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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 4:57:05 AM   
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No Greta, earlier on in our conversations, she was whining about having to mow the lawn and mentioned she did it this morning.

As much as she was kind of joking, there is an element in what she says that exposes her belief. That men owe her something for her company/sex.

This is about me not willing to mow lawns for free. And no, sex isn't a trade off as women enjoy sex too. Her company isn't a trade off as my company is just as valuable.


Of course, the counter to this argument never applies: no man has ever felt that he's entitled to sex in return for buying a woman a meal or taking her to a nightclub, has he?

Seriously, what the hell are you whining about now? You find the fact that a woman agrees with your own interpretation of gender roles ("You man. You mow lawn. Me woman. Me fuck you on freshly mowed lawn.") rather than taking a feminist line ("I can mow my own bloody lawn, you male chauvinist pig.") offensive?

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 5:10:51 AM   
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Of course, the counter to this argument never applies: no man has ever felt that he's entitled to sex in return for buying a woman a meal or taking her to a nightclub, has he?

Actually, I belong to a group of woman who will not allow a man to pay for me IF I am not interested in sleeping with him.

Because it sends the wrong message. IF I refuse to let him pay for anything, it means I am not gonna allow him to take care of me. Clear Signal I am not interested.


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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 5:14:07 AM   
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Honestly, would a male appear to be a chauvinist or generally being out of line to ask a woman to fix him a sandwich or iron his shirts but really means he wants to bang her?

Would that said man be considered respectful to women and a man who knows the social standards with dealing with this situation?


A man who wanna bang a woman would use another analogy. Fix a Sandwich OR Iron his shirt, is not an invitation for sex. Can't think of any now, as I am such a straight talker, I don't even get to that point where the man has to use analogy. Usually when it comes to sex, it's heavy discussion on if our sexual preferences are compatible with each other, before I decide. So no need for all that flirty stuffs.

A woman who tells you to "Mow Her Lawn" is an invitation to fuck her in a flirtatious way. And not actually do any physical work in her garden at all. You are suppose to just fuck her.

What is so hard to understand?

I wouldn't be offended if a man explain to me that, he was trying to be indirect by telling me he wants me to "fix his sandwich", but in his talk, it means, "he wants to fuck me".

And not actually fixing his sandwich. Because there is NO SUCH term as "Fix me a sandwich" that means "I want to have sex with you".

But "mow my lawn" definitely has double entendre. "Fix me a Sandwich" or "Iron my clothes" has no double entendre.


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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 5:18:14 AM   
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I don't give my Master a 'To Do' list before he can use me. I'm quite sure i would be left unused if i did. That's why He's Master.

Point is. He uses you. And he gives you a To Do List, and then you allow him to use you.

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 5:19:27 AM   
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Come and mow my lawn is quite popular come and fuck me phrase.


Thank you for that info, Greta.

And now I can say that I've learned something new from one of RM's threads!

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 5:22:18 AM   
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What has "storms" got to do with "mowing lawns"?

Maybe you should show whole conversation for context.

Because to me, "Stormy weather" equals "romantic sex weather".

Makes sense she would, ask you come over and "mow her lawn" because of the storms.


rm doesn't seem to know that you never mow the lawn while it is wet? You certainly don't do it during a storm. Of course she meant something else.

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 9:08:17 AM   
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God only knows what'll happen if he's invited to sort out somebody's carpet or rug...

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 9:16:43 AM   
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God only knows what'll happen if he's invited to sort out somebody's carpet or rug...

He will definitely get pissed off and think he has to go to her home and sort out her carpet.

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 9:29:42 AM   
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Why block her RM

The conversation makes no sense unless there are lines missing.

Problem with female entitlement and delusional self worth - wont see me argue with that - men create them did you know that?

I am sure I have advertised in the past for a grass chomper for £0pa and within the description thrashed with pots and pans, kitchen sink.....rifle through their handbags and spend all the loot on cake blah blah and usually I promise 8.2 orgasms or some incomplete number before ending it with sell them down the muffinium mines so they can earn their keep.......surprising no takers yet awww wicked

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 9:45:21 AM   
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This is a conversation I was having with a random woman who approached me on a dating site.

Her: If it stormed more, you will have to come and mow my lawn.

Me: lol the fee is 50 dollars an hour. You have to pay for my lunch break time too which will take 2 hours.

Her: Should be free as the joy of seeing me should be payment enough

Me: You will have to wash my car in return. That should cover the cost of the privilege in seeing me.

Her: haha no way, I'm more special than you.

Me: Hell no, we're equals.

Her: nope, I'm more special haha

Me: Only in your sleep.

Her: But I'm more special.

Me: How?

Her: That's something you'll have to find out, won't you.

Me: Are you sure you're not trying to avoid the question because you don't have an answer?

Her: I'm not avoiding to answer at all. I know I'm special, my friends tell me.

Me: blocked the bitch




So, you think only women act entitled. But, SOME men do this:

quote:


"you look like you can suck some dick baby

I mean Niggger dick"


You're trying to blame a behavior on a gender rather than the person.

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 9:56:57 AM   
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Most men are unaware of what women get sent mail wise no matter the site....some of it is outright horrific

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 10:06:50 AM   
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It's been so long since rm got laid, he doesn't know how to. And thus causes the dating process to fail so he won't have to meet a woman in rl.

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 10:16:24 AM   
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I am 15 months myself- seems longer somehow Desfip - as for RM I pretend envisage his bitch keeps him in a cage and releases him once a day to run feral on this place

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 10:37:34 AM   
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The OP clearly states he was actually having a conversation about cutting this woman's lawn. The "storms more" would indicate grass grows faster after a rain, which it does. If he were to presume sex was her topic of discussion and followed that line erroneously expecting to partake half this forum would be chiding him for being a presumptive prick.
If the women here are so sure she was flirting take this to heart, we men are literal. We enjoy flirting and catch on to witty sexual banter much quicker than you think. However, "mowing lawns" to a man means breaking out the ol' Briggs and Stratton and getting after the green. If y'all want sex don't beat around your bush or lack thereof. Women are special please don't get me wrong but believe it when I say the sun, moon, stars and eternal bliss do not emanate from betwixt thine thighs every time they're spread. Special is as special does 😉

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 10:40:55 AM   
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I am 15 months myself- seems longer somehow


Jesus, WD - even I know that's way too long. Get it induced!

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 10:49:34 AM   
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Only when we request "extra starch" does it mean sex. And "hold the Mayo" means you better swallow. 😁

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 10:51:37 AM   
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PeonForHerAll time record for me - I feel i am entitled to a medal, or at least a nice bit of cake, and, have i ever told you about my 3 cats?...Think I am doomed :(

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 11:32:30 AM   
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God only knows what'll happen if he's invited to sort out somebody's carpet or rug...

He will definitely get pissed off and think he has to go to her home and sort out her carpet.

Then he'll come on here screaming and moaning about his ashy dick and why chicks want him to do interior decorating for them.
Has he never seen a Robin Askwith film?

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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 11:37:55 AM   
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God only knows what'll happen if he's invited to sort out somebody's carpet or rug...

He will definitely get pissed off and think he has to go to her home and sort out her carpet.

Then he'll come on here screaming and moaning about his ashy dick and why chicks want him to do interior decorating for them.
Has he never seen a Robin Askwith film?

shit man thats a blast from the past!!!!


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RE: Problem with female entitlement and delusional self... - 2/2/2017 11:59:24 AM   
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Askwith was a man who could mow a lawn, my dear...


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