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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 5:52:25 PM

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you know...my ideal male wife would be good at delegating chores. I don't expect him to do everything and work all those hours. I do expect him to "handle" everything however so I don't have to. So, if that means bringing in help to get certain things done...then that's fine. I simply want it all taken care of and not have them be things I need to worry about. Capice?

i hear ya... can't claim it's the ideal situation, but we can't all bring in help

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 6:03:33 PM

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you know...my ideal male wife would be good at delegating chores. I don't expect him to do everything and work all those hours. I do expect him to "handle" everything however so I don't have to. So, if that means bringing in help to get certain things done...then that's fine. I simply want it all taken care of and not have them be things I need to worry about. Capice?

i hear ya... can't claim it's the ideal situation, but we can't all bring in help

poor davey. Hang in there, I'm sure you'll get that list down eventually. Just think of how much pleasure you're giving her by taking care of all those things.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 6:06:13 PM

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Unfortunately, no driving around all weekend - I work *blech* But I'm off next Friday, so I'll be cruising around then LOL

One of the two from the other site is a bit young, but seems to be worth looking into anyway - I'm hoping to turn him into the perfect (for us) male wife

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 6:09:22 PM

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Unfortunately, no driving around all weekend - I work *blech* But I'm off next Friday, so I'll be cruising around then LOL

One of the two from the other site is a bit young, but seems to be worth looking into anyway - I'm hoping to turn him into the perfect (for us) male wife

Yeah Ms Karen! I'm totally jealous. How's the new car? You know what they say...get them young and train them right LOL. They tend to appreciate a more mature woman as well.

edited because it keeps oking the post before I'm finished. Arrgh

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 6:28:32 PM

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I totally love the new car - it has all kinds of buttons and gagets and stuff. And of course, the fact that it's averaging 28+ mpg already and I haven't even hit the highway yet ... really liking that.

Now I think it's time for some Mt. Dew ... just need someone to fetch it for me.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 6:57:14 PM

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I totally love the new car - it has all kinds of buttons and gagets and stuff. And of course, the fact that it's averaging 28+ mpg already and I haven't even hit the highway yet ... really liking that.

Now I think it's time for some Mt. Dew ... just need someone to fetch it for me.

Oooh buttons and gadgets. Love it.

Do we have a volunteer??? Anyone?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 8:47:12 PM

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"I shall take the ring to Mordor. Though...I do not know the way."

Seriously, it'll be a bit of a schlep to Indianapolis. But the soda will be nice and cold at least ;)

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/17/2007 9:05:13 PM

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"I shall take the ring to Mordor. Though...I do not know the way."

Seriously, it'll be a bit of a schlep to Indianapolis. But the soda will be nice and cold at least ;)

Aww aidan, it's the thought that counts. I knew someone would step up to the plate.

Ps how are you at washing cars?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/18/2007 5:52:19 AM

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Aw, thanks aiden

I ended up zonking out about an hour after posting that, so obviously the mt dew didn't do me much good lol I slept for almost 10 hours and I'm still tired ... maybe my body finally decided to make up all the sleep I missed the previous 3 months?

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/18/2007 8:46:40 AM

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Thank you for your kind words Mistress Irish.

My comments truly reflect who and what I am and what I feel. To see that twinkle in her eyes whenever she became involved with another man made everything worthwhile. For me, to know that I was emotionally strong enough for the woman I loved to feel that freedom let me know that I had found my place in life. In all of my long, long, long, (LOL) life, I never felt happier than when she put me in a dress and in effect made me the "wife" in the relationship. She taught me those domestic things that our society usually expects the woman to perform and to love doing them. I took great pride in my domestic skills. We became best friends. We could and did share our most intimate and secret thoughts and desires. We laughed and cried together. It was not always easy, but it was always intense and very satisfactory for both of us.

This was a process that took many years to grow and mature. I do miss this very much and do hope to find a like minded, compatible woman to once again serve.

Oh, I recently got a new vehicle also. It is a Ford Edge SEL+ with leather. Love that leather smell, but everytime I get in it and smell it, I think I am about to get a taste of the whip or leather of some sort. Oh well made it will happen sooner or later. Hope it is sooner.

One last thing. I am Irish too. My family landed in Savannah Ga from Ireland in the 1790's

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/18/2007 5:14:51 PM

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Now, that's just beautiful!

*sighs*

Looking forward to chattin with you!

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/19/2007 10:49:04 PM

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Yes, I'm searching for an EMPLOYED wife, who's masculine at all other times, a dream come true. I'm a great cook, so don't mind doing some of it. But I'm an on the road saleswoman and would love someone with "normal" work hours who could actually be home for me when I finally made it home. I love service orientated sub/slaves who "get it."

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/20/2007 7:11:03 AM

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And then there are the ones who you think "get it" ... then prove that they are clueless. We were talking to one (not the young one), and he seemed ok - but he's all about licking my shoes, which doesn't really interest us. If there are other things, then it's ok, but if that's all he focusses on, then that's not good for us. So I told him ... and he still focusses on that, to the point that he wants me to have extra pairs of shoes so that he doesn't get any biohazard material off of my work shoes!!!

I don't like shoes anyway, why on earth would I want to have 2 or 3 pairs of work shoes ... and how would I keep track of which pair was the 'clean' one and which pair wasn't??

So, yeah, I'm still hoping the young one works out.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/20/2007 8:46:20 AM

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I've made another decision ... whomever ends up with us absolutely take dog grooming courses (unless he's already a dog groomer). Someone who owns a dog grooming table is a plus

I've been shaving one Shih Tzu (he prefers short hair ... once it's short), and brushing the other ... and I still have baths to look forward to.

Any volunteers for help? Bring some cold Mt. Dew with you lol

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/21/2007 10:48:37 PM

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male wife.... what i have desired to be since ages..

Any Mistress interested in an employed, educated , drug and disease free male wife let me know.

I am not into tatoos and piercings and not too much into pain as well. I am looking more of a mental submission

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/22/2007 6:08:07 PM

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and he still focusses on that, to the point that he wants me to have extra pairs of shoes so that he doesn't get any biohazard material off of my work shoes!!! I don't like shoes anyway, why on earth would I want to have 2 or 3 pairs of work shoes ... and how would I keep track of which pair was the 'clean' one and which pair wasn't??

That is quite a sacrifice!

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/22/2007 6:40:27 PM

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and he still focusses on that, to the point that he wants me to have extra pairs of shoes so that he doesn't get any biohazard material off of my work shoes!!! I don't like shoes anyway, why on earth would I want to have 2 or 3 pairs of work shoes ... and how would I keep track of which pair was the 'clean' one and which pair wasn't??

That is quite a sacrifice!

Why that's just blasphemy! Who doesn't like shoes?? Mmmm, shoes. *done in my best Homer Simpson speak*

Now dave, sometimes there comes a little sacrifice with service and submission.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/23/2007 7:39:00 AM

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I don't like shoes - I don't like clothes in general. I prefer barefoot and as naked as the temperature will allow.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/23/2007 10:26:57 AM

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I'm a male wife; I do all the shopping, cooking, cleaning etc. There's no 'feminizing', in the sense I'm not forced to wear female clothing (that isn't our thing), and there's no real understanding that my role is a 'feminine' one. It just felt natural. My wife is quite dominant, and I'm quite sub. I can cook, she can't. It just seemed the most natural, less-hassle way of doing it. It wasn't even discussed, or formalised, it just sort of fell into place. We both work from home, so there isn't an issue over 'breadwinning' (she gets all my earnings anyway). She initiates sex, although I do sometimes wish she'd be a little more 'masculine' and dominate me more in the bedroom than she does (she doesn't like to penetrate me, whereas I love it). Apart from that minor thing, we're blissfully happy and it works very well.
But anyway, what I really wanted to post about was the idea of name changing, specifically the husband taking the wife's surname at marriage. I don't know what the laws are like in the US about this, but here in the UK it is only tradition for a woman to take the man's name, not law. So there is nothing stopping such an action at all. In fact, we actually considered me taking my wife's name, and the only thing that stopped us was the fact that i'd already changed my name legally a couple of years prior (I was adopted, and then I found my real father: I took his name), and the sheer bloody hassle of doing it all over again was too much to bear.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 8/23/2007 11:08:31 AM

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I don't think I could change my last name, my father would never forgive me.

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