chiaThePet
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AAkasha says; * Submissives that have just a slight hint of arrogance or rudeness toward dominant women, just subtle enough to be noticed but not worth calling them out on it. If a femdom were to point out that a guy was expressing a snarky attitude just to make it a point, she'd look like she's pulling the "femdom card." However, she knows he's doing it and he does. These subs are for the most part being respectful, but take an opportunity when they can to be a subtle asshole to show their "non wormliness." The submissive's defense would be that "you're not my Mistress so I don't need to submit to you," but he's clearly copping an attitude he wouldn't with a lady he worked with, a friend of his sister's or a woman working in a lingerie store. In fact, it's clear he's looking for oppportunties where he can show a little "tude" to make others think he's "not one of those asskissers.: KaramelGoddess says; I've noticed that some of the "submissives" who post here very accurately fit the following two descriptions. And no doubt they will pop up and think we're talking about them and then offer a wordy and whiny defense. blech. I'd rather chew glass than deal with any of them. ~Kara (May i fetch Mistress a toothpick Mamm, just as soon as i'm finished burning my bra, oh wait, i'm not that kind of boy, just one who wouldn't want to disappoint You) chia* says; GUILTY (to an extent) as we all see what we see, and feel what we feel from our individual perspectives. i offer no "defense", as i see no need to to portray myself as boy on trial, as a submissive, or otherwise. Oh yes, i was raised and weaned on that glorious clamor of days of old, "Yes Mistress, anything You say Mistress, You are Omnipotent Mistress, all knowing, all wise and deserving of accolades and worship Mistress, i fall before You in complete awe and surrender my Mistress, simply because You claim the title of Mistress, Mistress, for as it is written, so shall it be, Mistress. Ah, about that, God i love powerful Women, they melt my resolve, dash asunder my resistance, capture my undivided attention, reap havoc of my senses, i am at once, clay within Their hands, and yes, i would try and move the world for Them. As a boy of a submissive nature, it has been easy to fall in line of rhetoric simply because it is expected, anything less draws a well arched eyebrow and a quick dismissal of existence. So what has my absolute surrender and obedience wraught me thus far? Three failed D/s relationships, of which i accept my own shortcomings within, a mostly beautiful opportunity of exchange and mentoring in the cyber sense, but cyber offers only the satisfaction that it will, a yet young journey which finds me asking questions i always thought i was not supposed to ask, and quite frankly, a side of me which finds rebellion may not be the scab on the skin of submission that some would have me believe. Am i a submissive jerk? Yep, can be if provoked to such, not a trait i am proud of by any means, not the path i wish to travel at all. But i am not a eunuch either, i do possess a set of balls, and if drawn into what i consider a matter of principle, i will drop my drawers and let the balls bounce where they may. Is that so bad? If i am confronted head on by a Dominant jerk, do i not retain the right to meet Their attitude face to face? WHAT!? Did he say Dominant jerk!? Why the nerve! "But I am a Dominant, you will take what I give you and like it, because anything less will be viewed as disrepectful, distasteful, unruly, just a hole with a lot of ass around it." We will brand you unworthy regardless of the sludge flung from the oh so proper side of the street. A Domme is a Domme is a Domme, therefore the rules will apply as noted, to deviate from such is noncompliance of authority. One shall be drawn and quartered as soon as the committee deems it appropriate. "If I speak that I am a Dominant, it is your place to believe such, and you will bow down and adhere to all which has been written, because well, it is written." Check please! Oh i'm sorry, but the sum total of expectation here seems to be incorrect waiter, could we just check the math one more time, thank you. One of my favorite past times here at the splendid "collar me" forums, is to sit back and watch the Dominants snip and swipe at each other when there is expected disagreement among Themselves. Can be a fairly sweet sarcastic interlude in the otherwise humdrum flow of things. If They Themselves find issue among the opinions set forth before Them, why should i be expected to simply accept such and sit there all close lipped and minded just because it behooves me to do so as a submissive. "Don't rock the boat boy, a good submissive is seen, not heard, and adjust that codpiece because you look like a cheap tv dinner." "And you will do this because i call myself a Dominant, therefore i am." For all the same reasons the Dominants find fault within the ranks of the submissives, the submissives in turn see the same laid before them. We have the same trust, respect, belief, vulnerability, honesty, etc., etc., issues which keep playing and rewinding and playing and rewinding day after day after day. No wonder we all have so much time to sit down and post our thoughts and emotions, we have built the walls so high that we can't reach each other, so we spend our days dissecting and deflecting the thoughts of those we can no longer see, and brick by brick the wall rises ever higher. Is such the expectation of every moment of every day? Of course not, but happens enough that we keep coming full circle in our thoughts and posts, that as much as we would like it to disappear to the depths of darkness, it keeps rising to the surface, gnawing at our oh so happy little tea party. (boys serve butt naked of course, though a g-string is in order, just for hygiene you understand, and so nothing is mistaken for a petit four) "I told You to wear gloves Marge, didn't I?" i am a boy who understands the rules and regulations, always have, always will. But i am also a boy whom understands that there will be Those whom will slap me just for the sake of slapping me, just because They believe that by calling Themselves a Dominant, They are assured the right. i am that boy who rebukes such, who does not believe that simply because one calls Themselves something, it makes Them such, and gives Them carte blanche to act upon me with callous disregard. If You find this line of thought repulsive, ignore, block, pass me by, i'll never be the boy for You, fair enough. We shall agree to disagree for eternity. We are as unique as there are submissives, neither pressed from mold, nor created in the image of. Of course we must strive to abide by proper protocol, respect and manners, we uplift ourselves as well as Those whom we adore in the course of. Many here do not practice what they preach, on both sides of the isle i must say. Frankly, i am a boy who loves to laugh, loves to see that bend of humor applied to even the most serious of thoughts and subjects, it is just a part of who i am. Much of what i post here at the "collar me" forums has nothing to do with one side or the other, it is simply my warped sense of seeing things in an abstract, odd sort of way. So shoot me, wait, no, some of You just might, i take it back. Can't we all just get a bong? Laugh at me, laugh with me, for the love of God, just laugh, it does a body good. And from the look of things around here, we sure could use a lot of good. And one and two and one and two. You there on floor, get up and bring your friend with you. What? You don't have a friend with you? Oh, it's just you, my bad, and one and two and one and two. i know, i know, back in the cage. Submissive's Lib, nah, doubt it. i think we are just catching up with what so many of the Dominants have already become aware of. Things are not always as they seem, and we are hesitant to simply accept such because it makes everyone more comfortable. Cut us, we bleed, slap us, we ask why. If the reason for doing such holds no true credence or purpose to us, forgive us for mouthing off a little. Oh, and if some of you were wondering why i never attach one of those cute little smiley faces to my posts, it's because 99% of the time i'm smiling myself on the other side of my window to the world. Just though i'd throw that average out there with all the others getting tossed around, just for fun you know. So in conslusion, (i heard that, i'll give you just one) i will close with the words of the temptuous Tina Turner (God i love older Women) They speak volumes. Some boys got the look of a Greek Adonis Some boys try to knock You off Your feet Some boys think they're God's gift to Women Some boys think they're sweet enough to eat Hard to change the habits of a lifetime Don't even try Cause once You cut down deep into the icing You realize What You get is what You see Ain't nothing more to it Some guys got lips You can't help kissin Some guys got a smile You can't resist Some guys gotta build a reputation Some guys just wanna add You to their list You got a lot of physical attraction Can't deny But can you guarantee the satisfaction I'm still waiting, waiting, waiting Let me see your cards out on the table Before i buy I always read the writing on the label Cause there's reason to believe There's more to you than meets the eye Thank You for giving me the time and opportunity to share my thoughts, even if You simply sprayed Your PC with that big ol "PHHHTTT" chia* (the pet)
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Love is a many splendid sting. You can stick me in the corner, but I'll probably just end up coloring on the walls.
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