   It's the internet and a few idiots is the price we pay for the internet being the no-cost information source it is.



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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 2:01:49 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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ORIGINAL: lonlyrossInNeed

I have had the same emails from DOmmes who are shalow and doms who are rude i dont understand why some morons are out there


People who feel powerless and totally out of control in real lives are likely to be attracted to "Dominance".  Afterall, D/s promises you can take control (whether you deserve it or not).  And the more controlling you are; the more "Dominant" you must be!

However, these people are not happy within themselves.  They enjoy the power to insult and belittle others behind the safety of a computer screen.  It gives them a real buzz and makes them feel superior.  Thats why they do it.

It is quite untrue that only newcomers are insulting.  I regularly get criticised unfairly, corrected rudely and publically insulted by long time members here (usually male tops and sycophantic femsubs). 

< Message edited by MsCfromMelbourne -- 3/21/2007 2:05:34 AM >

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 2:04:13 AM   
badwittlekarma


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Status: offline 		I have had experiences close to what you guys have had, there have been a few Dom's who have been very nice and cordial here on CM but once i get them on yahoo or somthing they turn into compleat ass wipes...its so sad that there are so many ppl out there who have to make themselfes feel better by putting someone down..you would think that  you could expect more from adults...

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 2:21:12 AM   
mons


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i think is is horrible to insult someone and you own and he said something about your wieght oh dear do not play him any type of attention he is not worth the dime on the ground i found that people when they do this they have a worse day then you can think of so they troll looking for someone to hurt and bother. you have someone who loves you and wow that is great do not pay him any mind he does not have a soul to love him that is why he want to try and i mean try to hurt you

take care dear
mons

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 4:16:12 AM   
WillowRain


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Status: offline 		Let us counteract the evil!!

You have a very very sweet and charming smile, something about  that radiates a gentle kindness. That is what I see when I look at your picture, a lovely gentle woman.

And I know my opinion isn't important, your Sir's is, but still, maybe it's important to hear some positive honest comments to help sweep away the sting of something so random, thoughtless and mean.

Anyone who would write to someone to negatively comment to a stranger is crass. Clearly their mother should have a little talk with them about manners. Some corner time is needed.

Master Jack's,
Willow

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 7:14:05 AM   
ixlr8


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Status: offline 		I got a Dom who decided it would be a good idea to tell me how i don't belong on the site, because I was already collared by my Sir, who has a profile, even though we're passively looking for a third (if it happens, it happens).  I replied for him to gently STFU and mind his own business, and mentioned the forums & you know, friendship, I might find here. He responded by telling me to chill, and then block me.

Whatever. Doms like that immediately go into my black list, and i wouldn't contact them again, even if heaven forbid my Sir & i do break up.  Bah to them, I say. Ignore em is the best policy (unless you're feeling particularly mouthy:)

Edit: Crap! I forgot i was unde rmy Sir's name... lol. this is briska btw

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 8:53:28 AM   
MasterRobssara


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Status: offline 		Hiya babe,

The shape and form for a girl in our lifestyle is really different than vanillia. Girls with curves are the "it" thing for BDSMers usually. I am a curvy girl, 5'4 160, and was paired up with this gorgeous blonde for a BDSM photo shoot. She had to be 6'1 and 2.4 ounces. But I was picked, simply because "curves look better in bondage". So if someone says your fat, tell them thank you! Plus, as long as your owner is pleased with the way you look, what should it matter what others think?

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 9:05:15 AM   
sadkitty


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Status: offline 		Must have been the same one that visited me and said i was too fat to be a sub lol I dont remember what i wrote him in reply but i also  sent a note to collar me with copy of his comment and then blocked him as well Dont worry be Happy I know who and what i am and we dont need someone else telling us other the BS
Sad Kitty 

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 5:30:42 PM   
zindyslave


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Status: offline 		First off thank you WillowRain I don't get compliements like that often.
I agree with BadWittleKarma that you should expect more than adults. I think that was the main reason I started this thread it just seemed so out of the ordinary to receive something like that. I know I could lose weight you know but you don't have to point it out! It just goes to show some guys never grow up!

P.S. If I spelt the names wrong sorry! Long day...

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 9:00:49 PM   
CandleInTheWind


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ORIGINAL: zindyslave

Ok today I received an e-mail from a Dominant and he insulted me, because of my weight. It doesn't really bother me except for the fact that I thought we all were supposed to be on here to be supportive and the fact that I am owned already should have signaled to him that it didn't matter what he thought. I don't know guess I am just sensitive about me weight. Anyone else have problems like this?


Honey there is just that much more of you to love.....for your master  and for yourself and for the rest of the world....mr master bad manners can just kiss your ample tushie  bend over and tell him soo

red

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 9:12:35 PM   
Evanesce


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Anyone else have problems like this?


Yeah, I've had a few.  I once had someone email me (no clue if it was male or female) on CM with just this one statement:  "Boy, are you UGLY!"
 
Nice, yes?

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 10:10:28 PM   
collaredlilone


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Status: offline 		girl herself have ran into this. being collared and proud, ignore it is what girl also thinks. the only One/s that make any difference in opinions about the slave is the Owner/s. if they do not like girl or the way she does. that is their problem and they may take it up with girl's Master and Mistress. just girl's thoughts lol.
girl

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 11:14:27 PM   
LadyAnnabelleLee


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ORIGINAL: sadkitty

Must have been the same one that visited me and "said i was too fat to be a sub" 


Wait, there's a weight limit?! Was that in the memo? *frantically searches her papers* I didn't get the memo! CRAP! 

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Can ever dissever my soul from the soul
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee.
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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 11:51:33 PM   
Caitriona


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ORIGINAL: MasterRobssara

Or the ones who say there origional but have sent the EXACT same letter to me on my alt...


My slave sister and I got an identical email within about 10 minutes of each other.  We giggled hysterically over that one.  Even Sir thought it was funny.


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