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RE: face slapping - 7/22/2007 12:38:41 AM

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I wouldn't call it humiliating at all. But I love it!
For me its the rush I get from the sheer violence of it when Master just keeps slapping me, faster and faster, seeming more out of control.... it sends me off into another world, different to typical 'subspace'... like I am just pure animal, unable to think or speak, just be, while he does things to me....

Mmmmmm....

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RE: face slapping - 7/22/2007 4:06:12 AM

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I had it done once by a play partner not Master before i met Master. I did not expect it at all and it shocked me. I looked at him and said if you ever do that again that is the last time we will see each other. It made me realize it is something i really don;t like actually i hate it. From reading the other posts i guess i am alone in this thought.

Matt's littleone

no, you arent....i've nerve damage to the point that touching my face some days hurts like seven hells. so Sir doesnt do that to me.

kitten....all owwies all the time lately. *sighs*

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RE: face slapping - 7/22/2007 7:22:42 AM

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Me three,

It is a hard limit for me, don't know why, I have only ever had my face slapped that once, but it freaked me out, him too as a result. (I had no idea this would occur, so it was not a limit in negotiation stage.) It was a reflex of his when I replied honestly 'No' to a question I was asked. Then he said, 'you never say no to your master'......I should have left there and then.

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 9:16:46 AM

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Its both. I love it. Though I remember once.. It was meant as a punishment. He slapped me so hard, that I got a bruise on me cheekbone. After all, he is an ex republican boxing champion

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 9:37:13 AM

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I don't find it humilitaing but it's such a shocking sensation. It gets your attention immidiatly. it's a very primal and personal act. It doesn't happen very often but when it does he has my rapt and undivided attention..And not in a bad way :)

denika

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 10:40:50 AM

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an ex said she couldnt understand why someone would enjoy being slapped around , meaning my new relationship as a slave. i told Master. which brought up the fact i did not like to get slapped. so he did, slap me that is. after all he can do anything he wants. afterwards we spoke of how i felt, after thinking of it a bit i expressed that in my culture slapping a persons face was considered disrespect and that the slapped person was considered worthless. Master said that i was his to use and i was very much loved and cared for. face slapping has a different meaning for me. although if anybody else tries it they will find a crazy short puerto rican opening a can of whoop ass on them.

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 11:18:42 AM

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For me i have to say all of the above but if i had to pick just one i would say the mental humiliation from it when there are others around to see :)

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 11:40:54 AM

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i can't explain it but it just makes me melt !. . no idea why , don't want to work out why . . . i just like it!

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 6:03:43 PM

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I'm with those who don't find it particularly humiliating. However, I like face slapping because it is sort of more visceral action. I actually prefer having a more raw, real violence as opposed to some ritualized BDSM thing. Some say never hit a sub in anger, but I say, what better time to hit one? The idea that she can just physically take out her frustrations - hopefully not frustrations created by me, mind you - out on me is appealing.

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 6:50:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: denika

I don't find it humilitaing but it's such a shocking sensation. It gets your attention immidiatly. it's a very primal and personal act. It doesn't happen very often but when it does he has my rapt and undivided attention..And not in a bad way :)

denika

Never having had my face slapped..all I can say is Denika's thoughts represent what I "think" I would feel..:0)...Tempting

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 7:44:03 PM

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For myself, the shock is the biggest effect. My mind sort of goes.."wait a minute..did he just slap me"..then "oh geez he did" and well..I'll censor the rest, we'll just say my temp rises dramatically *laughs*. I guess the odd thing of it is, that it ALWAYS takes me by surprise, and I think always will, because it is such a societal taboo. Few things put my head in the right space better, I immediately go into "pleaaaase let me please You" slave-mode. Just my two cents, as always..

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 8:49:50 PM

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I hardly ever get this but I LOVE it!! No clue why, I have no humiliation feeling associated with it. In fact I hate humiliation. It just seems erotic and dominant to me, and the stinging feeling is incredible. I'd like it harder but alas...

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RE: face slapping - 8/6/2007 11:14:21 PM

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Interesting. I have some hard limits and face slapping is one of them. Way too close to brutality for me.

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RE: face slapping - 8/7/2007 6:58:51 AM

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For those of you who enjoy having your face slapped, it the enjoyment more from the physical action/stimuli, or is it the mental humiliation factor that turns you on?

Though you asked for the perspective of those that have it done to them, I hope you don't mind that I give my perspective as being a slap-PER. I love the feeling of control...the wide-open eyes...the way you can almost see a submissive mindset slip into place behind those eyes, the posture, the look on the face...all these things come into play. Mentally, it appeals to the dominant control and to the humiliation factor when I do it to one that I know enjoys the humiliation aspect. Physically, it appeals to the sadistic side of me and knowing that, when used at the right time, can have a "turn-on" effect as well as all the other things that happen is a turn-on for me.

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RE: face slapping - 8/7/2007 7:29:45 AM

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A face slap is more of a gentle wake-up call if I'm having too good of a time. It usually only comes when I least expect it, and is used only rarely so it keeps it's shock-factor. I like heart thudding jolts, even if they kill a 'moment' of enjoyment, I wouldn't say face slapping itself turns me on, it's more of a symbolism that reflects control on me, a reminder to perform or keep myself together.
I'm sure my face slapping experiences have been soft in comparison to many others, but I think if it was any harder than just enough to leave a sting and a bit of pink, I'd probably learn to dislike it. It probably stems from being a bit 'head shy', which maybe part of the reason I like the action, without it being very severe, a bit of thrill of going against instinct to hide my head/face from harm. I don't find it humiliating, though I might if I was ever slapped in public.

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RE: face slapping - 8/7/2007 10:35:15 AM

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Cherry, That is the perfect discription for me. It is humbiling, and a reminder that i'm not in controle.

I really don't like my face being touched, so getting slapped puts me in my place.

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RE: face slapping - 8/7/2007 11:24:02 AM

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I've not experienced this yet...and i'm not sure i will...but i KNOW i dont need it to remind me of my place... i mean no disrepect to those that said other wise...

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RE: face slapping - 8/7/2007 1:42:18 PM

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I have to agree with those who say they can't quite put their fingers on why exactly they enjoy it!

It definitely has to do with the physical aspect, being overpowered and being reminded of that. Knowing Master is stronger and being reminded of his strength across the face. The sting itself isn't so pleasant, except the blood rushing to the spot does feel amazing. The look in the eyes of Master is intoxicating, seeing his power actually in his eyes from such a small movement of his hand...

Is it warm in here?

I don't feel humiliated by it though. I've been told it is a humiliating act, though I don't agree. It reminds me of my place and I love it.

~Fledgling

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RE: face slapping - 8/7/2007 7:01:35 PM

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I don't feel humiliated by it though. I've been told it is a humiliating act, though I don't agree. It reminds me of my place and I love it.

Actually, some would say that is the exact definition of humble: being reminded of your place.

If that place is at the dominant's feet, I would have to agree that definition fits.
Perhaps what you mean is that you don't feel degraded or debased?
Many associate humiliation with shame or ego reduction.
Technically, it isn't shame, though it can cause shame.
Whether it does or not, depends on the person.

Being degraded, on the other hand, takes you below your station, while being debased is to be corrupted, soiled, made impure, or (in some cases) to have one's value lowered. Few like to be debased in this final sense of the word, while more like the first three senses. Some like being degraded in the strict sense, but most seem to use it as a slightly more emphatic version of humiliated.

But very many like being humiliated, in the sense of being shown their place.

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RE: face slapping - 8/7/2007 8:21:29 PM

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...it didn't feel like humiliation. It was never done as punishment. He was never "out of control or angry" when he chose to slap my face. It seemed to come from a place of intense passion> He would be holding my face and looking into my eyes and his hand would go from stroking my face so tenderly and lovingingly to a slap...and I would melt..
For me....the excitement of it was because it was unique to US...meaning> I knew I was the only person he could or would ever do that to. And I knew that no one else on earth would ever slap me (as in abuse or violence) and be able to walk away after I kicked in his knee caps...........But between us, it was an expression of intense feelings, not violence....

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