slavegirljoy
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Joined: 11/6/2006 From: North Carolina, USA Status: offline
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i don't believe that being a slave requires some trial/sacrifice. i believe that being HUMAN requires some trial/sacrifice. i believe it's rare, if ever, that anyone, slave, sub, Dom or otherwise, goes through life completely unscathed, without ever enduring some troubles and making some sacrifices along the way. Hardships in life are inevitable and builds character (or at least endurance) but, not submission. i don't need to be tested or beaten down, in order to submit. i submit because it feels good and right for me to submit, not to just anybody, of course. Being a slave is all that's required to be a slave. Just as, being a woman is all that's required to be a woman and being a parent is all that's required to be a parent (i didn't say "good" parent, but simply a parent.) i am simply what i am and i do the things that i do because of what i am. i didn't just happen to read something about slaves one day and decide, "Oh, that's what i want to be." i realized that my role within my intimate relationships is most appropriately described as "slave" and that's the word i use to describe myself to others, who are in the BDSM community. As far as my Master sharing me with others, every D/s relationship i have ever been in involved "swinging" and that sometimes took the form of having 4-somes with other couples (usually non-BDSM couples) and other times just me with another woman, for my Dom's or Master's pleasure to watch, and still other times having 3-somes, involving another woman with both me and my Master. Every Dom i have ever been involved with just happen to like being able to have sexual encounters with various people in various ways and not be limited to one-on-one monogamous sex. In my current relationship, my Master enjoys "loaning" me to Dommes to use, in His presence. i don't ask Him "why" He enjoys this because the reason doesn't matter to me. The fact is He does enjoy it and i enjoy pleasing Him by doing what He wants and i enjoy seeing that it makes Him happy when i am being used by a Domme. i have never been "shared" with another, without my Dom or Master at least being present, if not actively involved. Not every D/s or M/s relationship is like that and not every Master has an interest in sharing His property, but some do. If it bothered me to be shared with others, i wouldn't be intimately involved with a Dom or Master who wanted to share me. Just as, if it bothered me to be bound, gagged, blindfolded, tied naked to a tree in the woods and left there for however long my Master decided, i wouldn't be a slave to this Master. It's important to be who you really feel comfortable being and to be with someone who allows you to be who you are. If something doesn't feel right for you, then it's not right for you. To me, it's as simple as that. slave joyOwned property of Master David "Commitment transforms a promise into a reality." quote:
ORIGINAL: BeingChewsie So why does being a slave require some trial/sacrifice? What does that have to do with being enslaved? What makes them a slave is being owned. I have never understood where this idea comes from. quote:
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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247 i also agree with the idea that there must be some trials and sacrifices for a slave to bear and overcome in their slavery, or else, what is it that makes them a slave at all? Prop, from what I recall, you've always said that your being a slave is simply a fact of birth- not something you have to learn or endure trials to become. ?? not at all LA. in order to be a slave one must be owned, those are not circumstances most people are born under. perhaps you're confusing "slave" with things i've said about being a submissive. that is something that imo one simply is, and not something one can ever become. but i have noticed over the years that what many in the lifestyle think of as "slave," Daddy and i would simply call submissive.
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