akbarbarian
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ORIGINAL: Lockit It sounds like she said something to her mother about it because her mother made the statement that her grandfather was old, etc. I was rather perturbed to hear about this myself when I first heard it on the 4th. I am not keen on threats, manipulation, and guilt trips being used to control someone. Apparently she was given this big song and dance about "How would you feel if you were standing at your grandfather's grave and you knew you could have gone to his last birthday party but didn't". Noone knows when someone will die, but aside from that, this is a very manipulative and cruel thing to say and I have less desire to respect the wishes or someone who would say such a thing. This was said Wednesday, not today. Why would she even say somthing like that? In any case, she's seen him plenty before the party, surely will afterwards, and aside from that this is the party day not the actual calendar birthday. To me however, this is all aside from the fact that two promises were broken. One that says I am a slave and I'll obey. The other being that this in particular was stressed that it would be obeyed, even when she thought it might mean not going to the birthday party at all. It seems the only reason she disobeyed and broke her word, is that she went and was around her mom before finding out the schedules conflict. If she had not gone at all, I have a feeling she would have obeyed or at least that's what she said on Wednesday.
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