juliaoceania -> RE: Turning every thread into a political debate (5/7/2007 11:49:45 AM)
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I guess I should post to the "What's great about America" thread again because I was just reminded that one of the greatest things about America is that you can be a rude asshole and somebody will stand up and defend your right to be one More important question for me in my life, why am I allowing myself to be emotionally impacted by the rude asshole? I have allowed this myself, and I am more and more choosing not to be. I may only have one go at this thing people call "life", I do not want it to be spent on worrying about policing where people choose to express themselves. This is a forum, not a static television show in which we can have some expectation of anything. I find when I have some expectation of other people, I am often disappointed. I find myself lately (very recently I might add) trying just to let people be who they are, and being who I am. I do not expect anything, if I find people annoying, I bypass their posts. I certainly do not expect them to stop what they are doing to please me, why should they? What you find rude someone else may not (actually I don't find it rude, I do not care where people choose to express their ideas, that is what the moderator is for, as long as they are not personally attacking me). I just see it differently. You know there was this talk I was listening to and the speaker (Wayne Dyer) told a story about how he likes to jog in the halls of the hotels that he stays at. He hates exercise machines,and it is easier than finding a place outside to jog. He said he was amazed at how this behavior offended people, one guy said to him "How dare you run around outside my room, how rude you are" You know, it is easy to find reasons to be offended, it is just as easy to find beauty in things if a person wants to... these days I am really trying to find the beauty... Happiness is truly the way
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