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RE: face slapping - 8/13/2007 9:01:21 PM

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Both! If done properly it is extremely erotic..if done hard and repeatedly it is humiliating...which is hot.

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RE: face slapping - 8/13/2007 9:09:17 PM

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It cannot be an action taken out of anger (well, it cannot be done in a state of complete anger). It must be a calculated move. The striker must be completely aware of his/her strength and how much of it is being used.

Someone corrected me on a post I made earlier and after reflecting on it I believe they were correct. I suppose I find the act not humiliating, but humbling, reminding me that I belong to someone else and that what I am feeling is a result of the actions he is taking and not of anything I am doing.

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i tend to react by striking back when someone hits me in the face...it's more of a reflex than anything.

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RE: face slapping - 8/14/2007 1:01:24 AM

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I first experienced face-slapping the very first time my Dom and I played together, in private. I refused to do something (a very small thing that had to do with personal gross-factor more than limits), and he tapped my face. It was just a very small tap, no pain, didn't even cause my head to move. But the shock it gave me was amazing. I hated it, because of society I equated it to abuse, and the fact that my mom had been abused as a kid, and a man slapping a woman better not go to sleep that night expecting to wake up. So I put it up as a hard limit after my Dom and I discussed how the scene went for me.

The next time we met, he asked me to take it down as a hard limit. I hated to, but I really wanted to please him, so I agreed to make it a soft limit. A couple months later, I was begging for it. I don't know what spurred it on, he hadn't even tapped my face since the first time. But now, every time he does it, I absolutely love it. But it's definitely the physical feeling of it, the absolute *shock* of having my face slapped. And my Dom's of the Viking build, so his hand equates something close to a ham...but it's funny, I never feel any pain with it, unless I'm completely out of sub mode and not in the mood for play, then it stings like the fury. But if I'm at all aroused or in the mood, it totally sends me over the top right into headspace, and it is *so* much better than getting an orgasm. It sounds crazy, but it's a pleasure so great, and puts me so deep into headspace, that a climax is anticlimactic (bad puns courtesy of my Dom's training).

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RE: face slapping - 8/14/2007 1:17:20 AM

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This is not to change the topic, but I dated a bottom for a year that liked being slapped in her face with my cock. It would leave little temporary red marks on her cheeks. It would stimulate my cock also and make it harder. My cock would be red and have slight pain from it.

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RE: face slapping - 9/2/2007 2:29:43 AM

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well, personally ill give you an example, about two weeks ago me and my best friend, were taking a nap in the bed ( ya its a chic ) and she sat on my chest and slapped each of my cheeks like 3 times each i had no idea why in the hell she did but she seemed to enjoy it and i told her straight up " that turns me on " and after i said that she did it once more. didnt really think much of it though.
wasnt really a beatdown slap but kinda a medium not painful but enough to make that noise.

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RE: face slapping - 9/3/2007 3:03:21 PM

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I always thought of face slapping in the category of soft limits for me, I never, ever thought I'd like it. Later on after Sir and I discussed it, he thought he'd like to try it so I asked him to hit me (while I wasn't aroused). Yikes! Scary. It made me uncomfortable, outside of it hurting like hell. It left me feelings a little vulnerable, I just wanted to curl up a bit. We had decided that it just wasn't for us and he was lukewarm on it anyways.

Later that weekend while we were having rather rough sex I was just craving a nice dose of pain, so I asked him to slap me. He paused, slapped me rather roughly and it felt amazing. After that I was completely hooked on it. As a masochist the pain does it for me, the mental factor has to do with the idea that Sir can choose to slap me whenever it suits him. It's just a reminder to me that he can do what he wishes, yay turn on.

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RE: face slapping - 9/3/2007 3:33:05 PM

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As the one doing the slapping, all I can say is it gives me a really hard cock.

The rest I will leave to the philosophers.

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RE: face slapping - 9/4/2007 9:30:05 AM

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I had a girlfriend named Lisa who stood almost a foot shorter than me. We got into an argument once and she hauled off and slapped me. Of course, I was egging her on. The humiliation of standing there impotent and being humbled by this smaller but more powerful woman was overwhelming. From that moment on, I was hers.

Ironically, she found a lover after she tired of my games and he came over often. He too, stood beneath me as far as height went. Once, when I didn't get him a beer fast enough, he stood and slapped me. Naturally, Lisa was watching, maybe even put him up to it, and the wicked grin on her face, combined with the insult was so powerful that I almost came.

For me, it's the humiliation.

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RE: face slapping - 9/4/2007 7:45:45 PM

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for me it is the control factor more than anything else.....when He slaps my face there is not doubt, whatsoever that He is in control.......and i love it every time He does it

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RE: face slapping - 9/9/2007 12:53:05 PM

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It's all of the above. I enjoy the pain, and I enjoy it puts me in my place. It really turns me on pretty quick, even though Master has a mean backhand, I still try to take all he dishes out.

Its the same for me, but in one particular time, i was humiliated when Master slapped my face. It surely puts me in my place.

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RE: face slapping - 11/23/2007 6:33:54 PM

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Thanks to all who contributed to this thread. I just had my first experience with slapping my little submissive pet's beautiful tender face. I have to admit it gave me a power rush to subject her to such attention-getting correction.

I've given her some time to dwell on her emotions to see how she feels about the experience. I'm very eager to hear her feedback.

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RE: face slapping - 11/23/2007 10:08:08 PM

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I love it when Master slaps me. When he slaps me its a beautiful thing and its done with love. Smetimes he uses slapping as an endurance test to see how much I am willing to take for him.

But I have one question for anyone that can answer....has anyone's face ever broke out into a rash after being slapped several times? Mine tends to and I can't figure out what causes that.

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RE: face slapping - 11/23/2007 10:20:17 PM

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It is funny, I had it down as a hard limit but my ex Dom, who pushed all my limits....slapped me a number of times and it was kind of hot, but I still freaked out about it. I guess I was concerned about it marking my face since I bruise and mark easily and cannot risk having any problem with my face.

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RE: face slapping - 11/24/2007 6:33:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

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ORIGINAL: Vampyrefledgling

It cannot be an action taken out of anger (well, it cannot be done in a state of complete anger). It must be a calculated move. The striker must be completely aware of his/her strength and how much of it is being used.

Someone corrected me on a post I made earlier and after reflecting on it I believe they were correct. I suppose I find the act not humiliating, but humbling, reminding me that I belong to someone else and that what I am feeling is a result of the actions he is taking and not of anything I am doing.

~Fledgling

i tend to react by striking back when someone hits me in the face...it's more of a reflex than anything.

I've played with a submissive that was into face slapping who slapped me back. I was shocked at first but it was a reflex. After regrouping we had one of the hottest scenes that I can remember and that was almost 10 years ago.

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 4:13:03 AM

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It would be both, for me. Sir will slap me just at the right time, and it will send me over the edge.

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 6:51:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: bull4cuckolds

For those of you who enjoy having your face slapped, it the enjoyment more from the physical action/stimuli, or is it the mental humiliation factor that turns you on?

My husband will slap my face occasionally during some rough intense play, and I have to admit I enjoy it. It's so unexpected and so out of character for him, it's a complete turn-on. I'm not sure if my arousal is due to the humiliation, because it's not humiliating to me to get my face slapped in private. But when my normally calm even-tempered husband gets to "that point" ... that just sends me reeling.

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 11:20:17 AM

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I adore having my face slapped, especially when it's followed by "That's my good little slut." YUM.

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 11:44:51 AM

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Several months back, I commented on face-slapping here (1st page) and I think I’d like to again…from a different point of view.

The idea of having a boy, cuffed and on a leash, on his knees in front of me wearing my strap-on is such a delicious notion I can hardly stand it. I know one who wants to suck cock, but he wants to be ‘made’ to do so. I can just imagine putting two fingers under his chin, to make him look up at me, and sliding that hand over to cradle his face and smacking him a good one with my open hand. This is a huge turn on for him as well, as I sternly tell him to suck my cock. He begins to pull back, so I slap him again…twice and roughly grab him by the hair and pull him into my cock. His mouth still closed gets him yet another slap, followed by two more as I tell him he will NOT refuse me and besides, I tell him, I know he really wants to suck cock.

By that time he’s crying; red-faced and snotty but readily sucking the cock I’ve got on. I happily hold him by his hair as I deep throat him, listening to him gag and watching strings of slimy spit drip from his mouth. But…by then, he’s so avidly sucking my cock he can make me cum pushing against the back of his throat while I whisper to him that soon, this same cock is gonna be up his ass.

I am not at all sure this would be nearly as much fun, without the face slapping, first.

But, that’s just me; yeah, big fan of face slapping!
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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 12:04:06 PM

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I've had my face slapped really HARD, to the point where it knocked me down. I love the way getting slapped makes me feel submissively, but I'm not really interested in having black eyes, or problems with my jaw, so I think it is something that needs to be done with really careful control.

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 1:48:21 PM

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Dang Woman!!!Quit talking like that. I mean dang Msbearlee.

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