RE: The Great Domme Migration

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: The Great Domme Migration

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: The Great Domme Migration

Page: << < prev 2 3 [4] 5 6 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 1:56:13 PM

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessKai

I'm not generalizing the whole of the submissive population, Chia. I have met quite a few excellently well-behaved, honest and delightful subs on CM. And the good does outweigh the bad. I'm just saying that in My inbox, more males seem to have been abandoned by their previous Dominants in favor of moving to Germany. Whether it's a bald-faced lie, or the honest truth, I don't know and probably never will. Mayhaps I worded My response wrong, but I did not mean to generalize or offend you or anyone else. My apologies.

Dearest GoddessKai,

No Mamm, no offense taken by me within Your words, just another light hearted
response with a point, and a small jab at the original statement by another that
99% of subs are liars. i do understand that each has their own experiences related
to such, and one opinion certainly does not reflect the whole.

Born to serve, chia* "hijack successful" (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to GoddessKai)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 2:09:57 PM

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

Yes, Chia you are now my striped Forum Bitch.

Ahhhh the glory!

Hey wait a minute, my box just overflowed with emails from submissives
telling me their Dommes have just passed away, it's an epidemic, cover
Your mouths Ladies, it's "Dawn Of The Dommes".

So now boys, I'm taking names and kicking ass, who's first with a fib?
Let's go front and center, tap, tap, tap.

Born to Rule, Chia* "Dom in his own mind" (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to DiurnalVampire)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 3:41:48 PM

Posts: 961
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: This month? Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: igor2003

quote:

ORIGINAL: Calandra
C'mon, you can infer that we are unfair in our approach to these stories, but do you ever spare one thought to all the "submissives" who actually DO lie and therefore screw it up for the honest ones?

I don't think i "inferred" that anyone was being unfair in any way.

Not to be mean, but that would be "imply"...Calandra used "infer" correctly but your word would have been imply, so I don't really know what you put it in quotes.

_____________________________

“These S&M people ... they are bossy! There’s also a creepy connection between leather sex, ‘Star Trek’ and the Renaissance Faire.”

- Comedian Margaret Cho

(in reply to igor2003)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 3:45:26 PM

Posts: 961
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: This month? Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

then i opened my eyes and realized it's just another "what can we
find wrong with the submissives" chapter in the book of "why am i alone?"

Mmmmmm, nothing like a hot cup of coffee and the morning views.

Eh, lighten up. With all the bullshit we have to deal with from the 99% of subs who are liars, why not have fun talking about it? You're free to start a thread in the ask a slave forum about why so many dommes seem to be money hungry whores. That's totally up to you.

Looks like somebody forgot to sprinkle a little sense of humor on Her
Lucky Charms this morning, so much for "a fun discussion". Let's see,
money hungry whores? Got something You might need to get off Your
chest?

Born to serve, chia* "lighter than air" (the pet)

Sigh...my sense of humor obviously doesn't translate well into type.

_____________________________

“These S&M people ... they are bossy! There’s also a creepy connection between leather sex, ‘Star Trek’ and the Renaissance Faire.”

- Comedian Margaret Cho

(in reply to chiaThePet)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 3:51:01 PM

Posts: 961
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: This month? Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
Dearest GoddessKai,

Well unless certain individuals here are liars themselves, 99% of submissives
are liars it would seem, therefore the population of Germany must be at an
all time high. The topic is always amusing, unless you're stuck on the end of
the spectrum being ridiculed, then it just becomes a broken record.

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)

You know what then chia? Don't read the thread and don't respond to it. It's that simple. I started a light hearted thread for us to share a similar funny experience and there's really no need for you to feel like you're being personally attacked because there are a great number of subs out there who approach us with this "my mistress moved to Germany" sob story, which I find kind of humorous. That's why I posted it to the "ask a mistress" section. It was not a generalization to the entire sub population and it certainly wasn't a criticism of you.

Edited to add:
As for the 99% of subs being liars, I have scientific evidence for that fact. I have spoken with 174 subs over the past 2 years and less than 2 of them have turned out to be who and what they say they are. Every single time I begin speaking with a new sub, without a doubt, the conversation turns from the general get to know you topics to "Oh, Mistress, I'm so horny. I wish you were here right now to fuck my ass" within about 10 minutes. Tell me how serious you would take a population of people who as a whole can't come up with more than one decent human specimen to show for itself?

Just to give you an idea, here is an excerpt from an IM conversation I had with someone 2 nights ago. This someone is from CM and we had been talking for about ten minutes about VANILLA topics like school and work when....

2:17:25 AM him: yeah i want you to fuck me
2:17:27 AM him: if u want
2:17:34 AM him: please
2:17:45 AM him: your making me wanna finger myself
2:18:17 AM dominasmartass: You sound like a horny teenager.
2:18:21 AM him: lol
2:18:32 AM dominasmartass: I am not some prop in your fantasy and I don't go around doing things to people just cause they ask.

and then a few minutes later:

him: sorry to change the subject on you but im really horny

And if only this were an anomoly! No, it is every single male that has ever contacted me on here (not including those frome the forums just being friendly) except one.

I'm not bitter, I'm PMSing.

< Message edited by DominaSmartass -- 5/28/2007 4:08:38 PM >

_____________________________

“These S&M people ... they are bossy! There’s also a creepy connection between leather sex, ‘Star Trek’ and the Renaissance Faire.”

- Comedian Margaret Cho

(in reply to chiaThePet)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 4:58:35 PM

Posts: 15
Joined: 3/15/2007
Status: offline

quote:

As for the 99% of subs being liars, I have scientific evidence for that fact. I have spoken with 174 subs over the past 2 years and less than 2 of them have turned out to be who and what they say they are. Every single time I begin speaking with a new sub, without a doubt, the conversation turns from the general get to know you topics to "Oh, Mistress, I'm so horny. I wish you were here right now to fuck my ass" within about 10 minutes. Tell me how serious you would take a population of people who as a whole can't come up with more than one decent human specimen to show for itself?

I am, apparently, a male submissive - am I to assume that I am not a 'decent human specimen' because of that?

(in reply to DominaSmartass)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 5:13:31 PM

Posts: 10
Joined: 5/25/2005
Status: offline

I rarely comment and read the forums but a bit more.

I've seen it all going the other way though too, including one (that I actually saw in public at a local convenience store close to where I live) that went from sub to Domme, starting asking for money so she could "work less and spend more time training a sub" and then said, "I'm going Pro." I thought to myself, "Who does she think she is: Barry Bonds?" This was all less than in a span of 45 days. I chuckled.

I've been polite, conversational, try to have a tasteful, yet excellent sense of humor, but it doesn't seem to matter. Why? I have no clue. I'm of average looks, clean cut and I travel for my job and to participate in athletic activities. A lot of times, I think people see that I'm normal, and it drives them away! LOL

I see Dommes who talk about getting hoodwinked left and right, yet, at the same time, I keep being me and think to myself, "If you'll just look, I'm right here."

I think a lot of people are looking for perfection and it just isn't out there.

(in reply to NicsBit)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:09:25 PM

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

Dearest DominaSmartass

Well i quess You told me huh? Sure, drag science into it Ms. Darwin!

No, not the PMS, not the PMS! Code Red! Code Red! Gather the
children, hide the pets, (i'm in camouflage as a Dom myself) it is the
time of Code Red! Hey boys, what say we sacrifice that sissyboy
at the alter just to see if we can stem the flow. "Oh sissy boy, got
some panties here for you, and they got sparkles on em."

You know what then DominaSmartass, i read the thread, and i responded
to it, in a light hearted manner i must say, adding a light hearted little
point of my own. As a submissive, am i forbidden to read and address
posts which are here in the "Ask a Mistress" section, i'm just asking You see?

i didn't take it personally, cause i don't have a Domme buried in the backyard,
or eating pheasant in first class jetting to Germany. i simply noted that once
again, the faults of submissives were back on the front burner, colored with
humor or not, and i added my own brand of humor in response. i didn't barge
into the "Ask a Mistress" section and start tipping over dildo displays and
setting crops a flame, giving away corsets to bands of giggly sissy boys as
they high-heeled into the night. i simply left a reply.

i suppose You're right about 99% of submissives being liars, gee, it's probably
100%, since 100% of "all" of us lie at one time or another, for whatever reason.
It's a miracle anyone realizes any kind of connection given all the lying that
flings back and forth across the great D/s divide. i won't address what You
say is the usual conversation You have with submissives who contact You,
i am uncomfortable speaking to a Lady in such terms, we'll just leave that at
the job You've done here. As for the IM conversation You share with us,
You unfortunately allowed his disrespect to advance beyond 2:17:25, the
point You should have dropped him.

Yes there are pigs out there, and in here, they are everywhere. i find myself
gringing at their actions and attitude all day long, many times embarrassed by
my gender. So why is all the attention given to them? Why do so many posts
refer to and speak of them, put them in the spotlight? Does anyone think that
they are changed by such? Doubt it, i can hear them laughing that good ole beer
belly laugh as i write. And though it may not be meant to be all inclusive, as
a submissive, i sometimes feel caught up in it all, because we are reminded
again and again of the faults of submissives and the net gets cast as it does.
Maybe we could start an "Ask a Pig" section just for those special moments.

All in all Dearest DominaSmartass, i replied to a light hearted post in my own
light hearted way, with just a splash of sarcasm, i am chia* (the pet) afterall.
The aftermath being, some laughed and shared similar fates, some took
exception to the subject at large, some got agitated, some got flustered
and puffed with pride, and some were enlightened to others feelings which
perhaps they had not previously considered. Sounds to me pretty much like
the typical post and thread that follows. Of course there was that one little
exception, i got to be a Dom for a day, kinda liked it i must say. Though i
have this sissy boy here all bound and terrified that i might dress him up
like a man. Bids?

i am really pretty much a sweetheart of a boy, believe it or not. i just have
this little badboy streak in me which allows me to kick up sand and stick
out my tongue when i feel mischieveous. Some Dommes tell me They like
that, gives them opportunity to hone up on those discipline skills.

Nobody got hurt here, (except maybe that sissyboy) just good old exchange.
See You in the funnies Dearest DominaSmartass, You can bet i'll be there.

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to DominaSmartass)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:16:41 PM

Posts: 1909
Joined: 6/7/2006
From: Houston, TX
Status: offline

Maybe not perfection but something that is honest as well as someone with whom you have chemistry. It's hard enough to get that in the vanilla world. Add in kink compatibility factors and it can be difficult. It's not just a who is honest issue but so much more.

_____________________________

-Kat

~If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning~

(in reply to houstonmalesub)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:37:33 PM

Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline

[/quote]

Every single time I begin speaking with a new sub, without a doubt, the conversation turns from the general get to know you topics to "Oh, Mistress, I'm so horny. I wish you were here right now to fuck my ass" within about 10 minutes.

[/quote]

You are not alone, I get the same crap. About 90% of my emails on the otherside say the same
thing.

Diane

< Message edited by DianeB269 -- 5/28/2007 6:40:56 PM >

(in reply to DominaSmartass)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:43:16 PM

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Every single time I begin speaking with a new sub, without a doubt, the conversation turns from the general get to know you topics to "Oh, Mistress, I'm so horny. I wish you were here right now to fuck my ass" within about 10 minutes.

Don't feel alone, I get the same crap. About 90% of my emails on the otherside say the same
thing.

Diane

Dearest Diane,

That wouldn't possibly have anything to do with the link on Your signature line
would it? Lets see, that was http://groups.yahoo.com/group/straponwithDiane/
Now why would a boy assume You might want to f--k him? Hmmmmmm

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to DianeB269)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:46:52 PM

Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Every single time I begin speaking with a new sub, without a doubt, the conversation turns from the general get to know you topics to "Oh, Mistress, I'm so horny. I wish you were here right now to fuck my ass" within about 10 minutes.

Don't feel alone, I get the same crap. About 90% of my emails on the otherside say the same
thing.

Diane

Dearest Diane,

That wouldn't possibly have anything to do with the link on Your signature line
would it? Lets see, that was http://groups.yahoo.com/group/straponwithDiane/
Now why would a boy assume You might want to f--k him? Hmmmmmm

Born to serve, chia* (the pet)

Doesn't matter. My profile states, I'm not looking for any new subs/slaves at the moment.

What part of I'm not looking do they not understand?

Diane

< Message edited by DianeB269 -- 5/28/2007 6:47:27 PM >

(in reply to chiaThePet)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:53:30 PM

hereyesruponyou

Posts: 770
Joined: 1/22/2007
Status: offline

Hmmmmm, i must be doing something wrong. I only get those kind of conversations about 20% of the time and they never get that far....Oh yeah, as soon as they start to be disrespectful i drop them...Maybe that's why

(in reply to chiaThePet)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 6:55:38 PM

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

Dearest Diane,

Oh it matters, especially to the pigmales, they only see what they want to see,
and they see "strapon Diane" and nothing else. And might i add, if You're
not seeking a submissive or slave at the moment, why not just delete their
emails unread, makes for efficient use of time so You can devote more to
the "strapon Diane" group. i'm sorry, have i put too much emphasis on that?

Born to serve, chia* "For the love of God, don't help me" (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to DianeB269)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:00:49 PM

Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Dearest Diane,

Oh it matters, especially to the pigmales, they only see what they want to see,
and they see "strapon Diane" and nothing else. And might i add, if You're
not seeking a submissive or slave at the moment, why not just delete their
emails unread, makes for efficient use of time so You can devote more to
the "strapon Diane" group. i'm sorry, have i put too much emphasis on that?

Born to serve, chia* "For the love of God, don't help me" (the pet)

The group does very well.

Diane

(in reply to chiaThePet)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:01:19 PM

Posts: 1909
Joined: 6/7/2006
From: Houston, TX
Status: offline

Just because someone does fuck people does not mean they want to fuck everyone. That's one huge assumption on the part of aforementioned pigmales.

_____________________________

-Kat

~If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning~

(in reply to chiaThePet)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:09:20 PM

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Dearest Diane,

Oh it matters, especially to the pigmales, they only see what they want to see,
and they see "strapon Diane" and nothing else. And might i add, if You're
not seeking a submissive or slave at the moment, why not just delete their
emails unread, makes for efficient use of time so You can devote more to
the "strapon Diane" group. i'm sorry, have i put too much emphasis on that?

Born to serve, chia* "For the love of God, don't help me" (the pet)

The group does very well.

Diane

Dearest Diane,

i'm sure it does, at least 99% of the submissives here are seeking such.
The other 1% are ROFL, shouting, "For God's sake don't encourage him!"

Born to serve, chia* "not of member of "straponDiane" (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to DianeB269)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:10:10 PM

Posts: 961
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: This month? Maryland
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: NicsBit
us you would take a population of people who as a whole can't come up with more than one decent human specimen to show for itself?

I am, apparently, a male submissive - am I to assume that I am not a 'decent human specimen' because of that?

Nope, I really don't know who you are and if you introduce yourself to me and we converse, I'm sure I could discern more about you from that. Since you have not approached me and we have not gotten better aquainted, you are obviously not one of the people I'm referring to. Unless you are one of the many who have IMed me over the past couple of years and proven to be nothing more than a horny sleazeball, again, my observations don't apply to you. I know there must be good boys out there, and I myself am very happy with the person I currently have (lord knows I didn't meet him on here!)

That's another thing chia, and others, I am not condemning male subs entirely, just bitching about the online ones. I've rarely met a sub in a real life venue who turns out to be even close to the type of idiocy I encounter online on an everyday basis. You are correct that even continuing to talk to "him" in that IM was a mistake, I shouldn't give people more than one opportunity to make asses of themselves.

I come on here for the fun of it, I enjoy talking to people and meeting people, but it is seriously draining to be treated as though my sole purpose in this world is to be an interactive masturbate and chat buddy for "submissive" males. Especially when they are ones who seem at first glance as though they'd be worth getting to know.

I wasn't telling you not to come on here and read and reply to this specific forum, chia, but it really irks me in any situation when someone breaks into a conversation that really wasn't directed at them and turns it into how they (the sub males) are always being villified. Especially when that really wasn't the purpose of this thread to begin with. I've said my piece, and I think this topic, as well as the orginal thread, has run its course.

_____________________________

“These S&M people ... they are bossy! There’s also a creepy connection between leather sex, ‘Star Trek’ and the Renaissance Faire.”

- Comedian Margaret Cho

(in reply to NicsBit)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:16:19 PM

Posts: 1596
Joined: 10/30/2006
Status: offline

chia

Are you serving a Mistress at this time or have you ever found a Mistress?

Diane

(in reply to chiaThePet)

RE: The Great Domme Migration - 5/28/2007 7:17:23 PM

Posts: 2694
Joined: 2/4/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsKatHouston

Just because someone does fuck people does not mean they want to fuck everyone. That's one huge assumption on the part of aforementioned pigmales.

Dearest MsKatHouston,

Be that as it may, and one can argue sematics all day long, i know, i've been
doing such. The fact of the matter is, "Strapon Diane" isn't promoting
cupcakes here, and yet She complained of submissives wanting Her to
f--k them. Is it really me, come on, really.

Born to serve, chia* "can't stop laughing" (the pet)

_____________________________

Love is a many splendid sting.

You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.

(in reply to MsKatHouston)

Page: << < prev 2 3 [4] 5 6 next > >>

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: The Great Domme Migration

Page: << < prev 2 3 [4] 5 6 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2024

Terms of Service

1.004