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RE: Blow jobs - 4/7/2007 6:29:37 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: spankmepink11

OK...i'm not a  "Mistress" either, but if i were, i would surely not deprive myself the pleasure of giving my partner a blow job, however, i think it would be accompanied by alot of teasing, and high anticipation.


It is My perception that We know We are going to get from point "A" to point "Z" .

The only difference is how We enjoy the journey and how We savor it like a fine wine.

Ross
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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 6:32:40 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

Probably the endorphins...

I've never asked someone what they were feeling orexperiencing afterwards.
I only know that it causes them to short circuit and start acting strangely.
.


There is that blaming on something else card.

Perhaps it is the LACK of  FREQUENCY that makes it so intense.

I remember My FIRST orgasm.

I thought I had been electrocuted and died.

After I looked at the mess I tried to do it again within a minute.

Ross
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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 6:39:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

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ORIGINAL: Willworship

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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

So if someone disagrees with you and resorts to name-calling and rudeness as a reply, rather than intellectual discourse it's ok?
Please don't encourage his madness, I for one, could do without it.


Maam, he didnt resort to name calling until you and the other Domme jumped all over his case with sarcatic replies because you didnt agree with his initial post. Then at that point it was "on" and anything else is fair game. You seem to be missing how things went, I suggest taking a look at what he posted then your reply back and you will see who didnt agree with whom.


He was making an over-generalization that is unfounded, as shown by the fact that most of the Dommes posting in this thread have stated that they have sexual contact with their pyls (and posts in other threads ... like the one a few days ago where someone else made a similar statement and was refuted).  It happens to be a hot point with me because it's absolutely disgusting when people do so.  It perpertuates stereotypes that are best left by the wayside.  I react in a similar manner to most anyone who makes blanket statements such as he made (regardless of who makes them or what the statements are about).  I'm well aware that he said "most" and not "all" - but the fact is that I have run across very few who denied sexual gratification entirely, which is what he implied that most do ... and while it may be common in his social sphere, it doesn't seem to be all that common outside of it.  If he had said "a lot" or "quite a few" or something along those lines, I wouldn't have said a word about it - but he didn't.  When he said "most" he's implying that there are very few who do allow sexual release for their pyls - and from my experience, he's very very wrong.


Well Ma'am, you are stating your opinion on your experiances exactly  like he did, you also are  trying to give us the definition of "most" or what he meant by saying most. Well perhaps from his personal experiance you are the one who is wrong. I am not here to stick up for him or anyone else I just feel you and the other domme jumped on his posts when he is stating his experiance just like you are

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 6:39:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

I have been very fortuante...I do respect women...have worked for many women...would vote for Hillary if she is lucky enough to get there....
and voted for the last woman that ran for the Vice Presidency...can you name her?

Oooh ooh ooh.. Pick me! pick me!! (stands up from the desk, smoothing her skirt)  The first female vice presidential candidate on a national party ticket was...Geraldine Ferraro in 1984.  She ran on a ticket with Michael Dukakis.
(sits back down, very self satisfied)

quote:


I am not pontificating as if I ask questions in the past 2000 some post I am accused of not giving anything back....

I am sure it is only My perception that you are stating this is an exclusive rights forum and that the socratic exchange of civilized thoughts is only granted to Dommes in this section correct?

Ross
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Ross,
I know that I am all over the Ask a Master site...I just love to play over there.  You

guys

are

just

so

MASTERFUL!

I think at this point with some of these women, even if they read a post of you saying "good morning" and they would villify you.  ( I also get the feeling you just like to push buttons, whatever buttons they might be)

Anyway, I enjoy your posts. 

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RE: Blow jobs - 4/7/2007 6:41:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69


It is My perception that We know We are going to get from point "A" to point "Z" .

The only difference is how We enjoy the journey and how We savor it like a fine wine.

Ross
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I love that quote!  Is it a Ross original?

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 6:42:50 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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ORIGINAL: sting516
i'd wondered the same thing...maybe he's a sub male down under there somewhere and as such feels the need...or maybe he just likes blowjobs...i find it surprising that a male would reply to a thread which was designed for the Mistresses to answer their feelings about giving blowjobs...live and learn i suppose.


Well it seems from her postings in the Ask a Master >> forum what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

Oral sex taboo?
http://www.collarchat.com/m_939523/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#939751

No I am not actually a submissive male...not that there is anything wrong with that...thought I have taken some reservations of a few of the perceptive Dommes that have Both mental and physical attributes that perhaps there is more to this that meets the eye.

I am however confused on your statement regarding a male answering to the thread.

Not wishing to inflame but simply trying to understand...what do you consider yourself if not a male?

Respectfully submitted for consideration,

Ross
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RE: Blow jobs - 4/7/2007 6:45:59 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69


It is My perception that We know We are going to get from point "A" to point "Z" .

The only difference is how We enjoy the journey and how We savor it like a fine wine.

Ross
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I love that quote!  Is it a Ross original?


My dear I AM an original...and yes I do piss alot of people off...but once they see it is all about a thinking persons relationship and stop the pissing contests they might enjoy the dialog.

I am sure it might have been covered in some of My text from either post:

she knew today was the start of her physical training. All sorts of
http://www.collarchat.com/m_924028/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm

The breakdown of communication resulted in the breakdown of the relationship.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_923442/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm

Any locals that want a one on one discussion in person can go to the Crucible April 21.


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 6:49:39 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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Thanks

It is nice to see some humor and you are correct in your answer.

For your correct answer you win a prize.

http://www.cafepress.com/friendspolitica


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 6:56:45 AM   
SirDiscipliner69


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Do you expect to be made to cum or do you enjoy being enticed and asked to cum?

Is it more effective for you to be demanded to "cum now!" or do you prefer "polease cum for Me?" when you are sessioning with a Domme?

Ross
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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 7:06:49 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

Do you expect to be made to cum or do you enjoy being enticed and asked to cum?

Is it more effective for you to be demanded to "cum now!" or do you prefer "polease cum for Me?" when you are sessioning with a Domme?

Ross
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Just so you know, I only have normal sex with one sub. The rest are just fuckmeat for my kinky strapon fetish.


Diane

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 7:20:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Just so you know, I only have normal sex with one sub. The rest are just fuckmeat for my kinky strapon fetish.
Diane


Diane,
I really like the way you think...
(even though I have a different fetish)

Psy


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 7:24:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PsyVamp

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Just so you know, I only have normal sex with one sub. The rest are just fuckmeat for my kinky strapon fetish.
Diane


Diane,
I really like the way you think...
(even though I have a different fetish)

Psy




Thank you PsyVamp....We all have our own kinks and fetishes.


Diane

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 7:29:34 AM   
Elorin


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Nope, don't give my subs blowjobs. Just don't have the wiring to be sexually active with my male subs. Don't mind giving CBT or strapons to them, but I don't suck their cocks.

In the future, I imagine I might find a sub who is a lifepartner and lover as well, and then that would change, but in the past it hasn't been so.

~E

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 9:33:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

..would vote for Hillary if she is lucky enough to get there....
and voted for the last woman that ran for the Vice Presidency...can you name her?

Please excuse My oversight but I did not see your current perception in this post  regarding:

Do Dommes give blowjobs to their subs? 
Is it a normal aspect of your relationship?
Is it a reward for good behavior?

Ross
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1) Vice President of which country?  As an aside, can you name the current Prime Minister of Australia?  Should be easy - he sent our troops to your war.

2) See post #16 for my perception

3) I still do not understand why Dominant men are opining whether Dominant women give submissives blow jobs.......you guys can be neither giver nor receiver in that situation!!

PS

Domme-Baiting is a recognised and legitimate fetish, Sir Discipline69, and I am not judging you or your kink, but I am not silly enough to give consent :) 


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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 9:33:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
Oooh ooh ooh.. Pick me! pick me!! (stands up from the desk, smoothing her skirt)  The first female vice presidential candidate on a national party ticket was...Geraldine Ferraro in 1984.  She ran on a ticket with Michael Dukakis.
(sits back down, very self satisfied)


Right answer, kind of. Ferraro ran with Walter Mondale in 84. Dukakis was 88 and ran with Lloyd Bentson.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 10:26:10 AM   
MistressRouge


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ORIGINAL: SirDiscipliner69

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressRouge

For Ross

Yes, I delight in mind fucks too, as I strut around in My 10 inch strap-on, strapped up  ready for thrusting lol.

Nice profile and pics to back them up. 
 
Thankyou kindly

 
Your verbage is well done and you do seem to grasp the mental realm of what it is all about.
 
I adore the mental realm totally, as 90% that visit Me wish no marks at all on their flesh, so not all pain orientated. More verbal humiliation, fetishes especially foot fetish, enforced feminisation, rubber enthusiasts, bondage & restriction, mummification, breath play to name a few.

 
To Me your profile conveys someone that is really capable of doing what she says and not someone that is in front of a computer in a room that is all trashed out and thier appearance is all dishelved.
 
I am true to Myself, and the best way to project what I enjoy indulging in, is to express exactly to a tee, what I provide, with no hidden agenda.


I usually have a problem when someone spouts off all sorts of things demanding worship and obedience for thier domination when they do not have the discipline to take a shower or clean the house.
 
I expect all My submissive's to WANT to worship Me with goodwill, so true as you state. Respect and servitude, has to be earned of course, and I am lucky enough to indulge in this wonderful lifestyle as a profession, aswell as a lifestyle so I am lucky really a Pro-Style Domme.


Yes I would say your imagery is exactly what I would expect if I were seeking what you offer..
 
Looks like you can walk the walk as well as talk the talk.
 
hehehe

So I enjoy mental & physical control over My subs, whether I use props, My verbal humiliation, My physical attentions & My creative, impulsive moments too.

I especially like the creative impulsive notion...so what impulsive means have you given to when  you give blowjobs to your subbies? 
Is it a normal aspect of your relationship? Is it a reward for good behavior or simply the control factor for you?

I do not perform blowjobs on My subs, however, denial and forced milking by hand *wanking* I adore, and really enjoy. Having a sub, restrained tightly in rope bondage, and touch, tease, stimulate and wank him to the "nearly there point lol", then stop and laugh and giggle at him. Priceless. I do milk them at the end of denial, as I enjy recycling their cum, i.e. back into the pits of their subby lil tummies, to recycle it back for the next time they visit Mistress. I like cum senario's, spunking on fruit, biscuits, chocolate etc, and forcing subs to eat what they have creamed, humiliating and enjoyable. I have no problem with wanking male subs, as I enjoy it and have no problem with their enjoyment or release after session cooldown.

It may so happen that I do not even use My strap on, or invade the sub's ass with it in a particular session, just use My strap on as a visual fuck, a mind-fuck is just as rewarding for Me. Especially having subs in a predicament, of false feeling of  hope, not knowing will Madam, or wont She lol! 

So how crucial is the strap usage in your rituals or do you have a ritual leading up to orgasmic release for the submissive?
 
Not crucial at all, as some subs wish not to be invaded, the moreso are curious request strap on activities, so I oblige of course. I have other rituals too: slave inspection where I inspect them, as in a slave market fashion.

 
I know that displaying certain props before blindfolding induces a sence of trepid anticipation...so sometimes the nastiest things laid out befre a session invokes rapid breathing and warm moisture in preparation for what they think is to happen.
 
I adore sensory play, as a non-pain senario, and a nice time to perform this at cooldown, the latter part of a scene.

Then taking them in another direction seems to keep them off balance as I approach orgasm release in another manner.
 
I feel milking slave's empowering, to Me personally, some do not wish to be milked, and My subs most certainly do not expect relief everytime they visit Me. That choice is entirely mine, and I like to reward with an assisted hand orgasm from time to time lol. Enforced Milking

 
I have encountered many subbies that have been taken right into orgasm denial without the first taste of the enjoyment of release.
 
Denial, I enjoy especially for subs in chastity, so I provide control over their pleasure, and tease and deny throughout, then release is most always done by Me, by hand.

This is a stupid dom trick as many are incapable of doing so. My approach is unlimited  and frequent encouragement of as many orgasms as possible...20 within a half hour seems to be the magic number...so then when I impose orgasm denial they KNOW what they are being denied as they have a previous benchmark to compare it to.
 
Do you do anything along this line?
 
I believe that senario focuses more on the subs wants, and would detract away from their servitude, and for their own selfish wants. I would not engage in such activities.

So to categorize what I think whilst engaging in strap on activities with My cock sluts, well it is a number of factors: humiliation, verbal humiliation, because I can, to get sub practising their oral pleasures skills- then upgrade to sucking a real cock when fully trained, I find it sexually stimulating and exciting for Me personally, so I enjoy all aspects of  strap on activities.

It has been My understanding and experience that British Dominants and Dommes have much more of an understanding and grasp of what it takes to dominate without emotion and as they actually do have club memberships in which they do go through training and are graded and rated by more experienced elders. There is much more of an excepted hierachy and it is much more secretive (sorry but I did wait 15 years before bring this up) and the Americans have been trying to catch up in the last few but pale in results.
 
Might you care to enlighten Us with any comments or would you rather stay mum on this?
 
Well I do have Dom, Domme, switch and sub friends in the UK also, and as I am new here, have already received some lovely emails from US Dommes already. It is horses for courses so to speak, so I have yet to explore more here, I am addicted to CM already lol. Very interesting!

Thanks for your enlightening comments so far and if you ever decide to cross the pond I am sure We might come to a mutual understanding and would be more than willing to show you about the East Coast time permitting.
 

I may take a trip to the US sometime this year for 2 weeks, a work/shop holiday, as I have a few US devotees, and some of the New York Professional Locations look fabulous.
 
Regards






she knew today was the start of her physical training. All sorts of
http://www.collarchat.com/m_924028/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm
The breakdown of communication resulted in the breakdown of the relationship.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_923442/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm

Ross
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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 11:24:09 AM   
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I enjoy stripping him of his outer ego, all that defines him ... his clothes, his hair, his unshaven face, his title, his name, his ambitions, his authority, his cock, his manhood ... the blow job kind doesn't fit with the scenario ... so not having a use for them, I don't give them ...

The closest I will get to any kind of penetration by him, is him in bondage for 24 hours on Viagra, a faceless fuck on tap.

Sexual release ...any release ...is a treat ... I am not skimp with it but it is at my discrection ...as is everything that happens between us. 

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 11:47:56 AM   
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FYI, Geraldine Ferarro ran with Walter Mondale in 1984.  Michael Dukakis ran in 1988 against George Bush (the older one).  His running mate was Lloyd Bentsen from Texas.

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 2:42:08 PM   
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Well let's get down to the nitty gritty on this one:

It depends on:
1. The man
2. his cock
3. the volume of precum
4. the volume and viscosity of his jizm
5. the taste of him, skin, precum and jizm

If the status on each is as follows:
1. sexy, intelligent virile man with a great sense of humor
2. velvety, clean, soap scented cock and balls
3. not covered in too much precum
4. has the ability to cum about a quart after I tease him mercilessly
5. his cum tastes spicy, salty and clean

Then Oh Yeah Baby, I'll take him orally whenever the mood strikes me, and if all of the above are in alignment, that will probably be pretty darned often!

Interestingly enough, I prefer for him to be hooded and either bound or restrained when I suck him off......

; )

TM

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RE: Blowjobs - 4/7/2007 2:46:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Well let's get down to the nitty gritty on this one:

It depends on:
1. The man
2. his cock
3. the volume of precum
4. the volume and viscosity of his jizm
5. the taste of him, skin, precum and jizm

If the status on each is as follows:
1. sexy, intelligent virile man with a great sense of humor
2. velvety, clean, soap scented cock and balls
3. not covered in too much precum
4. has the ability to cum about a quart after I tease him mercilessly
5. his cum tastes spicy, salty and clean

Then Oh Yeah Baby, I'll take him orally whenever the mood strikes me, and if all of the above are in alignment, that will probably be pretty darned often!

Interestingly enough, I prefer for him to be hooded and either bound or restrained when I suck him off......

; )

TM



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