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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/12/2014 7:03:40 PM

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If it can be Me, it can be anybody, right?

I'm sorry you folks got dragged into this. I really do have regret.

You have absofarkinlutely nothing to regret. You didn't drag us into anything. The idjit stalking you started all this. If it wasn't you, it would have been someone else. There's no rhyme or reason to the understanding of a stalker's mind. Because we don't have that mindset. That's the difference between us and them. We can't think like them, they can't understand why their behavior creeps the hell out of us.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/12/2014 7:20:42 PM

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Can I give that a +1

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/12/2014 8:16:50 PM

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Not to turn this into My personal crap. Just to update.....

MP talked with the (grown) girl-child tonight. She has taken care of blocking on her end and will be sending the same instructions to her brother. (Who, I have to say, is more computer savvy than any of us.) Hopefully, everything is squared away on her end.

Tomorrow, we have a couple of appointments. Seeing things through.

My thanks to everyone who wrote and called.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/12/2014 8:19:18 PM

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Think of it as doing a good deed, you are showing somebody that actions do have consequences!

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/12/2014 8:46:09 PM

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I am completely not in the loop of LP stalker story. How did this guy came to know her? Through CM?

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/12/2014 9:51:30 PM

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Greta, My stalker is a real life stalker. Best described as an ex who can't let go.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/12/2014 9:55:18 PM

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Greta, My stalker is a real life stalker. Best described as an ex who can't let go.

Sorry to hear that, especially if it's an X. That means it was someone you trusted and knew.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 1:05:57 AM

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LP,

I'm so sorry this is still happening to you. You dragged no one into anything and should feel no regret for speaking out. While opinions vary as to this being a "community," I'm sure you realize that you are among "friends" who care about you and respect you, and it is a great place for you to get support and be able to speak up..

I think for many strong women, the feeling of powerlessness can be difficult. But you and LC and others who have stood strong and spoken out about how this makes you feel can be so helpful to others who perhaps aren't as strong or who would blame themselves.

I have never been in a similar situation, gratefully. But no one should ever feel bad for speaking out about something. Sometimes I imagine you must want to tear out your hair with trying to deal and wish there was something you could do to stop it.

Hopefully, time and blocking contact will help to resolve this. I will keep you in my prayers.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 4:15:00 AM

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LP

To quote Spider Robinson "Shared Pain is halved. Shared joy is doubled".

And you are in a 'safe community', where you can share that pain. Don't 'feel bad' for dragging people into the situation... they can always just ignore the post.

To that end, remember that "Rewarded Behavior is Repeated". I'm not saying don't take defensive measures, but whatever your ex regards as a 'reward' (probably in this case, creeping you out), you should try to avoid.

I'm going through some of this with my soon-to-be-ex. She's doing everything she can to get a rise out of me. I 'fix the situation' (such as when she had my phone number reassigned to one of her old handsets), contact my attorney and don't do anything else (visible - I vent like a manic with friends). That venting is what you are doing and it helps.

But it is a good idea to at least contact the police/attorney/somebody and document.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 4:45:26 PM

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Fast reply.......

I've got this great fantasy in My head now of getting out My tube of bright red lipstick and writing on the wall......

"This is not My fault."

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 4:51:28 PM

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Fast reply.......

I've got this great fantasy in My head now of getting out My tube of bright red lipstick and writing on the wall......

"This is not My fault."

Find a mirror and do it!!!!!'

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 5:52:40 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Fast reply.......

I've got this great fantasy in My head now of getting out My tube of bright red lipstick and writing on the wall......

"This is not My fault."

Find a mirror and do it!!!!!'

Find the biggest mirror possible or I'm going to get miss fluff and we're driving to Alaska with the biggest ass mirror we can find!! So there!!!

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 5:54:47 PM

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Road trip!

Edit to add

I'm driving, Pooh. Lol. I wanna arrive in one piece!!

< Message edited by Blonderfluff -- 3/13/2014 5:55:31 PM >

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 6:21:20 PM

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Road trip!

Edit to add

I'm driving, Pooh. Lol. I wanna arrive in one piece!!

We don't have to worry about getting lost anymore, the GPS works great. And you're welcome to drive, I don't often get to play copilot. I'll be in charge of snacks & drinks?

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 6:22:41 PM

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Deal! We will take turns choosing music.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 6:23:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Fast reply.......

I've got this great fantasy in My head now of getting out My tube of bright red lipstick and writing on the wall......

"This is not My fault."

Find a mirror and do it!!!!!'

I might just.

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Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 6:25:35 PM

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Deal! We will take turns choosing music.

I don't think we'll have problems with music choice. We're close to the same age ya silly goose!

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/13/2014 9:22:48 PM

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I'd simply reconsider the precautions I'd taken and reward the individual for their dedication with an immediate spanking.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/14/2014 9:48:03 AM

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FR,

A number of posts have been removed. Posters who suspect that a new poster is a sock of a permabanned member should create a ticket or CMail me, but not respond in the thread.

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RE: How would you react, ladies? - 3/14/2014 9:59:47 AM

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FR,

A number of posts have been removed. Posters who suspect that a new poster is a sock of a permabanned member should create a ticket or CMail me, but not respond in the thread.

But it seems you would buried in tickets...

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