RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme only looking for a human wallet?

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 12:09:16 PM

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I understand you are miffed. Countless others have bitched about this topic numerous times....so, you are going to be getting a lot of backlash...because, well...most of us are tired of hearing this same whiny complaint over and over again.

However, did you ever consider that there might be guys out there who ENJOY giving away money?

Personally, I'm not a money-domme per se, but, I had several men approach me asking me if they could tribute me and asked if I would be their financial domme. Stupid me was offended by this offer and passed....lol. However, if some guy wants to give me money in the future...for NOTHING...I'm taking it! Who doesn't want free money?

Some girls are very aware of guys who for whatever reason feel too guilty to actually go through with cheating on their wives by either being dominated or by having sex with someone else. They feel that they can give in to their desires of submitting by coughing up the cash....I say more power to those girls!

If YOU don't like it...move on!

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 12:20:58 PM

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I am going to be smart for a Change and say this is a dumbe Post

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 12:47:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: adob3

heres an example of what im trying to get across, my first post has nothing to do with pro dommes
From a profile:
Materialistic dominant young Princess seeks money slaves for shopping and humiliation, only those with real money need message me. I am the best and very expensive. Don't think for a moment that I will have mercy on your wallet loser.

I have to agree with you - this sounds like a prostitute to me too.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 12:54:01 PM

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A whore (male or female) sells sex for cash or gifts, a Pro Dom/me sells, usually, mental dominantion, S&M and other such things. If s/he wants to stay in business s/he will keep sex out of it. So to me sex , mental domination, S&M, fetishs are the difference. Not all whores do those things, most just give blowjobs and vanilla sex.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 1:08:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: adob3

Im curious to see what everyone thinks out there...

There are alot of younger "Dominant" females on this site with names like bemywallet etc, who are only looking for somone to tribute / buy them things/ perform services such as washing thier car and going out to get the dry cleaning and paying for it.

So what is the difference between a person like this and a paid whore? A whore gets paid for her services that get a man off, the so called Domme gets paid and you give her service which is possible to get some men off? So wheres the difference?

From what ive seen there are people out there 99% female who use the term Domme in order to get what they want in monetary forms and that is thier "claim to right in this lifestyle"

Just wondering some opinions on this subject

My opinion is...your realizing that Domination isnt always free nor is it always about
tieing someone to the bed for sex.And from the tone of your letter your not happy about it.
BUT....I have to agree that specific profile of the "princess" does give the rest a bad name.Dont judge Others by her...

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 2:56:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

quote:

ORIGINAL: adob3

Im curious to see what everyone thinks out there...

There are alot of younger "Dominant" females on this site with names like bemywallet etc, who are only looking for somone to tribute / buy them things/ perform services such as washing thier car and going out to get the dry cleaning and paying for it.

So what is the difference between a person like this and a paid whore? A whore gets paid for her services that get a man off, the so called Domme gets paid and you give her service which is possible to get some men off? So wheres the difference?

From what ive seen there are people out there 99% female who use the term Domme in order to get what they want in monetary forms and that is thier "claim to right in this lifestyle"

Just wondering some opinions on this subject

My opinion is...your realizing that Domination isnt always free nor is it always about
tieing someone to the bed for sex.And from the tone of your letter your not happy about it.
BUT....I have to agree that specific profile of the "princess" does give the rest a bad name.Dont judge Others by her...

im not judging others at all, nor does this have a thing to do with prodommes, it just sad that some use this lifestyle to prey on the weak as a wallet. They arent out for the fullfilment of this lifestyle but yet they are searching for a quick fix to thier pocketbooks and wardrobe.

sorry for beating the deadhorse this was my first post here

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 2:58:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: lonlyrossInNeed

I am going to be smart for a Change and say this is a dumbe Post

you would have been smart if you spelt DUMB correctly =D

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:00:33 PM

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and i probably should have used a sugar daddy as an example over a whore to get my point across in a different light

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:09:06 PM

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:14:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: adob3

im not judging others at all, nor does this have a thing to do with prodommes, it just sad that some use this lifestyle to prey on the weak as a wallet. They arent out for the fullfilment of this lifestyle but yet they are searching for a quick fix to thier pocketbooks and wardrobe.

sorry for beating the deadhorse this was my first post here

The only problem I actually have with your post is this:

You say you are not judging others but in the same paragraph you throw in phrases like "prey" and "weak", and you have determined (without actually asking the people in question) that they are not out for the fullfilment of this lifestyle. You do not know if the girl from the profile you posted has a boy or boys who are not money whores also. You only know the small portion you read (I agree, I find it disturbing), but without speaking with her further, you really do not know if any of what you claim is completely true. So yes, you are judging others.

And, it really isn't the judging of others that bothers me so much...everyone does it to some degree, but you say that you are not.

Personally, I just wish all the new boy posters would do a quick search of the forums to find all the old threads regarding tribute/fat dommes/prodommes...blah blah blah blah ...and post their rants onto those boards. Well, that's my rant...lol.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:16:22 PM

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The difference is atleast the paid whore gives you something for your money.

These bitches who want shit for nothing are just straight fucking whako. Likely had abusive alcoholic crackhead parents who sold them for more crack. Which is why they find it ok to use somebody for their money and favors

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Hmmm

/stares at the ground

Yes, I think that I will just walk away from this one

/nods

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:18:34 PM

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Now see...I can ignore Dz because he didn't start a whole new thread on the same topic...hahaha.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:19:01 PM

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Were you saying something?
I kinda couldn't stop looking at those friggin arms of yours.
Now give me lots of money so I can continue to stare at you.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:22:54 PM

adob3

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Were you saying something?
I kinda couldn't stop looking at those friggin arms of yours.
Now give me lots of money so I can continue to stare at you.

lol how bout a 5 spot

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:23:58 PM

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adob3,
IMO you didn't come across all that badly. I understood the question, but it is really easy to see how you riled people up. If that wasn't the intent I suggest that you read those that reacted to you and try to see 'why'.
It can be a good habit to wait a few minutes, proofread and THEN post.

edited cuz.. I didn't follow my own suggestion of proofreading lol. Spelling error.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:24:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

quote:

ORIGINAL: adob3

im not judging others at all, nor does this have a thing to do with prodommes, it just sad that some use this lifestyle to prey on the weak as a wallet. They arent out for the fullfilment of this lifestyle but yet they are searching for a quick fix to thier pocketbooks and wardrobe.

well i guess i came off wrong, the judgement part was mainly directed at im not judging others who gain financially from certain things like prodommes

sorry for beating the deadhorse this was my first post here

The only problem I actually have with your post is this:

You say you are not judging others but in the same paragraph you throw in phrases like "prey" and "weak", and you have determined (without actually asking the people in question) that they are not out for the fullfilment of this lifestyle. You do not know if the girl from the profile you posted has a boy or boys who are not money whores also. You only know the small portion you read (I agree, I find it disturbing), but without speaking with her further, you really do not know if any of what you claim is completely true. So yes, you are judging others.

And, it really isn't the judging of others that bothers me so much...everyone does it to some degree, but you say that you are not.

Personally, I just wish all the new boy posters would do a quick search of the forums to find all the old threads regarding tribute/fat dommes/prodommes...blah blah blah blah ...and post their rants onto those boards. Well, that's my rant...lol.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:31:18 PM

adob3

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some how my post didnt go in that quote

stupid newbie lol

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:31:33 PM

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Well, even though you annoyed me initially, I will give you credit. You are the first boy poster (that I've seen) who ranted about tribute and such who then apologized for offensive actions...so, I guess you aren't horrible...at least, not yet

edited for clarification.

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RE: What is the difference between a whore & a Domme on... - 5/2/2007 3:33:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

Well, even though you annoyed me initially, I will give you credit. You are the first boy poster who ranted about tribute and such who then apologized for offensive actions...so, I guess you aren't horrible...at least, not yet

i wasnt looking to offend anyone unless your just out for a human wallet and nothing else ....i guess i just dont have a way with words

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