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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:22:20 PM   
MsKatHouston


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My point, though, is if it is what she loves, so be it.  Her name does not excuse bad behavior from a sub who does nothing more than want to get fucked and is not interested in going through whatever it is she considers to be acceptable when getting to know her for her to determine if she wants to continue on.  I liken it to a woman wearing a short skirt in public was asking for it if a horny guy grabs her ass. 

Nobody here is promoting cupcakes.  We are on a BDSM site.  We are adults and we all know what's going on.  That does not give anyone carte blanche to act like an utter ass.  I also strongly agree with this:

quote:

I've rarely met a sub in a real life venue who turns out to be even close to the type of idiocy I encounter online on an everyday basis.


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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:24:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

Just because someone does fuck people does not mean they want to fuck everyone.  That's one huge assumption on the part of aforementioned pigmales.


Dearest MsKatHouston,

Be that as it may, and one can argue sematics all day long, i know, i've been
doing such. The fact of the matter is, "Strapon Diane" isn't promoting 
cupcakes here, and yet She complained of submissives wanting Her to
f--k them. Is it really me, come on, really.

Born to serve, chia* "can't stop laughing" (the pet) 



And most of them no nothing of my group too.


Diane

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:25:01 PM   
MsKatHouston


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The above being said, I have actually had a lot of great submissives contact me through here.  I have also had some really absurd ones.  But this whole line really is straying way away from the OP. 

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:29:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

chia

Are you serving a Mistress at this time or have you ever found a Mistress?



Diane


Dearest Diane,

i had one but She moved to Germany.

Kidding!

i am boy to Dearest Mystress, Dearest Mistress Sabrina, and Dearest Mistress
Mykaela. i have been the boy of Dearest theEarthGoddess, Dearest Mistress
QueSera, Dearest Mistress Alpha, Dearest Madame Diva, Dearest Goddess
Rockel and the uncomparable Dearest MotherMistress of whom i speak so
reverently in my profile. Each and every one a beloved and respected Woman
of wisdom whom have profoundly affected my life as a submissive. i am a
creation of the Dominants, each having a hand in my existence.

Born to serve, chia* "so named by Dearest Mistress Sabrina" (the pet) 

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:36:32 PM   
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Dearest MsKatHouston,

Yes it is quite clear what is going on here. Are You calling me an ass?
If so, then i'm an ass for simply pointing out that a Domme comes on
board complaining of submissives (which are most likely anything but)
desiring to be f--ked by Her, when in fact Her own signature is promoting
a group called "straponDiane". It is what it is, no hiding the facts.

Born to serve, chia* "sticks and stones" (the pet)

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:43:26 PM   
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[/quote]


And most of them no nothing of my group too.


Diane
[/quote]

Dearest Diane,

They do now! Get ready for a heaping helping of pork rind rejection!

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:45:19 PM   
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Nowhere in my post did I call you an ass and unless you are one of the people who hit up Diane with a rude proposition to fuck her, it clearly does not apply to you.  Let's not put words or intent in my post where none exists.

Her name is Diane not strap on Diane.  Not everyone who does this has seen her forum posts or her signature so that really can not be the reason.  I also stand by my statement that whatever her name is it does not excuse rude, inappropriate behavior from a submissive. (or anyone)

But for laughs, why is it I get the same emails or the others on here who have no names or signatures with suggestive words?  Since I have my location in my nic, and am on a sexually oriented site, does that mean I certainly must want to fuck everyone in Houston?  Does that mean I deserve to get inappropriate emails talking about how much some guy wants to (insert explicit desire here) me?

< Message edited by MsKatHouston -- 5/28/2007 7:46:10 PM >


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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:56:21 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

Nowhere in my post did I call you an ass and unless you are one of the people who hit up Diane with a rude proposition to fuck her, it clearly does not apply to you.  Let's not put words or intent in my post where none exists.

Her name is Diane not strap on Diane.  Not everyone who does this has seen her forum posts or her signature so that really can not be the reason.  I also stand by my statement that whatever her name is it does not excuse rude, inappropriate behavior from a submissive. (or anyone)

But for laughs, why is it I get the same emails or the others on here who have no names or signatures with suggestive words?  Since I have my location in my nic, and am on a sexually oriented site, does that mean I certainly must want to fuck everyone in Houston?  Does that mean I deserve to get inappropriate emails talking about how much some guy wants to (insert explicit desire here) me?


Dearest MsKatHouston,

Oh good, misunderstood one of Your lines as addressed to me, my bad, i
apologize for the ass-umption (can't help myself) Please Ladies, i am not
here to defend pigmales by any means, anything but, have not done so
throughout this thread. Perhaps if everyone would address them as what
they are "pigmales" and not submissives, we submissives wouldn't feel as
though we are being lumped in with them. If it acts, walks and talks like
a pigmale, then it's a pigmale, not a true submissive. Yea, that's it, just
stop referring to the scum as submissives, would make the rest of us feel
a whole lot better. Am i making any sense here?

Born to serve, chia* "God my fingers hurt" (the pet)

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 8:04:54 PM   
MsKatHouston


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That does make sense lol

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 8:15:39 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

That does make sense lol


And that Ladies and germs is what we call an active thread.

Is is so determined from this day forward, when addressing issues involving
obvious pigmale attitude, such shall be addressed to said pigmales and not
to submissives as a whole, thereby dashing asunder any misconception that
true submissives are included in said discussion.

Cut, Print, That's A Wrap!

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 8:36:18 PM   
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I have been told that more times then I can count. 

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 8:41:30 PM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TigressFL

I have been told that more times then I can count. 


And we're back!

Born to serve, chia* "apparently there's a sequel" (the pet)

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 9:34:45 PM   
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On average.....one in six from......honest....the influx of Dommes to Europe is overwhelming...there won't be a lonely subbie for countries....
Z

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/29/2007 2:40:24 AM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Dearest Diane,

Oh it matters, especially to the pigmales, they only see what they want to see,
and they see "strapon Diane" and nothing else. And might i add, if You're
not seeking a submissive or slave at the moment, why not just delete their
emails unread, makes for efficient use of time so You can devote more to
the "strapon Diane" group. i'm sorry, have i put too much emphasis on that?

Born to serve, chia* "For the love of God, don't help me" (the pet)


i think to use the term "strapon Diane" is very disrespectful. Surely because someone states a prefference for something that isnt the same as saying "I am prepared to do xy &z with everyone" ?  i read the word group as simply that, a group of like minded people.
I would suggest most of the messages Maam Diane or DominaSmartass receive, are not written by people who read the forums. Nor people who actually read profiles come to that.

It can be annoying to read that 99% of all subs are fakes, but so what. Include yourself in the elusive 1% , you know if you are genuine or not. So why get hot under the collar ?





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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/29/2007 7:50:48 AM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Dearest Diane,

Oh it matters, especially to the pigmales, they only see what they want to see,
and they see "strapon Diane" and nothing else. And might i add, if You're
not seeking a submissive or slave at the moment, why not just delete their
emails unread, makes for efficient use of time so You can devote more to
the "strapon Diane" group. i'm sorry, have i put too much emphasis on that?

Born to serve, chia* "For the love of God, don't help me" (the pet)


i think to use the term "strapon Diane" is very disrespectful. Surely because someone states a prefference for something that isnt the same as saying "I am prepared to do xy &z with everyone" ?  i read the word group as simply that, a group of like minded people.
I would suggest most of the messages Maam Diane or DominaSmartass receive, are not written by people who read the forums. Nor people who actually read profiles come to that.

It can be annoying to read that 99% of all subs are fakes, but so what. Include yourself in the elusive 1% , you know if you are genuine or not. So why get hot under the collar ?



Well good morning mate, enjoying that toddy? Good.

Now, what did i do with those stripped jammies and underroos?
Oh Dearest DiurnalVampire, i'll be returning to Bitchdom temporarily, though it
would seem a D/s extreme makeover may be the order of the day.

Let's review, particularly those whom have apparently emerged from a London
fog, because i am not a boy who will sugar coat his words just because i think
honey nut "cheerios" are what a Domme wants to consume. Of course the ever
required ass kissing is part and parcel to a passionate servants devotion, however
a Domme is wise enough to know when She is beholding patronization. i prefer to
keep such confined to genuine application, especially when in the midst of a topic
which finds fault with those whom offer counterfeit adoration. Therefore in reply,
and do try to keep up with me here mate, because the evidence would suggest
that you missed a few valid points along the way to your "polite" correction of me.

i was advancing a fair and honest point in my quote, which found a Domme
complaining of "pigmale", (let's reiterate that) not submissive contact whereby
said "pigmales" were forwarding their desire that She f--k them. This from a
Domme whom owns and voluntarily promotes Her group which is aptly
entitled "straponwithDiane", included in Her signature within the forum posts.
Now She doth protest that many of the multitudes which contact Her have
never seen such, and this may be the case, however, complaining on the one
hand of a specific request of "pigmales", and advancing said specific act on
the other for promotion of Her group, simply speaks "ah....what?" to me.
Sometimes wanting it both ways does not produce desired results. i find no
disrespect polite sub, in using the very words promoted of a Domme Herself
when pointing out that "pigmales" will only see such when one hands it to them.

Yes, it will be a group of like-minded people, attracting such, i find no contention
therein, appetite will be what it is. i never said it entitled anyone to ask for x,y,
and z, i specifically made the point that i do not condone "pigmale" behavior.
Your point that most of the messages recieved were most likely not from those
whom have read the forums had already been discussed, and was not an issue
of which i disagreed. It was simply the "having it both ways" which i questioned.

The statement concerning 99% of submissives, actually referred to them being
liars. I advanced the number to 100%, because at some point in our wonderful
lives, we all lie, for whatever reason. You exasperate the issue with your statement
that 99% of submissives are fakes, and so what? <SLAP> Have you not been
paying attention polite sub? The "hot under the collar" issue for me is the ever
so often finding fault with "submissives" grouped as a whole, when in fact it is
the "pigmales" whom should be addressed when being given all that glorious
attention. Call it for what it is, "pigmale" fakes and liars, wolves in sheeps clothing,
fantasy, folly and kink players who garner so much distain, but are mistakenly
given submissive status. i resent such, and it was the catalyst for my own brand
of humor addressng the OP and the topic at large. For doing such, i was slapped
and scolded for entering and addressing a topic in a public forum which was not
meant for me, and i was invited to start my own thread addressing money hungry
whores in a different venue. Well puff, puff, blow smoke in my face when i make
a valid point and i will light a few of my own, all is fair in love and war they say.

So now that the fog has cleared polite sub, perhaps you have a little more
understanding as to the flow of my thought and my rightful application of such.
i simply desire that a "pigmale" be called a "pigmale" here, not a submissive,
and that perhaps just a teensy weensy bit more time be devoted to those whom
offer geniune submissive passion to the fold, and a little less to the "pigmale"
population whom garner so much attention and exposure. Is that so wrong?

i will add that this thread has been carried over to at least one other by a couple
of the lovely Ladies, invoking my name, and in one instance attempting to put
words into my mouth. i have addressed such, and will continue to do so, because
i stand, or kneel before my words, fall where they may, but will not allow another
to define my stance for me, acting as puppeteer and ventriloquist to advance Her
own agenda. Morning Ladies!

Have a wonderful day polite sub, and i shall do the same, though i must ponder
this whole money hungry whore thing, remebering that if such exists here, it is
deserving of it's applied title, and not that of "Domme", because to do so would
be a misguided, misuse, and unfair application to the genuine Dommes here.

Born to serve, chia* (the pet) 



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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/29/2007 8:20:22 AM   
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Chia, firstly i am sorry if my post offended you. Yes i said i felt the name change was offensive, that doesnt make it ass kissing as you put it. It was just my opinion of politeness, changing a name is uncalled for, be it a Dominants or a Submissives.

I mentioned the figure of 99% as that was had been quoted, my remarks about not getting hot under the collar was just some advice. Its your right not to accept it. I just think its easier to ignore a post i dont like than get all het up.

Like You i stand by my words, except rather than argue on the boards i find it best to deal with via a message. Normally people respond better to that medium. I dont expect to get along with everyone but i do try and be polite and not sarcastic when using a public forum.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/29/2007 9:08:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Chia, firstly i am sorry if my post offended you. Yes i said i felt the name change was offensive, that doesnt make it ass kissing as you put it. It was just my opinion of politeness, changing a name is uncalled for, be it a Dominants or a Submissives.

I mentioned the figure of 99% as that was had been quoted, my remarks about not getting hot under the collar was just some advice. Its your right not to accept it. I just think its easier to ignore a post i dont like than get all het up.

Like You i stand by my words, except rather than argue on the boards i find it best to deal with via a message. Normally people respond better to that medium. I dont expect to get along with everyone but i do try and be polite and not sarcastic when using a public forum.



No offense taken by your reply polite sub, just answering what you had written to
me. i am not you and you are not me and sometimes we feel differently. (gee was
that just a little too "Barney") i ass kiss, you ass kiss, we all ass kiss at some point
in our journey, we just pucker up for varying reasons i suppose.

i didn't change anyone's name here, just used the promoted name of a group in
my offering of what "pigmales" will see, can't put it plainer than that.

Did you happen to read all i wrote concerning the 99%, polite sub, because
your response doesn't really relate to what i said. And it is usually when
one feels a particular opinion or passion to a post when they reply, as was
the case with me. i didn't define myself as being hot under the collar about
the OP, my first reply was a humorous, and yes, tainted with sarcasm response.
The heated discussion evolved when i was chastized for even replying in the
first place. i thrive on exchange, how boring it would be if i ignored all the posts
which sparked an emotion in me, oh look at all the pretty colors, nah, not me.

Exchange of views does not an arguement make, it is an exchange of views, the
whole point of posts and the threads which follow. i'm not arguing with you here,
we have a difference of opinion and are sharing such, you entitled to yours,
and myself entitled to mine. i remind you that it was you whom spoke first here,
i replied. Would it have made you feel better if i had said nothing at all, ignoring
your well intentioned words? i have already experienced the "take it off the boards"
exchange, didn't work for me as the other party involved felt free to spout their
diatribe unchecked by the audience, it solved nothing and i asked them to cease
emailing me. Eh, i'm a sarcastic boy when in the throws of passionate exchange
and will not apologize for such, it is a part of me and not necessarily a bad thing.

If in the course of this thread, if i have disrespected anyone, crossing the line of
fair play, let them come forward and address such. If proven i have done so, and
not just tossed the ball back and forth within the bounds of the game, i will 
apologize. What i will not apologize for, is, entering a public forum, expressing a
view to a topic which stirs a passion within me, regardless of whether someone
likes it or not.  i will say here, the opposite of your point of ignoring a topic is,
not posting it in the first place if you can't handle the response which will follow.
To do either nullifies the entire meaning and purpose of the forums at large.

As i offered before polite sub, have a wonderful day.

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)   

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/29/2007 9:54:42 AM   
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Chia, you are correct. I did indeed use the word fakes when i should have used liars, although one is much the same as the other in my opinion. Again, i am sorry ( sheesh thats twice in one day )  i really should pay more attention to detail.

I fully agree that anyone starting of a thread, especially a contentious one, stands to be shot down and rightly so in some circumstances. I am also happy that you replied to me, it never hurts to understand viewpoints, even different from my own. I am the first to admit im not always right, as i have done here.

Mostly though, i`m perfect.

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/29/2007 10:31:02 AM   
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Chia,
 
I have been sitting quietly on the sidelines for long enough. To be honest, I take issue with your term "pigmales". I know that is a term you have been taught by Mystress at MystressWorld, and I respect that it has merit in your training, however I feel that to come onto a forum outside of MystressWorld and advance that term is disrespectful.
 
Not all males are submissive.
Not all males are submissive to the degree your Mystress desires.
Not all males are submissive for the same reasons your Mystress expects.
Not all males would respond favorably to the training you seem to thrive in.
Some males are confused and using this forum to learn, making many mistakes as they go.
Some males are simply becoming hopeless because (gasp) there are so many lying Dommes.
 
Not all males who believe differently than you are,are pigmales. That's insulting, and while your "Dearest Mystress" may encourage this terminology, others here do not have to embrace it. I know you are expected to follow the "plan" and "talk up" MystressWorld a certain number of hours and a certain number of places each week, but don't expect people to fit into Mystress' narrow view of D/s philosophy just because you do. I'm glad it works for you. On the other hand, I respect those males who can think for themselves without being brainwashed into thinking that OSODD is the "be-all and end-all" of this lifestyle.
 
By the way, of those Mistresses you listed, how many of them have you spent time with, face to face? 

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RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/29/2007 10:51:31 AM   
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LOL, I laugh a lot reading your posts.
I'm from Israel and till now I thought the most best export of my country was Domes......LOL.
bytheway, most of them left to the USA.....

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