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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/21/2007 11:54:11 PM

Dancingzira

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Those people who email only to insult...they aren't Dominants, honey...they are ass hats. Big difference.;)

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/22/2007 1:54:24 AM

cariad

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Greetings:

while i have tended to stay mostly in the Gorean boards of late, i have found that there are Doms who are not Gorean Masters, that are insistant that i bow down before them or get my "Lazy fat ass" beat.

i just block, ignore and delete their emails.

i used to be sensitive about being a bbw but now i know that as long as i am pleasing in all that i do, and please the One i am with be it my Master or another Dom then i know that i have done my duties as a slave.

be pleasing in all that you do, and you will be fine, besides it is your Masters thoughts, wishes, desires, dreams and fantasies that count, not some other persons.

Blessed Be
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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/22/2007 11:09:49 PM

sndman707

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It seems like every woman on this site has had a problem with an overbearing or rude Dom.
I think that for the most part people here are helpful and pleasant, but it is the internet and any were you go you will run into a hand full of jerks.

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/23/2007 1:37:57 AM

xxxintriguedxxx

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*cracks up laughing* I have a dom "admirer" that has emailed and insulted every account I have opened here. I read the email for a chuckle and then I block him. Poor child wouldn't know what to do or say if he actually met me...

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/23/2007 8:18:42 PM

Mustardseed

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Since changing my profile to something more random than a "what I'm looking for" statement (nobody seemed to be paying any attention anyway), I've gotten mail from a few people who decided to pick a fight with me based on one of my statements there. It wasn't insulting, per se, but the messages were unnecessarily agressive for an opinion piece. The last message I received resulted in the person flouncing off in the electronic version of a huff because I wouldn't roll over and agree with him. Oddly, I think he was a submissive.

*shrug*

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/23/2007 10:26:31 PM

alphasubstituent

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There is a reason why that dominant is still seeking a submissive. Insults come from tiny people with tiny brains....don’t let the ignorance of an individual upset you.

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/23/2007 11:07:11 PM

zindyslave

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Thank you all for your input. I have pretty much gotten over it, it just bothered me at the time. It was stupid, and ignorant and shows what kind of a 'Dom' he is..lol...I know that I am loved and that is all that matters. Thanks for the support. Really helped.

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RE: Dominants e-mailing you and insulting you?? - 3/26/2007 12:02:01 AM

DarkmastersRowan

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I (Rowan) have received many messages from Doms (though not surprisingly, not a single one from a Domme) telling me that I should be their fuckslut, etc., even when they know that I am taken. I also get random insults toward my Master, even though these people have no idea who He is. I've been trained to always be kind and polite to everyone, so I do try to follow that, but I have had to block/ignore a few of them. I am the kind of person who feels she has to please everyone, but I've had to make myself realize that this just isn't a realistic goal. There are some bad people out there, and there is no reasoning with them.

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