nysub85
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Hey E/everyone, this is the first time that I am posting in the forum so please excuse anything wrong (I am very new to this). I am a shy person and have never had the nerve to write in the forum since I am inexperienced. This topic compelled me to reply since it is direclty relevant to me as of last Thursday.
Anyway, I currently gave the key to my chastity to a girl whom I have been involved with since November. We have known each other for 4 years and have talked about chastity belts and decided it was time to explore and experiment. I own a cb3000 (which I recommend since it is easy to clean, not noticible under everyday clothing, and cool since it is clear...you can see the penis struggling to get out). One of her main concerns, however, was that she wanted the experience to be fun for me too (I thought I would have to find a way for her to enjoy it, but luckily for me she has a natural dominant side). She wanted to find a way to balance a way for both of us to have fun outside of chastity (in terms of sex), while at the same time keep me locked up and in a chastity belt. So what we did was we both sat down and talked about what we each expected and wanted from her being a keyholder and me being "locked up." This was really good, because we were both able to clearly outline and explain to each other what we wanted, so no one was doing anything they did not wish to do. For me, I told her that I had to be let out of the chastity belt every Monday, Wed, and Friday for gym classes (running in a chastity belt is no fun, haha, I found that out earlier this week when I had to chase after a bus).
So what she does is allows me to be out of the chastity belt for classes or situations where I need to be. She trusts me enough to then either lock myself up when I get back from those situations or locks me back up herself. She trusts me to not touch myself or do anything against her will since we have known each other for so long. I would honestly allow the sub access to be free for the first few days, since the night time errections can be quite painful. This takes a few days to get used to, but does not really pose much of a problem from my perspective (atleast in terms of excruciating or unbearable pain). The idea of being placed into a chastity belt is very scary, especially from this 22 year olds point of view, so I feel it is important to be supportive and willing to hear what the sub has to say. As I told my current keyholder, there is a difference between being uncomfortable and being in alot of pain. There are days where I am really frustrated and want to get out, but she is aware that I will be begging for release. You have to be firm if you say no release or orgasm for x days, otherwise it might lose it's value. The best way I can say it is that if you like to control your sub, and like to be a tease and a flirt, this is a great idea. It won't take long until the sub will do anything to be released, and that can be alot of fun.
I am really sorry E/everyone if this is long winded or unhelpful, but this is my first post and I felt that I can offer some help...or maybe a new perspective. I am really glad that this post is up and I hope that my response was helpful. I am new to actually engaging in chastity and bdsm play, but I have read posts for a while and I thank E/everyone for helping a novice like me. I really look forward to reading more on this topic and actually participating in the forums :)
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RE: Chasity? Over How long a period? - 
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Especially if it would lead to serious begging. M
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