LadyConstanze
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Well, I think the problem you have here is that because you are a good person who thinks sharing expenses is normal, I can tell you that most of the so called subs do not think so. I'm not kidding you, I had several guys email me about a fetish, I explained that I have no personal interest to play with them, nor is the fetish one I share but I have a bit of experience in it, so if they have technical questions and safety concerns, I would answer. Guess what happened? Most of them kept on telling me what they want me to do to them, what items of clothing I have to get, which spurs, where to meet them (yeah I'll travel halfway across the country and pay for a hotel room for a fetish that doesn't interest me), I usually got rid of them when I said "Well, since it's all about you and your desires (some told me how I have to show my "enjoyment" as it is important for them - gotta laugh about that one) the tribute for it would be..." Most went into a terrible huff and yup, they disappeared (RESULT)! Telling them I am not interested, just didn't stop them! I know several women here who traveled to meet somebody and were stood up, repeatedly, so some had the idea to verify that it is a real person is having a nominal amount sent through a webpage where you gotta link a bank account, it wasn't much something like $5, peanuts really, but as far as I understood unless you had bank accounts in different names you could only be signed up once. They expected that some guys had several identities on CM and just played them. You should have heard the uproar from some "subs"... You know personally about 90% of the subs on CM I wouldn't meet, not even for a coffee, in fact I would go out of my way to not meet them. Look around, the dommes are always at fault, the guys don't need to use their brains, they want their itches scratched and the dommes should bend over backwards to do that, if they don't do it right, they are wrong, if they want to be pushed harder than the domme is comfy with, oh then the dommes are fakes and not real, if they push them too hard, the dommes are irresponsible... To be honest, those guys can go and dominate themselves, why would I waste my time on them when I can meet somebody IRL who hasn't got all those pretensions and is a bit more grounded in reality.
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