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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 2/18/2007 6:54:00 AM

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Has anyone heard of the plug chastity device? This thing gets inserted four inches into his cock so one cant be to skiddish about the whole idea. ::grimaces, shrivels::
From the look of it it seems like even the merest hint of an erection will...ouch, ouch, whimper, ouch!

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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 2/18/2007 5:57:31 PM

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That is the scariest thing I have ever heard.....

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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 2/18/2007 5:57:39 PM

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GuidingLite...you are probably refering to the prince wands from Steelwerks Extreme: http://www.steelwerksextreme.com/02_extreme/0211_prince_wands.htm

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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 2/18/2007 7:16:12 PM

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That website is fantastic thank you for sharing SubDisposition. I had my slave in chastity for 5 years. We used many types of belts including the tollyboy which seemed to work the best. He lived for chastity and after 5 years of it he doesn't have any long term effects. If you are careful and pay attention to your subs body they will let you know when it just doesn't "feel" right. As long as you keep everything clean there is nothing wrong with it.

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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 2/21/2007 4:04:34 PM

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Thanks for sharing the link, SubDisposition. Steelwerks Extreme is my dream site. The Client photos are amazing! I doubt I'll ever find someone who'd explore this interest with me, but it sure is nice eye candy.

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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 2/21/2007 6:15:39 PM

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I agree MsBlackheart, those devices are not for the faint of heart.

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RE: Chasity? Over How long a period? - 2/22/2007 11:29:26 AM

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Hello all,
This is my first post on any forum. I have a boy who is kept chaste for weeks at a time without any noticeable damage. He is wonderfully functional when needed. We use a CB 2000 when he is out of my presence (work). We have added a new dimension to the chastity....I use a small leather slapper to spank the head of his cock (very durable area by the way) and because it becomes so sensitive he would not touch it. He has said that showering is more than a little painful. The best part is that if I stroke him after a spanking he experiences pain and pleasure! He is very honorable about the chastity, but I DO love the control of using a device or pain to prevent any possibility of his touching himself.
I've thoroughly enjoyed reading the other posts on this subject.
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RE: Chasity? Over How long a period? - 2/22/2007 12:02:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: MistressHawke

Hello all,
This is my first post on any forum. I have a boy who is kept chaste for weeks at a time without any noticeable damage. He is wonderfully functional when needed. We use a CB 2000 when he is out of my presence (work). We have added a new dimension to the chastity....I use a small leather slapper to spank the head of his cock (very durable area by the way) and because it becomes so sensitive he would not touch it. He has said that showering is more than a little painful. The best part is that if I stroke him after a spanking he experiences pain and pleasure! He is very honorable about the chastity, but I DO love the control of using a device or pain to prevent any possibility of his touching himself.
I've thoroughly enjoyed reading the other posts on this subject.
MistressHawke

I too love this type of control & I have always felt that a male slave in chastity, at least for a week or more & ESPECIALLY one that normally masturbates almost daily, is far more submissive. I have a lot of hands on experience with this & although there are the exceptions, always, MOST will in fact be more submissive. I think it is a highly effective tool in female domination and really sets the dynamic when you control his orgasms’. After all he has become property, belongs to you and this would mean all that he is belongs to you… mind, body (and parts), soul.
I have never known long term chastity to cause any damage other then chaffing. I have no desire to damage a male’s cock. Maybe I don’t have any use for it, other then control, but I am smart enough to know that it’s the key to all that he is, therefore damaging it makes no sense at all.

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RE: Chasity? Over How long a period? - 2/22/2007 8:59:45 PM

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5 Months? WOW and OUCH ! I had my Cock Harness on for 4 days straight, but don't think it would be good for more than a week. Some other type of Chastity Device might be better for that much time.

I can only HOPE ! LOL

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RE: Chasity? Over How long a period? - 2/22/2007 9:05:11 PM

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You hit the nail on the head. I feel so much more Submissive, when I am in my Cock Harness or other type of Chastity. What I have does or would belong to a Mistress, and shouldn't be used, without permission. Great reply.

As for long time damage, I only wind up with a Penis, with neat little lines and creases. Pretty neat looking !

Sincerly, Sub BalletBob

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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 2/22/2007 9:14:24 PM

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5 Years? Now that has to be a record. And here I thought 4 days was a lot.....LMCLAO

I would also like to welcome you to the group too. I was goig to e-mail you, but after reading your profile, I struck out twice. I am am only 5'2", and Married (32 years...OUCH). Though I do have very seneitive Nipples.....or Puppies as I like to call them. ha ha ha

Take care, and I wish you the best of luck, in your search for a Tall, Single Sub. We have all kinds here, and feel you will find him.

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RE: Chastity? Over How long a period? - 3/9/2007 10:03:09 AM

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this is a great post ... thank you BlkTallFullfig

i have been playing around with chastity for about 2 - 3 years now (i'm 27 by the way). i have been using the CB-3000 with the points and i haven't noticed any side effects to wearing it other then being more submissive and more eager to please. Currently i don't have a keyholder but i wear it 24/7 for 2 weeks at a time and then take it off to inspect everything and clean it. When i had a keyholder she would let me out once a week just to have some fun and tease me and i would be milked once a month.

As for hygiene aspect of it, i use a cotton swabs (q-tips) and liquid mild baby wash and it does a great job. i have also been told that feminine hygiene products work great as well (if you're into humiliation that could also be fun to do, have your sub go buy it and watch him blush at the cash register hehe). Once everything is clean and dry ... i can't stress this enough, make sure that you dry off every little drop of water, leaving moinsture behind will lead to sores forming on the skin and it takes a few days up to a week for them to heal. So once it's all dry i will take a clean cotton swab and some baby oil gel and spread it all over on the inside of the cage as well as the ring that's in contact with the skin. The baby oil gel does two things: 1) it makes it more comfortable to wear and 2) it acts as a moinsture barrier preventing sores from forming, like from perspiration.

For 'milking' what i do is known as ruined orgasm or minimized orgasm, this is also what my keyholder would do to me, she found it very entertaining. Basically when the sub reaches a point of no return all stimulation is taken away and few seconds later the cum will start oozing out but the sub will not have any muscle contractions that occure during a normal orgasm. This has the same result as prostate massage, leaving the sub frustrated at the end.

Now i'm not a doctor or anything but from personal experience so far, i would say that using chastity devices is very safe as long as the Domme cares about her sub and there is good communication between the Domme and the sub. Good communication should be present during all kinds of play anyways.

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