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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/15/2007 7:14:01 AM

YesMistressIrish

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ORIGINAL: vonzott

*Grin*

Even as I write this, I'm doing laundry. It's my 5th load today and I have about 3 or 4 more to go. I've made lunch for kids today (home on Spring Break) and will get the house all clean and squeaky (whatever *that* means) before my Queen comes home. She's at "the office" - Her dungeon in downtown San Diego (She's Domina Angelina on the main site, btw) and I try really hard to make everything all nice for Her when She comes home from a hard day (HaHa!) at the office. She calls me when She's about 30 to 45 minutes from home and I run around with my hair on fire making everything shipshape, including my self. I try to be as "presentable" as possible when She hits the door.

Imagine June Cleaver, but with a beard (and the occasional butt plug or chastity device) and a work-at-home job that pays REALLY well. It's heaven for me, that's for sure! I really do consider myself to be The Luckiest Guy Around!

If it's any help, it gets Her hot, too!

You are describing an ideal life! I am happy for you both and drooling over what you shared, hmmm...and your pic!

My dream, good to know it is true for you. You inspire us to persist.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/15/2007 7:39:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I want a "male" wife, but I want him to be all man.

Amen!

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/15/2007 9:46:44 AM

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Oh yes !

A hunky healthy male "wife" . One that earns his own way - and then comes home to Me where I work at home . Fine idea - sign me up for the next available candidate !

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/15/2007 10:50:23 AM

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I havent been on the boards for a while - so I was really pleased to see this thread running. I had started to think I was some sort of freak and didnt think anyone else was looking for what I want. lol BeachMystress's life sounds wonderful - and just what I am looking for. And it is great to see so many positive responses. I am trying to be patient but sadly it seems that most men are only in the lifestyle for the pain and/or sex. And a lot of them dont know the difference between a slave and a submissive, a Master/Mistress and a Dom.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/15/2007 11:09:46 AM

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Where was this thread 14 years ago when I took an ad out in the personals offering housekeeping services and cooking in exchange for room and board while I finished my B.S. <grin>

Stefan

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/15/2007 2:18:07 PM

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Dianna Vesta said:
D, you missed what I was saying. First of all almost any slave I have has worked in a career and they support MY lifestyle. I have had both and to honest as I get older I dislike having someone always under foot. I enjoy having guys come in to stay for a few days, even a week (after considerable training). I’ve spent many years living this lifestyle and there was a time when I had a few slaves living in the house, some that came to visit, some I went to visit….lol- it was really busy. I think the best scenario for me is to have one live-in slave that really knew me and truly served every part of me. They would work and then come home to care for me and do things on the weekend. This person would need to understand my needs and that no one person could ever fulfill all of them. I would have other slaves to visit and I visit them.
But I would definitely want my primary slave to be fit and able to work outside in my greenhouse and garden even if he/she did have a job. This is a very important part of my life.
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AAck! makes me positively g r e e n.

I so want one for my very own.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/15/2007 6:59:20 PM

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Yeah! someone brought the thread back. Now to look for the subbies that
want to be wives! I am accepting applications, anyone interested?
heh heh heh

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/17/2007 6:05:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I just had a blast posting on our darling Canuplease post, soooooooo I want to continue it.
I am one of these new fangled Female Supremacist Dominants, I so adore Elise Sutton and her ideas.
I also want to point out that FOR ME, I do not consider myself Supremacist over any other human
being except my submissive. The narrow mindedness and LACK of imagination of many around here, NEVER
ceases to amaze or amuse me, but it is possible to be a Female Supremacist and ONLY be a female supremacist
to YOUR submissive--ONLY.
To me it is a way of being in the relationship, whether I call myself a Female Supremacist, Domina,
Queen, Goddess, Mistress, Lady or the Easter Bunny.

Anyway, I not only seek a male submissive, I seek a male WIFE. I have always stated this upfront, and you
would be surprised the men that seek and enjoy this concept. The little subbie I have been talking to for a while,
brings this up often, usually more that I do! For the men that embrace this idea, it can be a real craving.
He amuses me, he often asks if he can take my last name!
I tell him I don't think this is legally possible.
Anyway, if all goes well, I will eventually have my male "wife". Since I am divorced I will/would not make it legal
for a couple of years. **Anyone divorced can understand not wanting to make it legal right away**
Regardless if it is legal or not, he will be my "wife" in terms of our relationship.
I think this is so hot and so sexy, it brings sexy back, for me.
Are there any other women here that have or want a male wife, or am I the only one that has always thought I needed
a wife a hell of a lot more than I need a husband?

I have not read through all of the other responses yet but wanted to pipe in with my own to the original post.

I have always desired a male wife. Something about the situation has just always done it for me. In my mind wife doesnt mean doormat but the heart stone of the home we build together. The glue that keeps it all together. That little missing piece in one's life. I have a very demanding and stressful job, it would be nice to come home to the warmth and love of a male wife.

MM

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/17/2007 2:38:23 PM

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My apologies for posting in a topic addressed to Mistresses only.

All i wish to convey here, is that i'm an unmarried male of 25 years in India, whose mind is at present full of the exact thoughts being discussed under this topic.

As per customs and traditions practiced in our country, i'm of marriageable age now, and before my parents find me a 'simple', 'submissive' wife, i wish to find myself a more 'suitable' partner. Just as this topic is all about, i seek to be a wife to a Woman.

Our society would never accept a house-husband, and i would therefore need to continue working, albeit maybe for shorter durations, so that i'm able to keep our house clean, look after the garden, do all the shopping and atleast some of the cooking, and not to mention, pamper my Queen to make her feel like the luckiest Woman on earth!

Managing all of this wouldn't really be a challenge, but rather more of a reward for my submission towards my Queen. After all, what could be more rewarding to a submissive, than his Lady/Mistress/Queen letting him do all that he is capable of doing to please her. That's why God made us submissive in the first place!

Submitting to one's wife is one thing, becoming Her wife is another....just what i seek.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/17/2007 10:28:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

I just had a blast posting on our darling Canuplease post, soooooooo I want to continue it.
I am one of these new fangled Female Supremacist Dominants, I so adore Elise Sutton and her ideas.
I also want to point out that FOR ME, I do not consider myself Supremacist over any other human
being except my submissive. The narrow mindedness and LACK of imagination of many around here, NEVER
ceases to amaze or amuse me, but it is possible to be a Female Supremacist and ONLY be a female supremacist
to YOUR submissive--ONLY.
To me it is a way of being in the relationship, whether I call myself a Female Supremacist, Domina,
Queen, Goddess, Mistress, Lady or the Easter Bunny.

Anyway, I not only seek a male submissive, I seek a male WIFE. I have always stated this upfront, and you
would be surprised the men that seek and enjoy this concept. The little subbie I have been talking to for a while,
brings this up often, usually more that I do! For the men that embrace this idea, it can be a real craving.
He amuses me, he often asks if he can take my last name!
I tell him I don't think this is legally possible.
Anyway, if all goes well, I will eventually have my male "wife". Since I am divorced I will/would not make it legal
for a couple of years. **Anyone divorced can understand not wanting to make it legal right away**
Regardless if it is legal or not, he will be my "wife" in terms of our relationship.
I think this is so hot and so sexy, it brings sexy back, for me.
Are there any other women here that have or want a male wife, or am I the only one that has always thought I needed
a wife a hell of a lot more than I need a husband?

No, I would not be interested in a male wife, afterall, we all know it's the wives that wear the pants in the domain. :)

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 8:27:56 AM

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I have read some of the postings about how no one should have to do it all. I think there are a vast number of single, working, mothers out there that would quickly say, we do it, so can you.
It would be wonderful to have a nice "working wife".

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 9:16:27 AM

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a male 'wife' sounds lovely. i've always been attracted to men who are comfortable with their feminine side. and i hate it when men are adamant that they won't do 'womanly' things. i know they think this makes them less attractive to women, but it certainly doesn't to this woman. if a man wears a pink shirt or jacket in public, it always catches my eye and brings a smile to my face. a gentle, softspoken manner is very attractive in a man also. just adorable in fact.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 9:24:53 AM

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Yep, it's exactly what I'm looking for. I have it on my profile as a slave/husband, it that's it....lol

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 9:31:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

LOL, Ms Karen, good luck to you both. I hope I find my "wife" first!
A good man belongs on his knees cleaning and off his knees cooking.
LOL, me and my jokes.
To tell you the truth, I was not going to blow my family and the worlds minds.
If he becomes my "wife", I would probably have a private ceremony for that, maybe
you and Ms.Holly can attend!
Seriously, I would love to have a BDSM wedding one day, imagine the possibilities!
I would make him wear a wedding gown with his chastity belt on underneath, and I would also wear a wedding gown.
hell, imagine the reception!

**I tell you this, the only way I would think of re-marrying again is IF the submissive will become my wife,
I did it the other way, been there, got the ring and T-shirt, won't marry vanilla ever again!**

I've always planned on two weddings....one for binding slave to Mistress, already have it planned out, and then another later for those family people...lol Haven't planned that one yet....mainly cause they are boring and I couldn't care less....LOL

Yes I do expect him to work. As you said there are plenty of couple in vanilla where both work....why not have two salaries and get my dream dungeon that much sooner...LOL

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 9:47:22 AM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

I think it is unreasonable (D/s or no D/s) to expect one partner to manage the home (clean, cook, shop, pay bills, effect repairs, rear the child, etc.) and hold a fulltime job.

In our home, we split the apple. I work part time and manage the home, and my wife works fulltime.

That sounds like a great set up! My thing about the guy working is not so much the money, which we would need some kind of second income, but I want him out in the world. I don't see how it would work if either stayed home all the time.

I mean you see it all the time, the wives that stay home and the husband loses interests because he gets bored with her. Mainly because he goes out around people, he changes he evolves, and she basically stays the same if all she does is stay home and takes care of kids and house and does nothing else.

I did nanny work at one point and I was bored out of my mind staying in a house all day. And since we all look for like minded people, I guess that's why I can't see me being interested in someone that would stay home all day, honestly, I think they might eventually bore me. I did try something like this once, he never did or said anything new, same ol same ol....I just couldn't stand it. He was one of those that had an problem with working....you guessed it...he didn't last long around me....for lots of reasons...lol I mean at least get out and either work part time or volunteer.

I know I know, not everyone's tastes....it's just me :>

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 9:51:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: TexasMaam

Not really, but I do want a male helpmate. I want a male partner who can help with everything from housework to yardwork to shopbuilding and barnbuilding to cooking to washing and waxing the cars and trucks together. I think I might have found him, too! TM

Congrats TM! I'm jealous

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 10:02:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: talltxsub

Does everyone include feminization (at least at home) in this concept?

not me. Since I am single....no unmentionables....pretty much anything can go depending on my mood....I like the idea of him looking as manly as possible doing the housework...naked (well I'm from Texas so nekkid) or them wearing some kind of cock assessory and leather straps criss crossing his chest. The only thing I borrow from the world of feminization is I do have them wear panties on certain occassions...lol

Is it hot in here? lol

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 11:21:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: YesMistressIrish

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ORIGINAL: MzMia

I want a "male" wife, but I want him to be all man.

Amen!

I certainly agree with this one also!

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 11:53:33 AM

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Wow, great thread!!! It's unbelievable that after so many years i have finally found the perfect definition of my own particular brand of submissiveness.

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RE: Does anyone else here seek a male wife? - 5/20/2007 12:27:03 PM

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If it were a situation of two incomes, with the "wife" doing the housework and taking care of the bills, sure. I was in a common-law relationship where, despite working two hours longer per day than the male did, I was expected to do the laundry, dishes, cooking, cleaning and groceries. Never again.
If I earned enough to have the male wife stay at home, that would be lovely, but most folks where I live have a hard time getting by on one income. I'm sure my cats would love to have a stay at home human to spoil them every time they want attention as well!

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