Greta75
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While it is a super bad idea, but it also depends on his tone of introduction when his at her door. I mean when she opens the door, she'd be like, "Hmm, delivery dude with flowers! Who would send me flowers?" She wouldn't think stalker and creep immediately. Then what he says is very crucial here. He needs to pre-empt her big time and be really sincere and gentle and non-threatening in his manner, something like, "Hi..., I know you might freak out what I am about to say to you, but please, I beg you, hear me out before you get angry, I saw your profile on collarme and I fell inlove with it and the person who wrote it. And I thought it would be romantic for me to track you down and personally send you flowers! Please, please, please don't get mad at me, I just want to give you these flowers okay? Will you please accept them?" At this point she will still get angry, but she's not gonna over-react, she'll probably still tell him off that this is unacceptable behaviour. But if he profusingly apologises after that, and just say that, he never felt this way before and he felt he just had to do something crazy for a chance to meet her, he just had to try. Depending on her personality, she might, say, look, this is too freaky for me, please, don't contact me again. Or she might give him a chance, but it all depends on his demeanor and how harmless and earnest and sincere his gonna appear to her. Lol, his biggest challenge is not to lose his temper, or act creepy and threatening and intimidating. He needs to appear harmless. If she already got a man, then good luck to him. Ha!
< Message edited by Greta75 -- 2/23/2014 9:23:03 PM >
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