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Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:17:48 AM

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I learn from the simplest things as I was musing about the various responses to the recent question:
Does [cock] size matter?
When I suddenly realized, there's another manly "size" question, at least in my mind, perhaps not wholly unrelated to D/s pursuits among men & women.

Does a man's physical HEIGHT matter?

Specifically, does a submissive woman tend to gravitate and yearn more for a taller Dom or Top than the lesser height-endowed men?

RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:18:54 AM

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Yup. Minimum of six feet for me.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:31:07 AM

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Height is a major deal breaker!!

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:35:13 AM

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While i prefer men taller then me, if they are within an inch or two of my height (5'10) i dont really have a problem and wouldnt be a deal breaker. There are other factors that matter so much more.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:35:15 AM

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i prefer six feet or more. Still, i am more interested in character, and intellegence to let it (height) really deter me from being with someone if they had all the integral qualities i admired...or were amazing in bed.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:37:52 AM

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I used to be attracted to tall men, then I fell in love with one of average height, and I married him (the lucky sod!). Height is an accessory, not a destination.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:53:29 AM

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So funny all of the silly things we put on our "important qualities" shopping list.

I always said I wanted a dark haired, petite woman. That was before I fell madly in love with a 5'10" blonde. (I am 5'6") The end had nothing at all to do with height. Now I just keep my options open.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 7:56:34 AM

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Eh, they're all the same height when they're laying down.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:03:07 AM

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I had a serious thing for tall men for years (I'm 5'2" so 'tall' is subjective.) Experience showed me that even a guy who is 6' 4" can still be a very small man. Now a guy doesnt have to be a tree-topper - he can still be a giant in my eyes if his heart is in the right place.

p.s. too MUCH height could make strap-on play a real challenge. I'm just sayin....

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:03:15 AM

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When I look, it's always the tall guys that turn my head. But when it comes down to it, I have beeen in relationships with men of all sorts of different physical characteristics.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:11:30 AM

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Yes, but only because I am tall 5'9", I'm more comfortable with men my height or perferably taller. It has nothing to do with D/s

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:12:28 AM

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I find all sorts of men attractive, but the major relationships in my life have always involved ones that are taller than 6 ft.
now, the real deal breaker...their thighs have to be bigger than mine

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:17:44 AM

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Eh, they're all the same height when they're laying down.

Yea, but you're so short, you don't even have to get on your knees if he's just the right height. *snickers*

Being 5'10", I'm not interested in anyone shorter than me. Been there, done that. My Master is 6' and I just love that He's a bit taller than me.

In my experience, men seem to add a bit on to their actual height on profiles, especially if they are under 6'. I can't tell you how many guys I met who were 2-4 inches shorter than what they have listed. I don't know if it's intentional, or they're just guessing, or if it's just wishful thinking, but they got a rude awakening when they came face to face with a woman who hadn't lied about her height.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:18:22 AM

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i have the same issue as flutter.. I'm 5'2 so.. "tall" isnt saying much. but i do tend to be attracted to ppl at least a few more inches taller then me. ppl (men) arnt supposed to be my height.. it just.. feels wrong u know.. makeing out with someone and i dont have to stand on tip toe. could just be that i havent had bfs who were around my height. bf1 was 6'5 or more.. and bf2 was probably around 6' even. i dont have much experience so.. yeah.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:18:50 AM

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I've never really thought about this one at all. I think though that i would have to say yes i'd prefer my man to be taller than me. Saying that i haven't had a partner that wasn't taller than me, but i am only 5ft 4 so i guess the odds are on for me being with someone taller than myself.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:29:11 AM

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i prefer six feet or more. Still, i am more interested in character, and intellegence to let it (height) really deter me from being with someone if they had all the integral qualities i admired...

Well, there ya go. We taller guys are more, uh, highminded.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:29:13 AM

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Im 5"2 like other people have said most people are taller than me. My ex wasnt and it wasnt much of an issue to be honest.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:34:51 AM

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I couldn't care less, but my Darling is actually looking for a taller guy than she is (she's 5' 9" or 5' 10" depending on who is measuring and whether she 'slumps' to try to look more delicate) because she -likes- going dancing with a guy who is taller than she is. Now, not -every- guy in our household would have to be 6' +... but at least one is eventually going to have to be, I guess, so she can have a dancing partner.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:52:26 AM

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I'm 5 ft 7 and I like them taller than me because it makes me feel small and delicate (and I'm neither small NOR delicate). And in my experience (like others), if guy is under 6 ft 1, then he adds 2 inches to his height. So if someone says he's 5 ft 9, I figure we'll be looking eye to eye.

Interesting that the first guy I was engaged to was about 4 inches shorter than me and Italian. I broke it off (for other reasons). My husband was 5 ft 5 and Italian. We're divorced. I've never even dated anyone other than those two that were shorter than me.

Methinks I should stay away from Italians that are shorter than me.

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RE: Does size matter? (physical height, not cock length) - 1/16/2009 8:57:29 AM

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To an extent it does. I wouldn't want someone so short I towered over him and that's not easy for me to do at 5' foot 5 in a half. Nor would I really want us to be head to head, dead on at the same height.

Most men tend to be about 6 feet tall or so, and so I've never had any problem with them being to short.

But then if I REALLY like them and they really have something going for them and we're really compatible other wise, I wouldn't pooh pooh someone who was shorter than I wanted, provided he wasn't a midget and provided that I didn't tower over him by a full head or more.

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I learn from the simplest things as I was musing about the various responses to the recent question:
Does [cock] size matter?
When I suddenly realized, there's another manly "size" question, at least in my mind, perhaps not wholly unrelated to D/s pursuits among men & women.

Does a man's physical HEIGHT matter?

Specifically, does a submissive woman tend to gravitate and yearn more for a taller Dom or Top than the lesser height-endowed men?

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