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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 2:47:47 PM   
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YOU asked!!!!

lolololol

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 3:52:49 PM   
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Well let's get down to the nitty gritty on this one:

It depends on:
1. The man
2. his cock
3. the volume of precum
4. the volume and viscosity of his jizm
5. the taste of him, skin, precum and jizm

If the status on each is as follows:
1. sexy, intelligent virile man with a great sense of humor
2. velvety, clean, soap scented cock and balls
3. not covered in too much precum
4. has the ability to cum about a quart after I tease him mercilessly
5. his cum tastes spicy, salty and clean

Then Oh Yeah Baby, I'll take him orally whenever the mood strikes me, and if all of the above are in alignment, that will probably be pretty darned often!

Interestingly enough, I prefer for him to be hooded and either bound or restrained when I suck him off......

; )

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 4:30:40 PM   
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I enjoy stripping him of his outer ego, all that defines him ... his clothes, his hair, his unshaven face, his title, his name, his ambitions, his authority, his cock, his manhood ... the blow job kind doesn't fit with the scenario ... so not having a use for them, I don't give them ...

The closest I will get to any kind of penetration by him, is him in bondage for 24 hours on Viagra, a faceless fuck on tap.

Sexual release ...any release ...is a treat ... I am not skimp with it but it is at my discrection ...as is everything that happens between us. 


This matched my desires so much....i think i'm in love!!   :)

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 11:38:32 PM   
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You could have the hottest Domme around, dressed to kill in fetish attire, every toy you can imagine, but it doesn't hold a candle to an awesome mindfuck.


He's got a really, REALLY good point there....  On the flip side, is it submissive of me to pleasure my girl orally if I take pleasure in the act itself? I don't think so... And if somebody's giving me head, I'm just GRATEFUL, for pete's sake never mind their motivation behind it! Typical male, right?



It is My perception that males in general are more visual creatures than females.

The females are more of the mental realm.

My experience has had it that there are fewer women that enjoy visual pornography than written porn.

Men on the other hand  in general have no problem throwing a tape or dvd in the player and going at it as a relaxing passage of time...hence the prolifiation of the adult biz from vcr, dvd, intenet. In fact the adult biz is responsible for many of the internet securities, payment transactions, streaming video ect than any other biz or technology. 




So do you feel it is submissive of you to orally please your domme or girl friend or partner?

I know many Domianants that will not venture there as it is something beneath the "power guise" of a Dom.




Tend to gree with you on men being more visually stimulated, women more mentally stimulated, there have even been numerous studies done on this i think we've all seen/heard of at least one. But, with that being said, let's bear in mind, these studies are kind of generalized, and results are given out based on a majority. Not to mention i suspect most, if not all subjects for the study were probably vanilla.
   I don't usually watch porn, it honestly does little for me, unless it is home made and myself and a Domme i'm involved with are in it. I have very high standards when it comes to good looks, i'm not saying i'm a knock out myself,  i know i'm not.  To be quite honest, i find it a shallow characteristic about myself but do not know how to get around it.  Anyway, I used to have a flat ass KNOCK OUT girlfriend/Domme, She wasn't just some guy's type, she was every guy's type . Police following her to my house, making up bullshit stories about tail lights not working temporarily on Her truck.  Modelling agents calling begging her to do portfolios, guys asking her out, with me in the truck, at red lights. (this got ugly once or twice) Anyway, I'm just trying to let you know how freggin hot She was. I was dumbfound she picked me, 'cause rest assured,  there was a line of potentials. Anyway, we owned a ton of fetish outfits, toys up the but, (pun intended), and the sex was.....decent. Now, the S/m left something to be desired. Very little going on in the mind fuck area. Every once in a while shed get inside my head, but not too often, and never too deep. It was honestly unfulfilling. I mean there was all the usual things gong on that make for a good scene, but she just couldn't get inside my head, and didn't really try too much.
  In my experience, a good mind fuck gets off on getting inside someones head, and it comes naturally to them, they thrive on it, they shine at it It is second nature to them and as big a requirement for them to be able to get inside somenes head and push buttons for them to get off, as it is to have my buttons pushed in order for me to get off. So, I left her. Not just for that, there were like 4 big reasons for me to leave her, and that was one of them.  I knew i couldnt live my life unfulfilled like that. Yes, stupid as it may sound, i left this amazingly hot, feitsh clad once in a lifetime piece of ass. My friends, who have no clue about this side of me,  thought i had hit my head when i told them i broke it off with her. She was Domme, but the kind of Domme who goes through the motions and isn't really a natural at it. Would i have stayed with Her had everything else in our relationship worked and the mindfuck was the only problem. i really doubt it. Having eye candy around was cool for like the first 3 years, but then when the thrill wore off, and reality set in, i was just not happy. So for me, there DEFINITELY needs to be alot of mental stimulation going on.
  As to orally stimulating a Domme, i love to do it, doesn't any sub. Do i feel submissive from it? I can't say that i have ever not felt submissive from it. Keep in mind, most of the time they are pulling my head in, pulling my hair, tugging the leash, locking legs around my head, straddling me when tied down so at the time i feel sub. I can say though, i once played with a Domme who would not orgasm until the scene was about to end. She said it made her lose her power over a sub. 

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 1:16:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SLAVEBOY32

.... Yes, stupid as it may sound, i left this amazingly hot, feitsh clad once in a lifetime piece of ass....


Interesting characterization!!

Wickad

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 1:29:50 PM   
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It's my cock. If I want to suck it, lick it, put those balls in my mouth, I'm going to do it.

I have a severe case of penis envy, and would like to have one of my own, right on top of my girly bits.  He'd suck mine, too, with my the fingers of one of my hands entwined in his hair, forcing his mouth down onto me, and the fingers of the other twisted in his collar, making it dig into his neck. There's some real reciprocation.

I swear sometimes I'm a gay man in a woman's body. 

  


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 1:30:49 PM   
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When I dommed I used to give b/js.  Usually as a fun way to torment someone.


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 4:00:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SLAVEBOY32

.... Yes, stupid as it may sound, i left this amazingly hot, feitsh clad once in a lifetime piece of ass....



Interesting characterization!!

Wickad


Why thank ya!

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 4:13:06 PM   
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I think that a blow job can be submissive or dominant depending upon the style in which it is administered. Most people view a domme as someone who is very knowledgable and skilled in sexuality. A blow job can be a terrific platform to show skill and power. If done with flair and control a submissive will never forget the experience of being consumed by his Mistress.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 4:16:41 PM   
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Get the sub to the point of cumming then stop and wack his penis with a riding crop. The look on his face
is priceless.


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 4:23:43 PM   
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Well. I read another forum about hooded or not.. and I don't really care either way. I have an oral fetish. Women, men, it doesn't matter.
I am bi anyways.. but either way, oral is one of my favorite things. I would say kissing is my fav.. but hello, still deals with the mouth.
   For me, sometimes, intercourse is over-rated, and before everyone posts back saying I haven't been with the right person...I know, believe me. I actually have been with the right person now. Thankfully. My Master. It's amazing how sex differs so much between two people that aren't all that different physically, well, at least not where it matter most. ;), but I still love oral. I love looking into a man's, or woman's eyes, knowing I am pleasing them with my mouth.  It's the sub in me, but it's also the oral fixation thing going on. :)
  Ooh well. I put my 2cents in. :)
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RE: Blowjobs - 4/8/2007 4:58:48 PM   
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This thread has really lost its focus, but I'll put in my opinion, as always. :)

I love giving blowjobs to my boyfriend even though he is the submissive partner. We have a very intimate and physical relationship and if he felt odd that I enjoyed doing it, I'd have to either say get over it, or gettoutahere. Every submissive boy that I've ever gone down on has been strictly because I enjoy doing it and seeing his reaction. None have had a problem with it, they all consider it a treat and a privaledge, though not really a reward. I also enjoy having him bound, gagged, blindfolded, and whatever else I like while doing it - and as many others have already stated -it's a great way to keep him hard for hours on end by teasing and denying.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 2:47:11 AM   
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wow where have all you Mistress es been ive never once had a Mistress ever tellme she was going too or ever mention that id get a blow job form her .... also no Mitress i was with ever had sex with any of her subs....that was sometihng they kept for non sub males

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 7:58:18 AM   
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I was not going to answer this thread, I find it insulting {IMHO}.
I will say that since I am a Dominant woman, I do whatever I want.
The end.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 8:01:20 AM   
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What was so insulting?

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 9:39:52 AM   
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I will keep this going ...

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I very rarely post in this section.
I just wondered about something and did a quick search and came up with nothing, so apologies if this has been covered.
Do Dommes give blowjobs to their subs? 
Is it a normal aspect of your relationship?
Is it a reward for good behavior?
Thanks in advance Ladies.


Yes, I will give my pet a blowjob.
Its a turn on for me to give someone a blowjob. So its mainly for my pleasure not his. Also just because I start doesn't mean I am going to finish. In many cases if I give my pet one, it's just another form of orgasm control.


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 2:41:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Do you expect to be made to cum or do you enjoy being enticed and asked to cum?

Is it more effective for you to be demanded to "cum now!" or do you prefer "polease cum for Me?" when you are sessioning with a Domme?

Ross
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Just so you know, I only have normal sex with one sub. The rest are just fuckmeat for my kinky strapon fetish.



Define NORMAL sex please....

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 2:47:08 PM   
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..would vote for Hillary if she is lucky enough to get there....
and voted for the last woman that ran for the Vice Presidency...can you name her?

Please excuse My oversight but I did not see your current perception in this post  regarding:

Do Dommes give blowjobs to their subs? 
Is it a normal aspect of your relationship?
Is it a reward for good behavior?

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1) Vice President of which country?  As an aside, can you name the current Prime Minister of Australia?  Should be easy - he sent our troops to your war.

NO I can not...My extent of the history of Austrailia is it was made up of British criminals....

2) See post #16 for my perception

I mentioned CURRENT perception not something way back there...


3) I still do not understand why Dominant men are opining whether Dominant women give submissives blow jobs.......you guys can be neither giver nor receiver in that situation!!

For the same reason you and other women are replying and posting in Ask a Master...for an exchage of opinion and perception.


PS

Domme-Baiting is a recognised and legitimate fetish, Sir Discipline69, and I am not judging you or your kink, but I am not silly enough to give consent :) 

Got news for you I have enough on My plate for something as silly as that so don't flatter yourself...
 
What ever happened to your head in your avitar?

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 2:48:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

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ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

For Ross

Yes, I delight in mind fucks too, as I strut around in My 10 inch strap-on, strapped up  ready for thrusting lol.

Nice profile and pics to back them up. 
 
Thankyou kindly

 
Your verbage is well done and you do seem to grasp the mental realm of what it is all about.
 
I adore the mental realm totally, as 90% that visit Me wish no marks at all on their flesh, so not all pain orientated. More verbal humiliation, fetishes especially foot fetish, enforced feminisation, rubber enthusiasts, bondage & restriction, mummification, breath play to name a few.

 
To Me your profile conveys someone that is really capable of doing what she says and not someone that is in front of a computer in a room that is all trashed out and thier appearance is all dishelved.
 
I am true to Myself, and the best way to project what I enjoy indulging in, is to express exactly to a tee, what I provide, with no hidden agenda.


I usually have a problem when someone spouts off all sorts of things demanding worship and obedience for thier domination when they do not have the discipline to take a shower or clean the house.
 
I expect all My submissive's to WANT to worship Me with goodwill, so true as you state. Respect and servitude, has to be earned of course, and I am lucky enough to indulge in this wonderful lifestyle as a profession, aswell as a lifestyle so I am lucky really a Pro-Style Domme.


Yes I would say your imagery is exactly what I would expect if I were seeking what you offer..
 
Looks like you can walk the walk as well as talk the talk.
 
hehehe

So I enjoy mental & physical control over My subs, whether I use props, My verbal humiliation, My physical attentions & My creative, impulsive moments too.

I especially like the creative impulsive notion...so what impulsive means have you given to when  you give blowjobs to your subbies? 
Is it a normal aspect of your relationship? Is it a reward for good behavior or simply the control factor for you?

I do not perform blowjobs on My subs, however, denial and forced milking by hand *wanking* I adore, and really enjoy. Having a sub, restrained tightly in rope bondage, and touch, tease, stimulate and wank him to the "nearly there point lol", then stop and laugh and giggle at him. Priceless. I do milk them at the end of denial, as I enjy recycling their cum, i.e. back into the pits of their subby lil tummies, to recycle it back for the next time they visit Mistress. I like cum senario's, spunking on fruit, biscuits, chocolate etc, and forcing subs to eat what they have creamed, humiliating and enjoyable. I have no problem with wanking male subs, as I enjoy it and have no problem with their enjoyment or release after session cooldown.

It may so happen that I do not even use My strap on, or invade the sub's ass with it in a particular session, just use My strap on as a visual fuck, a mind-fuck is just as rewarding for Me. Especially having subs in a predicament, of false feeling of  hope, not knowing will Madam, or wont She lol! 

So how crucial is the strap usage in your rituals or do you have a ritual leading up to orgasmic release for the submissive?
 
Not crucial at all, as some subs wish not to be invaded, the moreso are curious request strap on activities, so I oblige of course. I have other rituals too: slave inspection where I inspect them, as in a slave market fashion.

 
I know that displaying certain props before blindfolding induces a sence of trepid anticipation...so sometimes the nastiest things laid out befre a session invokes rapid breathing and warm moisture in preparation for what they think is to happen.
 
I adore sensory play, as a non-pain senario, and a nice time to perform this at cooldown, the latter part of a scene.

Then taking them in another direction seems to keep them off balance as I approach orgasm release in another manner.
 
I feel milking slave's empowering, to Me personally, some do not wish to be milked, and My subs most certainly do not expect relief everytime they visit Me. That choice is entirely mine, and I like to reward with an assisted hand orgasm from time to time lol. Enforced Milking

 
I have encountered many subbies that have been taken right into orgasm denial without the first taste of the enjoyment of release.
 
Denial, I enjoy especially for subs in chastity, so I provide control over their pleasure, and tease and deny throughout, then release is most always done by Me, by hand.

This is a stupid dom trick as many are incapable of doing so. My approach is unlimited  and frequent encouragement of as many orgasms as possible...20 within a half hour seems to be the magic number...so then when I impose orgasm denial they KNOW what they are being denied as they have a previous benchmark to compare it to.
 
Do you do anything along this line?
 
I believe that senario focuses more on the subs wants, and would detract away from their servitude, and for their own selfish wants. I would not engage in such activities.

So to categorize what I think whilst engaging in strap on activities with My cock sluts, well it is a number of factors: humiliation, verbal humiliation, because I can, to get sub practising their oral pleasures skills- then upgrade to sucking a real cock when fully trained, I find it sexually stimulating and exciting for Me personally, so I enjoy all aspects of  strap on activities.

It has been My understanding and experience that British Dominants and Dommes have much more of an understanding and grasp of what it takes to dominate without emotion and as they actually do have club memberships in which they do go through training and are graded and rated by more experienced elders. There is much more of an excepted hierachy and it is much more secretive (sorry but I did wait 15 years before bring this up) and the Americans have been trying to catch up in the last few but pale in results.
 
Might you care to enlighten Us with any comments or would you rather stay mum on this?
 
Well I do have Dom, Domme, switch and sub friends in the UK also, and as I am new here, have already received some lovely emails from US Dommes already. It is horses for courses so to speak, so I have yet to explore more here, I am addicted to CM already lol. Very interesting!

Thanks for your enlightening comments so far and if you ever decide to cross the pond I am sure We might come to a mutual understanding and would be more than willing to show you about the East Coast time permitting.
 

I may take a trip to the US sometime this year for 2 weeks, a work/shop holiday, as I have a few US devotees, and some of the New York Professional Locations look fabulous.
 
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Thank you for your insight within intelligent informative perceptions.

Ross
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RE: Blowjobs - 4/9/2007 2:50:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

I enjoy stripping him of his outer ego, all that defines him ... his clothes, his hair, his unshaven face, his title, his name, his ambitions, his authority, his cock, his manhood ... the blow job kind doesn't fit with the scenario ... so not having a use for them, I don't give them ...

The closest I will get to any kind of penetration by him, is him in bondage for 24 hours on Viagra, a faceless fuck on tap.

Sexual release ...any release ...is a treat ... I am not skimp with it but it is at my discrection ...as is everything that happens between us. 


Nice insight..nice mindset

Why viagra though?

Ever think of using the dildo mask on him and riding it?

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