Serenelysmiles
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Joined: 11/7/2008 Status: offline
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I'm sorry this happened to You, and it does happen to everyone. I even had one Dominant go so far as to tell me He was already at a certain hotel in my city, but of course, when I called the hotel they had no record of Him, and His cell phone just "wouldn't work" in my area suddenly so He claimed that He wasn't able to get my calls. The point is that You have to go back out and try again. If You let the game playing of one person jade You, then You could end up overlooking somebody that is real and true. Just to play Devil's advocate for a minute, You said she was back online, but that You had still been talking with her on the phone. Have You talked to her to clarify the situation, asked about the recent activity. I hate to say it, and I've been guilty of this, too, in the past before I learned a few lessons of my own, but a lot of people are unsure about committing fully to something until it becomes tangible, and for subs, these sites are like a shopping mall. So, you might make a choice, but then when the time comes for a real commitment you start to panic a bit, wondering if you've made the right choice. I think in this situation I would try talking to her before making too many assumptions about what was happening in her head, especially if she's still answering her phone and hasn't blocked you. A lot of budding relationships die because somebody made a mistaken assumption. I wish You the best with this situation.
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Peace, love and light. Namaste', serene "Though art to me a delicious torment." ~Ralph Waldo Emerson~ "Wit is well-bred insolence."~Aristotle~
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