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RE: face slapping - 8/11/2007 11:30:56 PM

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It humbles me. It is for me one of the most imtimate punishments i receive. Master knows it is hard for me...i was never slapped in the face before in my life. It wasn't an "acceptable" form of punishment when i was growing up and it had never happened to me before.
When Master slaps my face it makes me look directly into His eyes. His eyes seem to look directly into my soul and the world around me disappears...i only see/feel Him.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 12:48:50 PM

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It is used in our relationship. I will slap his face if he does that something that annoys me, particularly any sort of backtalking. If it is serious backtalk he'll have his mouth risnsed with soap and slapped. I will also slap his face when we are with likeminded people. It sets the right tone. Only the forehand, never a backhand, hard on the cheek is the only spot I will strike. God help him if he flinches or tries to avoid it.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 12:52:13 PM

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yikes... and true - setting tone - but hates it - and also a very proper correction i suppose...

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 12:53:54 PM

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just an innocent question here. what if you're not into face slapping and a Dominant does it anyway?

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 1:09:17 PM

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It depends on the context and what you mean by "not into face slapping." If you've set it as a hard limit, and she slaps you, that would be concerning. If it pushes your buttons and makes you go berserk, it would be a good thing to put to the side. If you hated it, it might be a good punishment.

I adore face-slapping. If someone had it as a hard limit, I would have to like a LOT of other things about them to make up for that. As boiJen (hope I spelled that right) noted, it's itense and intensely personal -- a pleasure I would hate to forego. I enjoy the violence of it (which does not mean that I slap head-whippingly hard). I don't use it as a punishment. Oddly, I do it when someone's made me very happy!

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 1:15:45 PM

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it reminds me too much of being abused by my parents, so it is a personal issue for me. i get very defensive in such situations.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 1:28:50 PM

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At first it did for me too, Michael, along with other things he regularly does now that I love. It was my choice to work through them, and to beg him to do them to me so that I could. When done properly and with care, I found I could work through anything, and now have a whole new range of things I enjoy being subjected to for him, which he enjoys doing to me. Working through past issues has helped us enhance what we have. Not easy, but worth it.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 1:34:58 PM

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If someone told me they had issues around it (and I can understand that!), I would see if it was a hard or soft limit and move carefully from that point. It's a great pleasure of mine, but if I thought it would be harmful for the submissive, it would take the pleasure right out of it. I love the edge, but I don't like harming someone. With an emotionally skilled dominant, you might be able to wade into face slapping, doing it in a safe way. Or it might be an activity left best on the shelf.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 1:39:41 PM

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all i can say about that is, in order to 'wade' me into it, it would be a wise idea to have me bound tightly. let's just say, it would be in the best interest of the 'slapper' to do this. the last thing i would want to do is cause harm to someone in such a situation. ordinarily, i'm not a violent person. but this makes for an exception to that rule.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 1:41:58 PM

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If someone had to be bound to accept a slap, I would not do it.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 1:53:08 PM

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In my case, the act was talked about at great length prior to ever engaging. There was nothing forceful about it. All fears about it were examined, all possible reactions were examined and analyzed, and the first time it was done, it was rather mild, with a pause on his part to see how I responded and whether or not I was ok. Such abuses are not to be overcome carelessly by any means.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 2:02:33 PM

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I was at a concert last night with a new sub. This was our first meet. I already knew he likes public humiliation and there were plenty of vanilla peeps and children present.

He made a loud, extremely rude comment directed at me related to porn. I said "That was gross!' and then I slapped his face. A smallish slap, but forceful. the woman next to me who had Her 8 yr old daughter with her smiled at me in a grateful way.

My work was done. The sub was humiliated, the woman grateful, and her daughter's honor was protected:
Definition #10.
chastity or purity in a woman
And, I sure felt better after I slapped him!

He won't be under My consideration, that's definite!

Re: bound while slapping. All depends on the domme, the sub, the circumstances, etc.
I came in late on this thread, saw the word 'slap' and wanted to share with you what happened last night. Hoping this post is appropriate!

Irish

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 2:19:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

my defense reflexes would pop in and then there would be trouble

Totally agree. Master has never slapped me, but if he did - my mind would be going 'did he just slap me in the face' while my right hand draws itself back to punch him in the face - see how he likes that!!

Of course we both know it is not acceptable in our relationship - so its never going to be an issue!

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 3:14:36 PM

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You are not alone, I cannot tolerate face slapping myself. I feel that it is usually a knee-jerk reaction by someone who should be in better control of himself, sometimes an action peformed in an instantaneous moment of anger. Even in scene I don't find it appealing at all. Face slapping to me is way too personal and borders on abuse, and if it happens I tend to hit back (doesn't go over well).

I can see your point....as a Dominant entering into this new activity (as it is something that is of interest to my new partner) I decided if I am going to do this....each time I draw my arm back there will need to be a conscious decision of whether or not I am in control of what I am about to do. It's never been my thing...but I see its potential if the person slapping is in control of themselves (physically and emotionally).

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 5:56:31 PM

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I love to give a good face slapping. The reaction is so awesome.

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RE: face slapping - 8/12/2007 6:05:49 PM

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i don't think you'd like my reaction

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RE: face slapping - 8/13/2007 10:24:58 AM

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It cannot be an action taken out of anger (well, it cannot be done in a state of complete anger). It must be a calculated move. The striker must be completely aware of his/her strength and how much of it is being used.

Someone corrected me on a post I made earlier and after reflecting on it I believe they were correct. I suppose I find the act not humiliating, but humbling, reminding me that I belong to someone else and that what I am feeling is a result of the actions he is taking and not of anything I am doing.

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RE: face slapping - 8/13/2007 10:28:57 AM

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I hate face slapping. However, a past Master of mine often slapped my face. It stunned me always, until one day when he decided to explain to me why he did it. It almost always made me cry. Crying makes my mouth hot and more pleasurable for his use. That was a good enough reason for me.

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RE: face slapping - 8/13/2007 10:36:04 AM

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I love face slapping, especially if the other enjoys it as well. I typically only used it during sessions if she talked back or if we wanted a quick arousal! It should never be done in anger or to the point where you are striking somone so hard you give them whiplash. It also should be done in a manner that the person knows what you about to do. Make sure you have some sort of contact (eye) with the person so they know its coming, especially since it is only a natural reaction to jerk back from being struck. This can cause some serious problems if you are aiming for a specific spot and they move!

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RE: face slapping - 8/13/2007 11:15:56 AM

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People experience the world through their head mostly.
The closer the action is to the eyes, nose, ears the more likely it is to be personalized.

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