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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 5/2/2007 7:23:18 AM

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well chia dear she can smile all she wants.im glad shes happy but her way of teaching is not for me. to me sex control is not domination. also if im going to train a boy i like to get to know hims and form a connection,that doesnt happen in days or weeks it can take months and at mystress they run boys through like at burger king. they take the boy from you before you can get that needed connected in order to train.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 5/2/2007 8:52:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressCalico

well chia dear she can smile all she wants.im glad shes happy but her way of teaching is not for me. to me sex control is not domination. also if im going to train a boy i like to get to know hims and form a connection,that doesnt happen in days or weeks it can take months and at mystress they run boys through like at burger king. they take the boy from you before you can get that needed connected in order to train.

Dearest Calico,

And there You have it, as i have been saying all along, MystressWorld is not
for everyone, as nothing ever is. But i differ in opinion that controlling a boys
sex is not Domination, i believe it is part and parcel of his surrender and
obedience to Her. Yes, boys do come and go at MystressWorld, as do they
in all aspects of life. i began study with TC25 (training class) of which there
were eight. Two years later, there are but four of us remaining in this particular
class, not too bad a retention all things considered. Yourself, being an admitted
on-line cyber Domme, has more than likely seen Your fair share of boys come
and go. Burger King huh, well there is a MeatMarket at MystressWorld as
You well know. Can i "Biggie Size" that boy for You? Knowing how the
system works, boys are not "taken" from a Domme, they either leave the
system voluntarily, get booted for proving themselves to be nothing but
pigmales in submissive clothing, or they request re-assignment from their
Domme if they feel it is not working, not happening. i do not know the
specifics of Your own boys when You were a Domme there, only You,
they, and Dearest Mystress do. i came on board to share of my own
experiences and success at MystressWorld, good things can and do
happen there. But to see it dismissed in the context i have been witness
to in this thread, simply saddens me. Dusty must ultimately decide what
is best for himself in this situation, regardless of the differing experiences
presented before him. Have a good day Mistress, it is raining here in
my corner of the world, i love the rain, i become so docile and calm,
reminding me of that sweet submissive nature which weaves it's way
through my each and every moment.

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 5/2/2007 9:13:42 AM

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
And there You have it, as i have been saying all along, MystressWorld is not
for everyone, as nothing ever is. But i differ in opinion that controlling a boys
sex is not Domination, i believe it is part and parcel of his surrender and
obedience to Her.

It's one style of domination, or one aspect of domination. It isn't the be-all and end-all of domination, and some people's style of domination does not include sex. Cuz they're into chastity, or they're pain players, or they're "pure" D/s folks in service. I know some slaves in service to an owner who is not of a compatible gender with their sexual orientation, and that works for them since they have a sexual relationship with another partner, within the structure of that owner/slave relationship.

Sexual domination is valid, but it would be a bad mistake to assume that it's everything there is about D/s. I personally don't go for the classic teasing, sexy, flirty femdom stereotype who is dominant because she is pretty and sexy and controls a man through his cock. My strength and dominance comes from who I am and my mastery of what I can achieve, not how much makeup I put on. I have chosen a path of self-mastery and discipline that emphasizes strength, competence, courage, compassion and chivalry. That is what makes me dominant. I strive in every aspect of my life to be a leader who is worthy of fealty, loyalty, obedience and submission, not to please or impress a man, but because I wish to better myself and actualize myself.

This is who I am as a dominant, and it has exactly jack shit to do with wearing a corset and lipstick and shaking my boobies in some guy's face so that I can lead him around by his dick. Which can be fun too of course, but it has absolutely nothing to do with dominance as far as I'm concerned. It may be a fun and useful tool at times, but I have better ones to hand.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 5/2/2007 10:20:37 AM

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I went over and they not only want money to train subs but money to train Mistresses also.
you can get training online for how to show respect in writing, obedience with a camera or webcam as proof. But actual training, no. Basically what online "training" involves is learning what that particular Mistress wants and likes. Some have you doing all sorts of things and showing off by webcam. That's their thing and a lot of subs are just looking for that. you just have to learn through trial and error which ones are into it and which ones aren't.
Or if you don't want to learn that way, find a group like what's been suggested. Every Mistress likes different things and each will train differently. you don't have to pay someone to humiliate you unless you're into that sort of thing.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 5/2/2007 12:55:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
And there You have it, as i have been saying all along, MystressWorld is not
for everyone, as nothing ever is. But i differ in opinion that controlling a boys
sex is not Domination, i believe it is part and parcel of his surrender and
obedience to Her.

It's one style of domination, or one aspect of domination. It isn't the be-all and end-all of domination, and some people's style of domination does not include sex. Cuz they're into chastity, or they're pain players, or they're "pure" D/s folks in service. I know some slaves in service to an owner who is not of a compatible gender with their sexual orientation, and that works for them since they have a sexual relationship with another partner, within the structure of that owner/slave relationship.

Sexual domination is valid, but it would be a bad mistake to assume that it's everything there is about D/s. I personally don't go for the classic teasing, sexy, flirty femdom stereotype who is dominant because she is pretty and sexy and controls a man through his cock. My strength and dominance comes from who I am and my mastery of what I can achieve, not how much makeup I put on. I have chosen a path of self-mastery and discipline that emphasizes strength, competence, courage, compassion and chivalry. That is what makes me dominant. I strive in every aspect of my life to be a leader who is worthy of fealty, loyalty, obedience and submission, not to please or impress a man, but because I wish to better myself and actualize myself.

This is who I am as a dominant, and it has exactly jack shit to do with wearing a corset and lipstick and shaking my boobies in some guy's face so that I can lead him around by his dick. Which can be fun too of course, but it has absolutely nothing to do with dominance as far as I'm concerned. It may be a fun and useful tool at times, but I have better ones to hand.

Dearest Najakcharmer,

Well we agree that it is one aspect of domination, thus my response to Dearest
Mistress Calico that i believe it to be "part and parcel" of a boys obedience. i
never said it was the "end all, be all" of Domination. i understand that each
relationship is unique unto itself, the needs, desires of the specific individuals
involved, along with how they choose to define and apply such will create
the beauty of their particular relationship. Again, i have never stated that i
believe sexual Domination is "everything" there is about D/s relationships, i
have not said that here in this thread, if anything, i have tried to relay that
there are many, many lessons discussed at MystressWorld which have
nothing to do with sex. i am a boy who rejects typical image and ideology
myself, therefore i applaud You for how You choose to identify with Your
Dominant nature. Stereotypes run rampant throughout D/s exploration,
everybody saying do this, everybody saying be that, i am chia*, unique in
design, a heart of gold with a true love of Powerful Women. Save the
corset, save the lipstick, save the notion that just because a Female has
gorgeous breasts and an oh so sexy pout, i will fall to my knees before
Her. Might suffice for a quick masterbation tool, but if a Woman cannot
reach into my heart and mind and capture my adoration and devotion
with Her strength of thought, She might as well be just another thumbprint
to casually click on. i am a boy whom thrives on intellectual requirement
and demand, any window dressing which accompanies such is merely
eye candy. Yes it does exist by the truckload out here, but i am not the
boy standing on the side of the road with my thumb out seeking to hitch
a ride with such. This is not my experience at MystressWorld, which now
seems a toss up of either being a gaggle of aging, brainwashing, menopause
laden shrews, or a wet dream full of corset wearing, lipstick smeared
Playmates shaking their boobies in my sweat stained face. It is neither.
For myself, it is the opportunity to take a basic lesson which focuses
on D/s relationships, regardless of subject matter, regardless if i agree
or disagree with presentation, and study and share my thoughts on such
with a Dominant Woman. It is made clear to those seeking entry, that
MystressWorld is not a hook-up, meet a playmate, be a pigmale,
institution. Those whom think such, and somehow manage to slip in
beyond the application process, will be quickly disappointed, if not
revealed and booted out faster than they can utter, "Hey, did You bring
the butter and those red leather panties i like so much." It has been
MystressWorld and the Strong Women there who have moved me
far beyond the weak images and applications of simple definition.
i will know Her, and She will know me, in the interum, i chose to align
myself within those parallels which live as truth here in my heart. i cannot
convince a fool that he is something he is not, he is too busy convincing
himself of such to hear me. Though it would be tempting to parade a
dazzling bevy of boobie shaking Playmates in his face, just to watch
sweat. Nahhhhh, i have homework to do, "coming Dearest Mystress."

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 5/2/2007 1:00:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: MiladyElaine

I went over and they not only want money to train subs but money to train Mistresses also.
you can get training online for how to show respect in writing, obedience with a camera or webcam as proof. But actual training, no. Basically what online "training" involves is learning what that particular Mistress wants and likes. Some have you doing all sorts of things and showing off by webcam. That's their thing and a lot of subs are just looking for that. you just have to learn through trial and error which ones are into it and which ones aren't.
Or if you don't want to learn that way, find a group like what's been suggested. Every Mistress likes different things and each will train differently. you don't have to pay someone to humiliate you unless you're into that sort of thing.

HUH?

With Love and Respect, chia* (the pet)

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/8/2008 11:35:55 PM

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Mytress World's website appears to be another lowlife scam. Period. Somehow, I highly suspect "Chia" and "Mytress World" to be one in the same. What a bunch of crap. I have to admit, it is an ingenious little scheme. I'm sure they will rake in the bucks for this one.

It does however violate CM's terms of service since they are soliciting for money. When you get the email, just report them to CM for soliciting money and for violating CM's TOS and delete it.

I was "recruited" even though she never even bothered to look at my profile. Save the scam for someone else.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 12:04:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dusty15

Well I know a Mistrress the does not think so and she thinks that I am not a true slave. This person wanted me to sign a 3mo contract and collar me on our first meeting.If any of the Mistress out there would like to give me some help as to writing them back and telling them and this quote is from Mystress World "this pig male" made a mistake and gave you $60 and that I am looking for a real Mistress

Couple things strike me here:

#1 This Dominant who is presumably local to you and informed you that you're not a true slave -- first of all, you've had one meeting, and she's already taking it upon herself to categorize you so harshly? Furthermore, expecting you to sign a contract and collar you immediately indicates to me that she is not the most stable person out there and doesn't have a good basis in reality. Sounds like she's a control freak who doesn't care who she gets to slap around and humiliate, so long as someone's suffering. I would recommend not pursuing anything further with this woman and putting anything that she's said to you out of your head.

#2 Write them yourself and terminate your training with them. You may not be able to get your money back, but consider it a lesson learnt. Just because you're a submissive does not mean you're a doormat who cannot stand up for himself when he's basically being taken along for a ride. Although to be honest, the fact that you're so easily influenced and balking at the idea of saying "no" indicates to me that you may be suffering from some serious issues with self-esteem and self-image that need to be corrected if you're to pursue a meaningful relationship with a dominant.

#3 I believe in online training as a supplement or a fun activity for a sub to take part in, but not the be-all/end-all of learning to submit. All dominants have their own style and their own preferences, and when a sub comes "pre-programmed" by some cheesy online academy, many real-time dominants don't want to be bothered to have to undo what's been taught and try to start from scratch. That being said, I currently have my boy enrolled in Miss Blue's spring training as a way to help him explore his submission and hopefully to reflect on it enough that it becomes easier for him to set aside his "dominant streak" and open up to me. I do not expect or intend him, however, to really learn to please me beyond that point from his training, simply because I have my own way of doing things that may or may not differ from what his "teacher" is presenting in his lessons.

#4 Pig male... AHAHAHAHAHAHA OH MY GOD YOU'RE SERIOUS?

Okay, that about proves to me that this "MystressWorld" site is garbage pulled straight out of a bad porno.

#5 The grammar Nazi deep within me stirs in anger as it realizes that they're spelling "Mistress" incorrectly. 50 DKP minus.

EDIT: Also, I'm agreeing with the above post. At first I thought that perhaps Chia was just trolling, but now it really seems that he's serious. To which it honestly seems like he's being taken for a fool by a woman who could care less whether he stays or leaves as long as he keeps paying. Or perhaps he's getting some kind of cut from the memberships. Either way, it's a sad state of affairs, and Dusty, I must stress that it is not wise to allow him or anyone else to beg/plead/cajole you into staying if you are not happy and it is not meeting your expectations of what you wanted in the first place. Open your eyes and show your strength.

< Message edited by Pyrrsefanie -- 4/9/2008 12:10:59 AM >

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 12:20:37 AM

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I spoke to a sub a while ago who had joined the site. He was ripped off quite badly and, as someone else pointed out, for all he knew it could have been a 7 foot, hairy arsed truckie who was giving him orders and asking for money for this n that. He was required to pay for a piece of ribbon with his "name", which was sarah, teehee, on a dog bone shaped piece of plastic. He was required to tie it around his dick and send the picture to his "mistress".

I think sometimes subs mistake ProDommes for those "mistresses" on Mystress World, which couldn't be further from the truth. My advice? Run like hell away from it before you send them a cent.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 2:41:54 AM

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i will agree very much with MissMagnolia on this. i was almost caught once having to answer there questionnaire and then i was given the question again if i was to be committed or not along with the cost of the subscription. Then i thought to myself, they wanted my real $$ but they where offering an online service of which i suppose i can get it elsewhere for free..... So i quickly took the exit without all the rest and was asked to keep it secret. Anyway somehow i avoided another internet rip off.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 4:03:44 AM

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quote:

Well I joined a week ago

SUCKA!!!

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 4:10:39 AM

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quote:

but pout and sour grapes never look good on the
resume of a submissive.

As far as I'm concerned...having something like "Trained at Mystress World" would look even worse on the resume.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 8:17:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: cbtnovice

Mytress World's website appears to be another lowlife scam. Period. Somehow, I highly suspect "Chia" and "Mytress World" to be one in the same. What a bunch of crap. I have to admit, it is an ingenious little scheme. I'm sure they will rake in the bucks for this one.

It does however violate CM's terms of service since they are soliciting for money. When you get the email, just report them to CM for soliciting money and for violating CM's TOS and delete it.

I was "recruited" even though she never even bothered to look at my profile. Save the scam for someone else.

And we're back.

Glad you got that off your chest.

What the fuck was missing from ALL my posts here that you didn't get
cock and ball torture novice?

Yeah, I'm Mystress.

Now send me your money.

Or I'll torture your cock and balls.

Oh wait, that would make you happy.

And God forbid that consenting adults should do things which make them happy.

Oh wait, maybe we should just do the things that make you happy.

Yeah, that's it.

Glad we cleared this up.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 8:25:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

I spoke to a sub a while ago who had joined the site. He was ripped off quite badly and, as someone else pointed out, for all he knew it could have been a 7 foot, hairy arsed truckie who was giving him orders

If only.

That and your dirty pillows, and I'm in heaven.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 8:37:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressVnus

quote:

but pout and sour grapes never look good on the
resume of a submissive.

As far as I'm concerned...having something like "Trained at Mystress World" would look even worse on the resume.

I wasn't "trained" at MystressWorld, more like enlightened. As I continue to be
when clicking on the assorted Domme websites so lovingly offered all over the
place here at the cherished collarme hive. Just sayin ya know. There's one now.

I had fun at the site, spent less than I do at $tarbucks there, don't get paid for
defending it. (though I should it seems)

Some people claim that I have not tits and a tight box.

To those people I simply say, "Get off my back".

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 9:34:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie

EDIT: Or perhaps he's getting some kind of cut from the memberships.

Oops, didn't mean to leave you out precious.

Just that I've pretty much heard it all before.

Except for this little tidbit, and again, if only.

Spent two years at MystressWorld.

My choice, no guns involved.

Came full circle in the lesson topic and bid farewell over a year ago.

YEAH FOLKS, CHECK OUT THE DATES MATES.

Had fun, hopefully learned a thing or ten for the billions I spent there, met
some fabulous Dominant Women (Or hairy truckers, whatever the case
may be) some of which I still speak with and meet on other venues,
including the always real and truthful collarme hive.

I will thank you, and all the others who've arrived late and chimed in for
all the free publicity Mystress has gotten from you. (Mystress being her
chosen spelling because I'm sure she doesn't give a rat's ass how you want
her to spell it)

Fact is here, I spent two years there, you didn't, and that gives me two years
advantage over your knowledge of MystressWorld. It's easy to speak from
your ass when all your passing is gas. (Respectfully speaking of course)

Now, about this Miss Blue, might she have some lovely dirty pillows?

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 9:51:35 AM

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Ooooh, and it looks like Chia only retaliates so viciously because he has a problem handling the truth!

Who's next? C'mon guys, this thread is gold. I want to see how long it takes before he goes running back to Mystress crying that the people on the intarnet are being mean again!

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 9:59:57 AM

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Dusty15,

Pyrrsefanie (in her post beginning "Couple things strike me here") said just about everything I was about to write. Read her words and please consider them. She speaks much wisdom that rings true to my reasonably experienced (if not, minimally somewhat experienced) ears.

Elan.

< Message edited by ElanSubdued -- 4/9/2008 10:03:35 AM >

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 10:04:44 AM

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Pyrrsefanie,

Thank you for your sensible, well thought out, and well written post.

Elan.

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RE: Mistress I need your thoughts about Mystress World - 4/9/2008 10:12:25 AM

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I would rather find a real living breathing domme, not some bogus "online" domme. If I wanted "financial domination" I could just send my money to the Nigerians and jerk myself off.

Oh wait, there's a good chance Mystress World IS the Nigerians with a new scam.

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