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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 10:56:19 AM

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I edited VC, because I was looking for the world tai chi champion. thats the first link now.

Fucking grace or what?

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 11:47:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I edited VC, because I was looking for the world tai chi champion. thats the first link now.

Fucking grace or what?

I dated that gal in the eighth grade....Every single move I made towards a boob or her twat was immediately thwarted.

At times she was moving so fast that her hands were just a blur ....For every move there was a countermove...
It was a dance of frustration.

I hate you Karen Marchowiak....I hope you are dead.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 1:43:58 PM

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Gash blocked

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 1:57:36 PM

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...still no word on the embalming situation...

(kidding, kidding...)

Seriously: what Pompeii said was unpleasant. It was an exaggeration, it was a generalisation, it was the perpetuation of a negative stereotype.

But stereotypes and archetypes don't come out of nowhere. I'm not sure I buy your 'blame it on the economics' theory-and moving to another country doesn't entirely invalidate your original culture, so I don't think you can dismiss what sunshinemiss had to say as off-topic quite so readily.

Saying 'you're an Asian, therefore I expect you to be quiet and passive' is flawed. But saying 'some Asian cultures traditionally value passivity and quietness in a way that wider American society doesn't, and therefore some Asian American women are quieter and more passive than your average white American woman as a result of the influence of their primary culture' is more understandable (if much more long-winded).

Having lived in both America and east Asia, I would completely agree with everything you wrote here. The east Asian version of patriarchy broadly encourages women to behave like cute, passive little dolls, and many of them seem happy enough to conform to these expectations. Of course there are also a lot of individual exceptions, and they strike me as all the more impressive (I'm personally not much of a fan of female passivity and quietness!) because of their willingness and ability to swim upstream against the attitudes of their own cultures.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 3:08:00 PM

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See, someone says "Asian people" I think "people who live in Asia" ... someone says "Asian - American", I think "someone who lives in the USA (because only people from that country are arrogant enough to think they are the *only* Americans) of Asian heritage"...

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 5:24:36 PM

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I'm actually curious why you chose avatars of black individuals Domi. I mean rumour has it that you are fish belly white ;-)

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 5:35:37 PM

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I'm guessing "Off Topic", Heart

Give the little lady a kewpie doll.

Yes, it means off topic.... which this post is as well

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 5:51:30 PM

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I owe the mods an apology...

You're an asshole.
Your rants add no value.
I refuse to be in any thread you're in.
I suspect you're a fifteen-year old cowardly kid hiding behind a big keyboard.
You make up conspiracies out of thin air, you denigrate people, and you add zero value.
You're, in a word, an asshole.
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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 5:56:41 PM

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I'm in a feisty mood today ... and dutifully following the recently written rules of our own ResidentSadist:
1 - Say something shocking or strange (which leaves them wondering what will happen next)
2 - Say something deeply offensive (makes them angry and looking for faults to flame you with in retort)
3 – Say something sensual (makes them slide their hand in their pants until they find release)

Those rules are meant for those who create a wall 'o text dumbass. Nice try. Add me to the list of people who are offended by your racist comments.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 5:57:36 PM

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I owe the mods an apology...

You're an asshole.i

nope...an asshole would not have apologized.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 6:00:19 PM

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 6:03:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: pompeii

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
I owe the mods an apology...

You're an asshole.
Your rants add no value.
I refuse to be in any thread you're in.
I suspect you're a fifteen-year old cowardly kid hiding behind a big keyboard.
You make up conspiracies out of thin air, you denigrate people, and you add zero value.
You're, in a word, an asshole.
Pompeii

Whatever, you racist twat.

You erase (edit) your words because you don't have the guts to stand behind what you have written. What a pussy!!!

You enlist the aid of two dumb cunts, slavelynn95008 and asiansubmissie, to pick up your cause. What a pussy!!!

You send me a private messages then block my response. What a pussy!!

I don't edit my posts...I stand behind what I write...If I ever say something that I feel is inappropriate or has unduly caused one harm I apologize. It happens. You erase and act like nothing has transpired. What a pussy!!!

If I am a fifteen year old, then there are a shit load of women that are pedophiles. You are still a pussy!!!

You are gutless. And a pussy!!!

I participate in quite a few threads. I am sure that your absence will go unnoticed. Here is the bright spot....Lots of people do enjoy pussy out here so I might be mistaken on this one.

Fuck off.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/11/2010 6:06:35 PM

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Okay everyone. Take it private or hit the Hide button.

Black doms, white subs.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 3:24:55 AM

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um well..... gosh, this has been interesting reading ........

I am a bit scared to respond.... is it safe?

I can only speak about the opposite but I have had d-types, ....well males in general approach me primarily because of my skin colour and in many cases they have an underlying expectation that will act in a certain way in line with their stereotypes. They have often then been disappointed that I do not fit this stereotype.

Now I totally acknowledge that I have my own preferences for people I date however personally I would prefer that someone is attracted to me initially because of who I am rather than the colour of my skin

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 3:41:22 AM

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Gold coast slave ship bound for cotton fields
Sold in a market down in New Orleans
Scarred old slaver knows he's doin alright
Hear him whip the women just around midnight!

ahhhhhhhh, Brown sugar, how come you taste so good
ahhhhhhhhhhh Brown Sugar! just like a black girl should!

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Holy Fuck.
For thirty years I have not known line one at all.....or "scarred old slaver"

Thank you Wolfman Jeffff

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 8:42:08 AM

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lyric guy didn't know the words either...He is so precious.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 8:55:06 AM

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This whole thread is racist, why ain't it about white subs/Black Doms?

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 10:00:18 AM

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What is it that black Doms have against their own race?

I don't assume they have any prejudice against women of a similar ethnicity. I merely assume they're exercising free will and selecting the partner that suits their tastes. Much like many are when they choose someone with BDSM leanings.

The reasons behind their choices can be tenfold and you'll receive a million different answers, none inherently right or wrong, but reflective of what works for the one in question.

And for what it's worth, there are quite a few women of color that date exclusively outside of their race. Although it would appear that men who choose to do the same are stigmatized far more than their female counterparts.

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 10:59:18 AM

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Why is it you never see a red headed Irish dom looking for a Jew broad sub???

Racist Micks...

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RE: Black Doms/white subs - 5/12/2010 11:01:52 AM

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That dont make sense, lets have us a wee booze up and go get us some gefilte fish to puke up?

Thats tacky, not kinky.

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