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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 8:50:49 PM

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Come to think of it, the black woman is just about as opposite the Asian female as can possibly be done while staying within the same species, in looks, in attitude, and in personality.

Come now, surely you can't be as ignorant as this post makes you seem. In fact, I've read other posts of yours and have found you to have informed and intelligent viewpoints on many things. But the above quoted statement is ludicrous. The idea that you can sum up and entire subset of humanity as "the black woman" and judge them as such. WTH? There is no such thing as The Black Woman. They are as varied in personality, looks, and attitude as The White Man.

I think you meant to say something more like some black women, or maybe those that you've had encounters with. I'm just going to assume that you meant that and continue to like you.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 8:51:25 PM

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(Not as much against women who chase white men, interestingly enough.) I think a lot of that comes from a defensiveness because black women think they are starting out with an unfair shake because they are "less beautiful" in this society than white women.

Red ... good insight ... but

Actually, as a single white male,

in an area with a large black population ... i am noticing ... black Women are increasingly pursuing white men.

In fact .. a number (from my limited sampling) are becoming Dommes ... and specifically seek white men.

i am thinking ... perhaps ... Black Women's reaction is ... turn about ... is fair play.

They chase white men ... too

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:00:14 PM

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Come to think of it, the black woman is just about as opposite the Asian female as can possibly be done while staying within the same species, in looks, in attitude, and in personality.

Come now, surely you can't be as ignorant as this post makes you seem. In fact, I've read other posts of yours and have found you to have informed and intelligent viewpoints on many things.

That's the beauty about the forums. In time you get exposed for what you are.

the guy is a complete tool....I wonder if he is a teabagger too boot?

I think pompeii attended the MasterGoad88 school of thought.

Peg, just because someone is smart doesn't mean they are not some sort of a racist cock....Mel Gibson comes to mind.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:04:39 PM

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Strangely enough, my ex husband found the "submissive/passive" quality in women from his culture (Indian/Asian) to be incredibly annoying. He didn't like the way the women he knew to be very accommodating and have little opinion that they would freely voice. (In his culture, the women are certainly able to - and some do - voice their opinions very strongly, without any of the preconceived notions of what the consequence of doing that will be, because there are none.) When we met, I was 21, very outspoken, and very controlling. He liked that... for a while. After being married to a "drill sargeant" for many years, he didn't like it very much. I also didn't like being the "decision maker" all the time. So, what drew us together, eventually drove us apart.

My ex can't wrap his head around the change in me now. He asks me at times, "Do you ever go nuts on [DB] the way you used to with me?" I smile and say, "No, never." He asks what made the change. I answer honestly, "I'm not the same person at 40 I was at 20. And also... [DB] would never put up with that shit."

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:12:08 PM

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I am really happy to live in America where people can have relationships with people of all colors.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:27:25 PM

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Thought i should add this ....

Some of my .... (note, some, NOT ALL ) .... better dates ....

Have come with Black Women ... in a number of ways ... mentally ...

I have found them to be better dates ... more fun, more open ... than a number of white Women ....

Just my limited experience ...

But ... I don't think twice about dating a lovely White Woman, a lovely Black Woman, or lovely Asian Woman ... for that matter ... so to me ... I do not distinguish ...

It all depends on the person I am with ...

EDITED TO SAY .... I Ment this to the poster ... not the person on the bottom right side of the screen. Sorry about that ...

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:29:59 PM

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Yep... the best match is whomever is right for you, for whatever the reason.

ps, SOT ~ I knew you were doing a FR... no worries.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:38:48 PM

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Is this thread about black women? Or asian?Or dominant men what they prefer?

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:40:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: SomethingCatchy

I simply don't find most black people attractive. I prefer clean facial lines, well defined lips, light colored eyes, brown or blond hair that's straight or with a slight curl. Most black people do not have these features, so I simply don't have any attraction to them. The ones that I have noticed in the past have all been an obvious 'mix' with some white or European (I'm thinking hunky British models).

I just realized that's why I'm not attracted to Asians, Mexicans, Latinos. They don't have the right facial structure that gets me wet. I don't like round or flat faces.

Yeah because white people have clean facial lines and well defined lips. Yeah because black people dont have very defined lips.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:42:38 PM

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It's actually a question of whether Black Dominant men prefer white submissive women, or vice versa. It progressed into a discussion of different ethnicities and genders, one of them being that of Asian women.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:44:45 PM

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because black people dont have very defined lips.

*getting ready to go to bed, with visions of Tyler Perry's lips in my head* Thanks!

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:45:28 PM

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It's actually a question of whether Black Dominant men prefer white submissive women, or vice versa. It progressed into a discussion of different ethnicities and genders, one of them being that of Asian women.

I am american born. Some boys find that not attractive. They say "oh, your NOT asian". Even though one parent is asian and the other english. What is asian anyway to you?

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 9:50:39 PM

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It's actually a question of whether Black Dominant men prefer white submissive women, or vice versa. It progressed into a discussion of different ethnicities and genders, one of them being that of Asian women.

I am american born. Some boys find that not attractive. They say "oh, your NOT asian". Even though one parent is asian and the other english. What is asian anyway to you?

I have interracial children. That means that they are half white American kids, and half Sri Lankan (Asian). I don't tell them that they are one or the other. To me, they are both. One of my kids looks more like my ex, and one looks more like me. That doesn't make the other any less white or Asian than the other.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 10:20:01 PM

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I have interracial children. That means that they are half white American kids, and half Sri Lankan (Asian). I don't tell them that they are one or the other.

They are Americans .... that is all that matters ...

With all apologies to the Canucks, Brits and Aussies who come on here .. too .. no offense intended .. at all .... You are all wonderful ... too!

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 10:24:06 PM

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[Awaiting Approval]

Someone tell me what this means??????? I see it a lot but I do not understand it.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 10:45:21 PM

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[Awaiting Approval]

Someone tell me what this means??????? I see it a lot but I do not understand it.

It means that bella loves to openly discuss the atrocity that is circumcision and the mods feel that it is better left to be approved.

Hence [Awaiting Approval of your next post about circumcision].

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 11:00:23 PM

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It's actually a question of whether Black Dominant men prefer white submissive women, or vice versa.

Yes, it is. Let's take it back on topic, please.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/10/2010 11:40:17 PM

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It means that bella loves to openly discuss the atrocity that is circumcision

You don't make any sense. And you look gay. Are you submisisve or a switch?

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 12:00:16 AM

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It is a smorgasboard. Why limit your diet to only chicken when steak is available

Best.answer.yet

On the flip side, if I thought a Dom's main interest in me was the color of my skin, I'd drop him in a heartbeat. That said, if he really wanted me for who I am, and the color of my skin was something that made me more attractive to him.... well then, giddyup!

Oh, and lynn; posting OT after a mod warning is a no-no. Just saying.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 12:23:50 AM

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http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/2009/10/05/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/

This was an analysis of user behavior on the site okcupid.com. While the Columbia studies are probably better controlled, this has the advantage of being based on actual behavior and not stated behavior, thus eliminating reporting bias. Some sample charts;

So;

Black women write back the most.

Almost universally, men respond to black women less often compared to other races/ethnicities.

As a whole, black women are least preferred by black men compared to other races and vica-versa.

Black men are the least responded to by black women, but more responded to by black women than anyone else.

Black men are slightly more responsive to white women than anyone else, but less slightly responsive to white women than women of any other race except black and hispanic.

So, there definitely does appear to be a significant racial bias in dating. This data agrees with my experiences as well. Of the women (here) who I have either dated or maintained prolonged conversations with, about half have been black. This also jives with my dealings with women encountered offline. Black women are more likely to give me the time of day than anyone else.

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