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silkncarol -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/22/2009 8:59:21 PM)

I can understand how shaving a slaves head would strip them down.....

I was bald for about 8 months....not because of the lifestyle but from going thru chemo.  Being without hair made me face my own vanities and ego.  There's nowhere to hide..no distractions....

It did give me a great appreciation of bald men.....it's cold without hair..but it sure saved lots of time on my beauty routine and expenses..my stylist sorely missed me!



LadyPact -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/22/2009 9:55:10 PM)

My question in return would be...... why?

Tell Me about this one act proves either power or authority?  Is there a greater purpose?  Have you implemented it into a dynamic so that this act has meaning or is it just some random fantasy that gets your dick hard?

All things that we incorporate should have some significance.  Otherwise, it is just the illusion of power for power's sake.



mbes -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/22/2009 9:57:26 PM)

Too many cancer victims/survivors in my family for this to be anything other than an ordeal. Thankfully, my other knows this.



jeninvegas -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/22/2009 9:58:47 PM)

I probably would not...but I never said I am a slave.  [:D]



GotSteel -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/22/2009 10:00:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
BTW op, unless that pic you have is of you, it's rude as hell to post a pic without the person's approval. And her approving you taking it a couple of years back does not equal permission to post it now. If you took it off another site, that's just wrong.


I figured it was from some porn he found. To the OP, writing nothing but a porn fantasy and putting up a pic of porn....good luck with that.



DavanKael -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/22/2009 10:46:23 PM)

Not just no: hell fuck no. 
I'm fond of my hair and, well, my chest hurts if I flounce around without some support for too long. 
  Davan



sirsholly -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/22/2009 11:01:53 PM)

first...come near me with a pair of clippers and you will lose a nut.

But my real question is...where'd ya get this pile of horse hooey?

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My thought is that all subs build up a lot of walls to  get through life and to be normal.   I feel that a sub must be stripped of everything and brought down to a very basic level to be rebuilt into a slave.


Never generalize!! "All subs"? Yeah? Sayeth whom?

And what the hell would make you think that a submissive has to built walls to get through life? I am getting through life just fine, thanks, and doing so without a wall in sight. My head is held high, i am confident in my abilities and have the inner strength to allow myself to stumble but never to fall. I do not need a wall to protect myself. I have confidence. Walls crumble. Confidence endures.

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get through life and be normal

Actually, what i find highly offensive with this is not that you feel submissives are not normal, but that you feel you have the right to judge.



kuppykake -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 12:20:44 AM)

My answer- hell to the no!  I've been growing my hair since middle school and it's only at the middle of my back.  However, I do plan to donate it someday, but I couldn't shave my head.  I have a reputation to uphold as well as a business....bald chicks (unless they are on chemo) definitely don't appear professional.  I think it would be important to understand that not everyone appreciates this kind of lifestyle, and while it shouldnt matter what other think, it does.  If a slave is open to shaving her head then it is a possibility, but even if she wants to do it for you, you need to respect boundaries- even if she did not draw them.  Respect has to come from both parties... you need to be able to know what is truly best for your slave.



WyldHrt -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 12:54:42 AM)

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first...come near me with a pair of clippers and you will lose a nut.

I like the way you think, Holly. [:D]



sirsholly -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 12:57:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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first...come near me with a pair of clippers and you will lose a nut.

I like the way you think, Holly. [:D]

thanks Wyld!!



TurboJugend -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 12:57:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bigsweetmaster

I am in search of a true slave to belong to me in a 247 D/s relationship.
My thought is that all subs build up a lot of walls to get through life and to be normal. I feel that a sub must be stripped of everything and brought down to a very basic level to be rebuilt into a slave.

I think that taking away all the slave's clothing and shaving their heads is a good why to remove all the barriers.

My question is, would you do this?

Mark



And what hear should we pull when it is gone? I love the look on the face when you grab her hair and correct here. Best way to make her face you....grab her hair and pull her close.
( and I propably would be dead when I even mention it)



Rule -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 1:33:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bigsweetmaster
I am in search of a true slave to belong to me in a 247 D/s relationship.
My thought is that all subs build up a lot of walls to get through life and to be normal. I feel that a sub must be stripped of everything and brought down to a very basic level to be rebuilt into a slave.

I think that taking away all the slave's clothing and shaving their heads is a good why to remove all the barriers.

My question is, would you do this?

My conclusion is that you have no idea what a slave nor a sub are. Any sub associating with you runs the high risk of irreparable mental damage.



Lashra -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 4:20:39 AM)

Nope, I love long hair on males and females so I would leave it alone. Long hair brings me pleasure but I understand that some Dominants rather not deal with it. I also do not believe in breaking subs "down", I rather work to build mine up so that they feel they are happy, healthy, balanced human beings. As far as having them naked, mine does not have to wear clothing when we are at home in private, unless it is chilly then I have him dressed so he does not get sick.

~Lashra



LillyoftheVally -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 4:23:18 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DomCoupleBeijing
I think shaving a submissive's head would be very psychologically powerful. I would personally love to have the opportunity. Also, I doubt personally doubt a shaved head would preclude a decent job.



And lets think why it would be psychologically powerful for a moment.

Cancer
POW victims

Two of the groups 'made' to shave their heads. Of course there are women who shave their heads for fun, I have a friend who does and thats fine if it is her thing. But to say it wouldn't preclude a decent job suggests you have limited knowledge or experience with work. Most jobs in the UK at least require a certain standard of appearance, no visible tattoos etc, hell I wasn't allowed to wear a nose stud at one job. This also does not only extend to jobs working face to face with customers. Imagine the treatment by other employees? If you think there wouldn't be any then I think you have little experience with human beings.

Women are held to different standards, wrong though it may be.

Of course if you have the money to keep them out of work and maintain a decent standard of living as well as putting money away for if the relationship fails, and of course have a slave with a very understanding/absent family and group of friends then fine...I wonder how many people that applies to.



purepleasure -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 4:38:51 AM)

Would I shave a fem slave's head. ONLY if she wanted it.

Personally, I prefer my girls with hair above the neck, and bald below it



kallisto -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 5:30:25 AM)

No, not shaving my head.   If someone thought they had to strip me of everything and build me up from the bottom, then I'm not the person they are wanting.   Making me into someone I'm not - nah, not the life I want.  



DarkSteven -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 6:52:14 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DomCoupleBeijing

I'm sorry for all the off-topic responses to your post. Gasp -- maybe you're not "experienced" enough for this website. (If my reply were to resemble the others, this is where I'd add some completely irrelevant remark that's more about me and my particularities then about your question.)



I think you misunderstood me.  I did not want to imply that he was too inexperienced for the site itself, but to own a slave.

Owning a slave is in some ways analogous to raising a child.  You have complete 100% control of another human being and are responsible for his or her wellbeing.

Picture a childless couple about to adopt.  I would expect them to ask lots of questions from their friends who already have children.  I would also expect them to spend lots of time with families with children and perhaps even babysit their kids.  There may be seminars on parenting given by the adoption agency.  Of course, there are numerous books an childraising as well.  The more they study, the more they learn, and also the more I would consider them to have a desire to do the job right.

Similarly, someone who wants a 24/7 slavegirl should spend their time learning what the hell they're doing.  This would involve attending local functions, meeting others who live as Master/Mistress and slave, asking questions, trying things out with subs, reading up, and learning.

Red flags:

1. OP's first post talks about steps he wants to take with his new slave, and he hasn't even met her.  He seems to not understand that a relationship consists of people, and that the rules depend on what works for them.
2. He talks about breaking a slave down and rebuilding them.  Without having any experience. 
3. His profile shows a pic of a fetish model instead of a pic of him. 
4. His profile does not describe himself or the woman he wants.
5. His profile does not describe the activities he expects from his slave.  Does he want a service slave?  A sex slave?  Body worship?
6. He states that the slave will be unclothed at all times at home.  He is unacquainted with the menstrual cycle or else simply hasn't thought things through.

Basically, he has a fantasy and no clue about the responsibility he would bear as an Owner.




SoulPiercer -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 7:11:34 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
first...come near me with a pair of clippers and you will lose a nut.


Why only one nut, Holly? We need to work on your aim.



manxcat -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 7:13:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GotSteel

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP
BTW op, unless that pic you have is of you, it's rude as hell to post a pic without the person's approval. And her approving you taking it a couple of years back does not equal permission to post it now. If you took it off another site, that's just wrong.


I figured it was from some porn he found. To the OP, writing nothing but a porn fantasy and putting up a pic of porn....good luck with that.



Has no one else noticed the IKEA logo in the lower right corner?  Any  photo in a published ad may be copied for personal use, but not for the purpose of advertising or gain, unless paid for and having written permission from the owner.[:-]

As to the OP, I am with the majority of responders.



chiaThePet -> RE: Female slaves Headshaved (8/23/2009 7:14:28 AM)


It's all good until some Dominant tells you to lay your head on the pool table and picks up a cue stick.

Also, when you're walking next to the real pale ones, it looks like you're escorting a big penis.

chia* (the pet)



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