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Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 5:41:34 PM

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As I sit here on week two or three, I can't remember, of doctor suggested "rest," I get hornier and hornier and welcome the oncoming "domfit" that will result from not grabbing a paddle or strapping on a harness. At least I can sit back and enjoy some femdom-directed self bondage and claim it helps keep me pleasantly distracted.

The last few days I'm reminded of a lot of "little things" that have been big turn ons for me, even though none of them have much to do about sex OR bdsm. I find these things to be suggestive (of what, I don't know, they just get me going), erotic (even though they aren't, in and of themselves, sexual) and intense. I'm curious to see if other people have non sexual things that build a similar list.

For whatever reasons, seeing a guy who I am attracted to with these things often puts me in a "mood":

1. Wet hair (I LOVE to pull hair)
2. Long eyelashes (again, if they are wet, too, I'm toast)
3. Heavy breathing (whether nervous, winded from physical activity or sex)
4. Physically restrained, pinned or held by the arms by another man

That's my short list. There are whole lot more that have to go with things I can feel/taste, but those are just the visual ones. Anyone else similiarly crazy-wired?

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 6:15:06 PM

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One thing that is guarenteed to distract me for an entire day is tight Wranglers.
That damn seam under the zipper rub's just right................

edited cause my fingers forgot the R in Wranglers! duh.........

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 6:19:16 PM

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Button down shirts and blue jeans. Works EVERY time

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 6:34:43 PM

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bringing me hot coco, it's just so sweet. Saying "I love you" my pointing at me.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 6:52:40 PM

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I am also similarly wired heavy breathing really turns it up a noch also.. though its sorta nilla a man doing hard labor sweating or grit or oil coverd from labor not lazyness. Rough hands as in the texture. actually any hand period i have a hand thing. thats all i can hthink of but defenately know where your coming from. Also your number for totaly makes me go orbital.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 7:00:36 PM

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i love when my husband pulls me close and either whispers in my ear or breathes heavy into my ear ... this turns me on more than anything you can ever imagine ...

I also have a favorite outfit that I love him to wear ... I can't keep my eyes or hands off him ... a wife beater with this blue silk shirt over it ... a pair of tight jeans cut with slits at the bottom while he wears these black boots he has ... accentuates his muscular chest and nice ass all in one ... mmmm

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:04:40 PM

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Button down shirts and blue jeans. Works EVERY time

Huh. I wore that dancing last night.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:06:05 PM

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I was with somebody one time that doing "Guy Things" like building stuff with power tools, strapping luggage to the car, and the like made her get all hot and bothered.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:08:51 PM

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Good boy + pat on the head

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:14:45 PM

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Have Y/you noticed women can be more turned on by a dressed man then a naked one.....We had a stripper come to the offices for a birthday celebration and to this day i still think he looked better and sexier in the three piece suit then the baggie he ended in....

i like soft warm hands all over my body but that's a give in as is when i do absolutely anything, even the littlest thing like a look or bending over just a bit and seeing Daddy get excited. That makes me crazy
There is the dripping wet male just out of the shower, broad strong shoulders. soft touches stuff as well...

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:23:39 PM

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the back of a neck, right after a haircut (if he's a hair-cutting kinda guy)...holy crap.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:29:18 PM

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Greetings everyone;

Freud was my uncle (big horny grin)...So just about the majority of things get me turned on...

It's all in the mind..just about any object I see, I can think of a use for it.

But one thing that sends me sailing is hearing someone's breath pattern changing because of arousal.

makes me a gonner

Always,
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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:33:32 PM

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You know I am trying to picture Sinergy in that now. You are evil incarnate.
And I now have a new turn on. I completely and totaly blame Angel for this. Obviously, I can get very turned on if someone sounds close to tears while they are talking to me. Preferably not from emotional distress, but either fear or pleasure. Part of me wants to comfort him, the other part wants to screw him silly (which I wuld never do.. but wow)

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 8:35:18 PM

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There's just something about a man, well dressed in a suit, that crisp white shirt with tie or a tuxedo and smelling oh so good that makes me want to just rip it all right off him. Then there's the added frustration of getting it all off quickly. I attended many many charity functions with a previous sub and I don't think we ever made it to a single one before the 3rd course was on the table. Oh but what fun it was.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 9:00:00 PM

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Just imagine a woman who can sing this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7EUOmdxo2jE in bed. Fast forward to 3:30 to see what I mean.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 9:02:51 PM

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A man's shoulders, especially if his hands are bound behind his back.
I love a male in a white shirt with the cuffs rolled back one or two times.
A man gently petting a cat

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 9:31:32 PM

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Bach. Music. Flowers. Scents. Architecture. Art. And on. Those things heat my blood. Passion. Finding someone else who is turned on by the same things has been amazing.

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 9:37:03 PM

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things that turn me on
~ Daddy's voice on the phone when He calls from the office
~ receiving an email or talking to my special collarme guy
~ a guy with a Brit accent

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 9:40:08 PM

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One thing that is guarenteed to distract me for an entire day is tight Wranglers.
That damn seam under the zipper rub's just right................

edited cause my fingers forgot the R in Wranglers! duh.........

add to the blue or black jeans ~~

a tight ass ..... ahhhhhh

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RE: Things that turn you on - not kinky - 4/14/2007 10:06:51 PM

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My husband with his hair down, shirtless and his jeans riding low on his hipbones. Damn! takes my breath away every time.

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