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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:25:35 PM   
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One thing I will suggest is that if you have a network of computers that if you do sweep them individually - that wont clean them if you keep them on the network whilst you are doing it because depending on the virus it will move from one to the other.  You mentioned that one computer you know is infected with something that is hacked on and you won't use it.  If it is connected and used even just turned on, it will still infect the others.  You need to turn them off, sweep one at a time.  Norton btw is the crappest thing to use.  Being unable to defrag, probably means that there is a problem with windows itself.  If you really want to be sure - then the best soulution I could suggest is to do a Fdisc which will wipe every drive, then use the original installation discs to reinstate windows.  If you want to do that, then boot in dos mode by pushing F8 when you turn the machine on.
 
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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:25:57 PM   
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Hi Ma`am, Maybe You can try emailing both Yahoo and MSN  messengers help desks. i`m pretty sure they would want to know if they have security issues. You said before You had changed PC`s, the only way a trojan could be transfered to that is if You had transfered programmes or files containing it, OR been infected again by opening a link sent via messenger.

I have to say that even if people dont believe what you write, to mention about health problems is quite wrong and must breach the TOS here.

Once again i hope You get this all sorted out.

Regards..politesub

Edited to spell write right  << do two right writes make a wrong

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:28:59 PM   
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i keep all the windows updates current, and have norton.....a couple of times, norton has slapped my hand, when i went to open an email or something and said NO NO BAD BAD....it also scans all IM's, etc......

i consider it a bargain for about 60 bucks for 24 months.....

and last year, i had a major crash, thanks to my dear son.....i found a toll-free number for microsoft, and they literally stayed on the phone with me for 2 hours, until it was fixed...FOR FREE!!!!

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:35:48 PM   
RCdc


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

I have to say that even if people dont believe what you right, to mention about health problems is quite wrong and must breach the TOS here.

Once again i hope You get this all sorted out.

Regards..politesub


I completely agree polite (hope you are well btw)
What has been said is technically (see - a pun) slanderous, should Lockit decide to take that issue further.  Especially from someone who has now shown they have little knowledge of how vulnerable messanger and hotmail services are... let alone how a virus can be passed through that and mediaplayer as well - even when listing 'sources' (a couple of which are crap for info btw).
 
So Petronius - I believe you are out of line - but then I am only one single person hey - small and insignificant - who's beliefs probably have no relevance to the big wide world.  Oh - just like yours too.
 
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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:39:06 PM   
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I hate to say it but yahoo is well aware of their security issues. They have several issues that have happened to myself and several other people that frequent a dungeon room on yahoo.You see there is a hacker that ghosts in the room and he hates bdsm..etc..or in other words hes just miserable I guess. Anyway..at first he would hack into a name and then IM the users on that persons friends list and for instance the IM I got said "Look...this girl has stolen my pics and is using them" well this came from a very good girlfriend of mine...so of course I had no problem clicking the link..well it was a password stealer.so he got my pw and then did it to everyone on my BL and so on...Yahoo has since patched that problem by allowing you to pick a color, pic or phrase that is always on your yahoo sign in box. So when that stopped working for him he started using a program that would send hundreds of TOS violation reports to yahoo from actual real and diff names to yahoo, reporting profiles...I had a total of 8 names closed. What I mean by that is not that i had 8 names to begin with but everytime I made a new name, he found it and reported it. He did this to about 25 other subs and dommes in the room, some lost up to 12-14 names.I finally just stopped going...it is ridiculous. We all reported this and even his chatroom logs where he admitted it. posted our own passwords in chat...etc and yahoo did NOTHING...they wouldnt even give us our accounts back. So they really could care less...hell they cant even understand what we are saying most of the time and vice versa.

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:42:24 PM   
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Hi the.dark,  i hope you are well also,  i am okay and thanks for asking. i am not an expert on PC`s but have been online enough to now malicious code can also be included in an innocent photo. So if you had that photo saved on file and moved it from PC to PC the code would travel with it.

Regards...politesub

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:52:36 PM   
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yes...since you know where he does and where he works...why dont you print out his threats and fax them along with his photo to his place of employment..Im sure if he is as psychotic as he sounds he has probably done some of these things to you from his job while on the clock....I wouldnt THINK TWICE about nailing his nuts to the WALL....give him a dose of his own medicine...while youre at it..send a copy to every address in his neighborhood or street...call up all the local grocery stores, video stores, gas stations,etc and I have a feeling it will STOP. If you want to beat him..or stop him...then you have to BE HIM..think like he does...bring him down girl..you can do it.Take back your LIFE!

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 4:55:29 PM   
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ThePricessBych...Hi Ma`am, i know Yahoo have a problem as each time i sign on i have links waiting directing me to free web cam sites. This has been going on for a while and i have a wry smile at Yahoo`s claim that  my messages are protected from spam

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:01:17 PM   
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Thank you everyone...

Yes, I have a lot of what I consider evidence and I would think my hard drives would be further proof.  I just couldn't find a way to get to the right people in reporting this and them doing something about it.  I won't stop looking.  I must be careful in how I do things as if I can't prove my case and without assistance I won't be able to prove my case and this guy could have legal ramifications against me.  There is a lot to consider here.

I have some serious things going on in life and I am tired of battling.  Could that distract me?  Yes... Could it make me unstable... lol... yes... but it hasn't.  At most here I have been ignorant and unable to learn tech stuff and remember it.  I know the things that I know... but new tech things are hard for me to learn and process because of stroke.  I may have some brain issues... but they are not mental or emotional.

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:09:44 PM   
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Petronious....People can absolutely hack into your ENTIRE computer system via yahoo messenger. Especially if she ever viewed his cam...or accepted a file transfer from this fool. How do I know? I had an internet stalker from Iran! The way he was caught was by having him view a cam of someone who knew far more about computers than I do...and then entering these keys that brought up a black screen of all of the IP's that I had interacted with recently...We were able to get his that way and from that IP...we got his name, address, ISP provider and even his telephone #. This jackass was married and his wife and himself lived at him with his mother..so we called left a message on his answerming machine..emailed his ISP which happened to be WHO HE WORKED FOR...and after that..i heard from him once more and then he was gone. So no it isnt about using their genius to make millions etc..some comp geeks use their computer as a shield to hide behind and play Billy Bad ass, and because they have no life..such as the person who did this to me for a year...they get off on it..nothing more nothing less.It happens...I dont know this woman here..but I dont see why she has a reason to lie.She could make up a much better sob story if she was only seeking attention...IMO. And FYI....Lockit..it rattled me to NO END..when you called that boy SIR after he made a mockery of your story..I dont care if you're submissive or not...you arent his submissive so dont allow people to talk to you that way and then turn around & dignify them with SIR...for chrissake borrow my backbone, I have enough for both of us.lol..

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:15:40 PM   
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lol I am not submissive... and I did not mean the word as in the lifestyle meaning. lol  If I had... an indicator would be that it was used with either upper or lower case.

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:20:13 PM   
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lol ok GOOD...I didnt know if you were or not because earlier you said the man who was bothering you was angry because you wouldn't be his slave...I guess I misunderstood & thought by that that you were submissive...

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:22:31 PM   
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Nope... lol... that is what makes his efforts to make me a slave so interesting... lol

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:28:11 PM   
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Dark,

Thank you for the information you have given!  I am having all this copied so that I can keep it all and try to learn it well for the time when I do go back online.  That will be a while I am afraid... because I've seen enough. lol I think I will stick to research and writing for a while... leave chat and such for on the phone.  Sometimes the littlest thing can open you up for a problem and I have had a lot of those.  I guess like safe sex... I am going to have to learn safe enternet and computer use!

Thank you!

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:30:25 PM   
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Its a bit techie but to see which pc`s you are connected to.
Click start/run.....type in command and click enter.
type netstat and click enter again....... This shows all the pc`s connected to you.
Right click and click select all. Open note pad and click paste. Now you have a list which you can save. click save as and give it a name.

Its the only thing i use command for as im not to techie but it does work.

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:52:30 PM   
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Thank you Politesub... {smile}

I have done this and recorded a lot of interesting things.  I have found all sorts of networks, hidden files and a bomb on one of my pictures.  I believe I stopped it all with a couple things I did... but I am not sure how to explain how I did it.  I wasn't allowing printer sharing or networks and such... but found deeper in somewhere... I have no clue where... that someone was using a lot of memory and such.  I had an administrater unknown to me, etc.  I went offline... I changed a bunch of things and am continuing to do so as I am still online.  I will shut down and then won't be back online and I surely won't do anything risky or come to sites to chat and such.  It will be business and business only.  Not finanacial of course... but then... lol... I have nothing to get!  Trying to protect myself on the budget I have has been interesting and I am sure left me vulnerable.  It won't happen again.

The hacker cost me a lot... but most importantly it meant that I could not work with the people I worked with and do the advocating I have done for many years... Some of you know some of the work I have been envolved in to some degree.  I have fought to protect my friends and personal lives shared with me... my interest in the lifestyle and didn't want my hard drives out there.  But... now I don't care.  Everyone has given me persmission to expose this guy even if it poses some embarassment or hardship to them.  They know how serious this was.  I do say was, because it will no longer be serious.  I am nullifying him with a lot of help from people here and going into hidding.  He has affected certain things, but I can manage that and move on and be happy.

I sure am going to miss the friends I have made here!  I have a deep respect for many here and I love learning from the boards and others who share similar kinks... lol... but I won't forget you all!  Other than this thread... it's been a joy!

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 5:55:03 PM   
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Wow.  I would have my computer looked at and add security before I would let some cyber-stalker control me like that.  Just saying, do you really want to give him this much authority over you?

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 6:02:21 PM   
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No, that is why I was as open here as I have been.  I thought I was secure.  But since I am not... I will regroup.  He controls only for a moment in time.  A time when I become armed for security and such.  A time out.  I think I have enough to keep me busy.  I would keep an old comp running and stick around if I thought it wouldn't harm others by him seeing who I was close to or whatever. 

Some hackers just seem to be able to get past all sorts of things and there is no way to secure myself totally and therefore not be a risk to others.  Yes... he wins this battle... but I shall win the war.  I am patient. {smile}

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 6:10:15 PM   
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Good luck Lockit, when you come back you might want to leave your picture off your profile and change your location,
until you know who you are talking to.
Good luck.

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RE: Maybe leaving CM.. A warning - 7/13/2007 7:03:40 PM   
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Darcyandthedark wrote:
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You simply have to go to Microsoft Security Bulletin to find windows media and MSN vulnerability reports.


MSN is a collection of various services. I believe D. means that I should check vulnerability reports for "MSN Messenger" or "Windows Live Messenger" or both.

But it isn't my job; it is D's. I was very exact in what I wrote: that I had not heard of any report of a hack that let a messenger service "get into your computer" in the form written of. If there are such reports it is up to the person claiming that to show them, not to direct me or anyone else into some vague general area to discover we're wrong.

Politesub53 wrote, and Darcyandthedark agreed that:

quote:


I have to say that even if people dont believe what you write, to mention about health problems is quite wrong and must breach the TOS here.


I am not sure what this refers to. Let me assume, for the sake of argument, that it refers to my use of the word "paranoid."

This started as a political discussion, relating to an ostensible problem in our society about technology, the state of major corporations concerning security, and the role played or not played by law enforcement. Given that, somebody can hardly object if a word is presented as a summary of an analysis of their actions.

In terms of "health problems" I did suggest psychotherapy but that suggestion is routinely made by different people in discussions. Moreover, psychological terms are used all of the time in these discussions, e.g. HNG ("horny net geek").

Darcyandthedark wrote:

quote:


What has been said is technically (see - a pun) slanderous, should Lockit decide to take that issue further.  Especially from someone who has now shown they have little knowledge of how vulnerable messanger and hotmail services are... let alone how a virus can be passed through that and mediaplayer as well - even when listing 'sources' (a couple of which are crap for info btw).


Actually, to be technical it would be "libel" and not "slander." Moreover if it is libel it is libel whether or not Lockit would decide to "take the issue further."

I have found that people who may initially get upset and threaten legal action around libel tend not to do so when they get a better idea of what a suit means. In this case -- truth being a defense -- it would mean I'd be given total access to all her computers, total access to all the computers she used (insofar as she had any control over them), all her email, her diary (if any) etc. Discovery in a libel case goes on forever.

It is more the norm for somebody who attacks major corporations and law enforcement to complain to an ISP that he or she has hurt feelings.

Darcyandthedark goes on to claim, without evidence or substance, that I have been someone "who has now shown they have little knowledge of how vulnerable messanger and hotmail services are... " There's been no showing of any sort as far as I can tell. This is particularly the case since the issue was never about mere vulnerability that every software program has but a particular type of vulnerability that existed in concrete form and let hackers do very specific things. Abstract words about abstract vulnerabilities are mere puffery and detract from the real issue.

Things are even worse, as when D. wrote of me as someone with no additional knowledge of "how a virus can be passed through that and mediaplayer as well "

Again there's been no showing of either of these because they hadn't been part of the discussion. Mediaplayer, in particular, is a utterly irrelevant piece of software in this discussion and an utterly irrelevant point.

Nor has the real issue been a mere "passing through" of some messenger service  by a "virus" (although the original description of the hack in question seems to be more a one-time Trojan horse, not a self-replicating virus.)

Of course nasty things can pass through messenger services and email services. Somebody sends a piece of destructive software following the normal form for mailing. Then the person at the other end opens it. But this isn't a buy in the messenger service or email. The problem doesn't come from the messenger service software. The issue isn't any bug in the messenger service. The messenger service functioned exactly as it was supposed to.

By way of illustrations: Medico cylinders provide quite good, but not perfect, physical security for your house. It would be highly inaccurate for somebody to claim "Medico's are shit. I put one on my door, didn't lock it, and got robbed."  Similarly in a discussion about bullets it would hardly been accurate to charge somebody who wrote that "unloaded guns never shoot anybody" lacked knowledge of guns since you can get hurt dropping an unloaded gun on your foot.

I understand that Internet-based discussions contain a lot of personal slagging; but one really should provide some evidence to back up one's claims. Failing that it starts to look like libel (so to speak).


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