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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 2:14:10 PM

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i have been known to, upon occasion, to beg to have my face slapped....it just reminds me who is in control.....and when he adds the name calling to it......oh my god....

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 3:45:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

Several months back, I commented on face-slapping here (1st page) and I think I’d like to again…from a different point of view.

The idea of having a boy, cuffed and on a leash, on his knees in front of me wearing my strap-on is such a delicious notion I can hardly stand it. I know one who wants to suck cock, but he wants to be ‘made’ to do so. I can just imagine putting two fingers under his chin, to make him look up at me, and sliding that hand over to cradle his face and smacking him a good one with my open hand. This is a huge turn on for him as well, as I sternly tell him to suck my cock. He begins to pull back, so I slap him again…twice and roughly grab him by the hair and pull him into my cock. His mouth still closed gets him yet another slap, followed by two more as I tell him he will NOT refuse me and besides, I tell him, I know he really wants to suck cock.

By that time he’s crying; red-faced and snotty but readily sucking the cock I’ve got on. I happily hold him by his hair as I deep throat him, listening to him gag and watching strings of slimy spit drip from his mouth. But…by then, he’s so avidly sucking my cock he can make me cum pushing against the back of his throat while I whisper to him that soon, this same cock is gonna be up his ass.

I am not at all sure this would be nearly as much fun, without the face slapping, first.

But, that’s just me; yeah, big fan of face slapping!
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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 6:11:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

The idea of having a boy, cuffed and on a leash, on his knees in front of me wearing my strap-on is such a delicious notion I can hardly stand it. I know one who wants to suck cock, but he wants to be ‘made’ to do so. I can just imagine putting two fingers under his chin, to make him look up at me, and sliding that hand over to cradle his face and smacking him a good one with my open hand. This is a huge turn on for him as well, as I sternly tell him to suck my cock. He begins to pull back, so I slap him again…twice and roughly grab him by the hair and pull him into my cock. His mouth still closed gets him yet another slap, followed by two more as I tell him he will NOT refuse me and besides, I tell him, I know he really wants to suck cock.

By that time he’s crying; red-faced and snotty but readily sucking the cock I’ve got on. I happily hold him by his hair as I deep throat him, listening to him gag and watching strings of slimy spit drip from his mouth. But…by then, he’s so avidly sucking my cock he can make me cum pushing against the back of his throat while I whisper to him that soon, this same cock is gonna be up his ass.

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 6:39:37 PM

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Hi all, this has been interesting reading. I've never even considered slapping my wife or slave (well, I have thought about it, but always in the context of things I don't do) but reading this thread has shown me viewpoints on it I've never heard. I have always been very sure not to leave marks that would be too immediately visible, and even a small spank to either of their asses leaves red marks for some time, so figured it would be similar on their face. But at the right time, right place, I might just have to give it an exploratory try ;)

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RE: face slapping - 12/13/2007 8:29:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: TMaster2

...but reading this thread has shown me viewpoints on it I've never heard. I have always been very sure not to leave marks that would be too immediately visible, and even a small spank to either of their asses leaves red marks for some time, so figured it would be similar on their face. But at the right time, right place, I might just have to give it an exploratory try ;)

Just so you know... some people really LIKE marks; generally speaking, not in the face, of course, but on well muscled, fatty parts of their bodies; like their ass, thighs, etc. There is not much sexier (to those of us who like them) than running a hand over a 4" welt raised up a half an inch or so from the skin. OMG...one either remembers putting it there...or receiving it. It is enough to send you into that spacey place all over again! I will tell ya though…a face is not a smart place to leave a mark.

While I understand the need for discretion, if you find such a partner as one that LIKES marks...do not be afraid to leave them; she will leave you if you do not. I just consider doctor visits, trips to the beach...leave them where they are private and personal to her...and don't show in everyday clothes. Of course...discuss this at length first, and check in a whole bunch. Ramping up does wonders!

TALK to your partner. Perhaps have them ‘rate’ your hits on a 1-10 scale of what they can handle…and again; check in a lot.

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RE: face slapping - 12/14/2007 12:33:01 PM

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Either Love it, or Hate it!
I have experienced both sides of the "coin" shall we say. Almost 15 years ago as a submissive, I was slapped hard, then really hard, by my then mistress, it was a turn on for both of us. Eleven years later as a dominant I have experienced a similar "rush" of power feeling when I slapped my slave less hard, since it was a new experince for both of us, I did not want to break her cheek bone, or do serious damage so I was very cautious how hard I actually hit/slapped her. We both enjoy the dynamic, but still am wondering how hard I can slap her without causing serious damage. Anyone have any suggestions; does placement of the slap matter ?? Should I slap lower on the face, below the cheekbone. Or is the cheekbone stronger than I think it is ?? I have been only dominant for the last six years or so. It did seem so much "Hotter" to have my face slapped, than it does to be the one slapping a slave girl's face. But maybe the "Power-feeling" will get better as I become more comfortable in my slapping ability.
Since we all don't "play" as often as either of us wants, having been only a dominant for five years, isn't as long as I would have thought at one time. But back then we played much more often, at least once a week, and now play... Hey its been months since I found a play partner to play with, some things we miss, more than we are willing to say, huh ~!
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RE: face slapping - 12/14/2007 12:48:51 PM

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My Si rather unexpectedly slapped my face the other day for the first time ever. It wasnt hard at all, but it shocked me. Cause for years Ive told him that I would like him to do it and he's always sworn that in the sake fo being a good sadist and all he'd never do it. Well, that and he just thought I was insane. So it shocked me the other day when out of the blue he reached over and slapped me for pinching his nipple after Id been told not to. Needless to say I was immediatly begging him to fuck me.....something tells me he'll be doing it more often....

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RE: face slapping - 12/14/2007 1:02:48 PM

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the first time i was slapped in the face i only had a small warning... we were in a "moment" and i didn't quite understand the question... have i ever been slapped?... well yeah on the ass all the time... he knows that... then it came... then i almsot did... how amazing it felt... so intimate... the warmth of his hand the sting of my cheek.... yum!!

i was shocked by my response i never thought i would feel that way about being slapped. i had been slapped as a child for talking back... and never thought i would want anyone to do that again...

then the second time he pushed me a bit farther, first one at a time, and then a few in a row, then a few more... then before i know it i was crying... what an amazing feeling... what a release...... i don't cry easly and never in front of my Sir... but the tears came pouring out i felt so vulnerable... so open to him....

i am one of those that loves marks to be left and am always searching for them... so there i was shortly after in the bathroom tring to see how red my cheeck was... even wishing just a bit for a nice bruse upon my cheek... but alas no... it would have been hard to explain... but so fun too to try to think up a good "story" ;)...

thanks for starting this thread love reading all the other stories :)

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RE: face slapping - 12/14/2007 5:27:09 PM

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There are many things i enjoy, but face slapping is not one of them! I do believe if my Sir slapped me in the face it would be due to me misbehaving. Argh! no no no face slapping. I'd cry like a baby.

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RE: face slapping - 12/15/2007 7:31:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: MsBearlee

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ORIGINAL: TMaster2

...but reading this thread has shown me viewpoints on it I've never heard. I have always been very sure not to leave marks that would be too immediately visible, and even a small spank to either of their asses leaves red marks for some time, so figured it would be similar on their face. But at the right time, right place, I might just have to give it an exploratory try ;)

Just so you know... some people really LIKE marks; generally speaking, not in the face, of course, but on well muscled, fatty parts of their bodies; like their ass, thighs, etc. There is not much sexier (to those of us who like them) than running a hand over a 4" welt raised up a half an inch or so from the skin. OMG...one either remembers putting it there...or receiving it. It is enough to send you into that spacey place all over again! I will tell ya though…a face is not a smart place to leave a mark.

While I understand the need for discretion, if you find such a partner as one that LIKES marks...do not be afraid to leave them; she will leave you if you do not. I just consider doctor visits, trips to the beach...leave them where they are private and personal to her...and don't show in everyday clothes. Of course...discuss this at length first, and check in a whole bunch. Ramping up does wonders!

TALK to your partner. Perhaps have them ‘rate’ your hits on a 1-10 scale of what they can handle…and again; check in a lot.

MsB

lol, yes, I DO like to leave marks ;) I mark her quite often, and my ex-slave I did even more often (and the next will get the same ;) ) I love to leave my marks on ass, thighs, stomach, breasts, back... *sigh* But not face. Never on the face, I've always told myself. Even when I'm up only as high as her breasts, I am very careful not to let an errant tail reach her neck or face where it would leave something too visible to the vanilla world. But after reading this, I did talk to my wife, and we bantered it back and forth, and I think it got her to thinking, too... we'll see what it brings on ;)

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RE: face slapping - 12/15/2007 7:40:47 AM

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lol, yes, I DO like to leave marks ;) I mark her quite often, and my ex-slave I did even more often (and the next will get the same ;) ) I love to leave my marks on ass, thighs, stomach, breasts, back... *sigh* But not face. Never on the face, I've always told myself. Even when I'm up only as high as her breasts, I am very careful not to let an errant tail reach her neck or face where it would leave something too visible to the vanilla world. But after reading this, I did talk to my wife, and we bantered it back and forth, and I think it got her to thinking, too... we'll see what it brings on ;)

Ahhhhhhh, I beg your pardon; I missunderstood your original post here. I think.

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RE: face slapping - 12/20/2007 12:47:41 PM

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When she is being an insufferable brat, just the thought of me 'slapping' her face brings a smile to my face, I am not sure if she does the "insufferable" part on purpose trying to manipulate me or not, but it has occured to me, thats for sure.

Still not much input from those who tend to slap a woman's face, since women are usually smaller boned, does that mean the bones are more tender ?? I really don't want to cause serious damage at all, and I already know she likes it, sort of, when I do slap her. I am just worried about breaking her cheekbone, I am guessing that cheek bones are pretty tough, but how tough ?? I realize slapping is not punching but a slap from a six foot guy who weighs around 200lbs, is still a decent slap, and naturally I would not be putting much weight behind the slap, and I also know that its more for shock value than anything else.
Do I Need To Be This Cautious ??

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RE: face slapping - 12/20/2007 3:08:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: carly2day

my wife slapped me twice on our first date and i was hooked completely.She has slapped me in public and in front of her friends many times and it makes me want to please her more.sometimes i cry

Yeah, that would hook me as well! What a terrific sign of what was to come. Sigh...If only...

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RE: face slapping - 12/20/2007 3:21:53 PM

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I love face slapping IN a scene, however with my ex it became something he would do anyway - and that was horrid. But in a scene i like it because it is humiliating.

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RE: face slapping - 12/20/2007 6:54:55 PM

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I realize slapping is not punching but a slap from a six foot guy who weighs around 200lbs, is still a decent slap, and naturally I would not be putting much weight behind the slap, and I also know that its more for shock value than anything else.
Do I Need To Be This Cautious ??

Try to focus on slapping skin. You don't want to make much of an impact with the bone. Or any, really. As you say, it's for shock value.
(I'm practicing now on myself.

) I think that given your size, perhaps using just the upper part of your fingers might help and perhaps try doing a light slap where your hand kind of bounces off (rather than following through.) OK, that is a bit overly-analytical but I've been slapped by 2 guys. One was perfect and attention getting and was one of my hottest sexual moments ever. The other made a bit too much contact with the skull and was a total turnoff.
But, I'm sure like everything related to sex, every woman likes it different.

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RE: face slapping - 12/20/2007 7:14:29 PM

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Ms. Bearlee, lordy, lordy, that was hottt! At the same time I'm still hard limiting it. I can't predict my emotional response to such a thing for one, and more important I've got implants in both eyes and wouldn't dare risk an injury.

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RE: face slapping - 12/20/2007 7:59:22 PM

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im very headshy on the left side, anything waving around it makes me cringe. its have to be by someone i trusted very much. but i do think its hot and i KNOW it'd check me right Quick

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RE: face slapping - 12/21/2007 4:51:09 PM

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Absolutely love it... not humiliating at all. Nothing makes me feel quite as submissive as that. My face is by far the most erogenous zone on my body whether touched, slapped or even bitten.... Yum. Work in my neck and hair, too, and i am yours forever.

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RE: face slapping - 12/22/2007 2:51:05 PM

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ORIGINAL: girlygurl

There are many things i enjoy, but face slapping is not one of them! I do believe if my Sir slapped me in the face it would be due to me misbehaving. Argh! no no no face slapping. I'd cry like a baby.
girly

Face slapping was originally suggested to me a couple years ago by a potential sub. At the time, I didn't see any reason to do it -- and still don't. But due to the varied responses to this thread, I'll certainly ask my next potential sub how she feels about the subject. I don't think asking makes me any less of a Dom!

In the past, when my sub misbehaved or I wanted to get her attention, I'd simply grab a fistful of her hair and jerk her head around. I get a major rush from pulling a sub's hair, leading her around by it or forcing her face down on my cock like that.

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RE: face slapping - 12/22/2007 3:35:33 PM

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This is interesting...I always viewed face slapping as a hard limit. Then, last night for the first time during a scene, it happened while I was in subspace and boy, I have to tell you, it was hot. Somewhere in the recesses of my mind I was thinking, wait a minute, there is no way this should be happening, but with me being pinned down and being fucked and him slapping my face and saying......well some other recesses were saying Oh My God, how hot is this?

I cannot say for sure that I would like getting face slapped by someone else that I do not have this particular dynamic with, but wow, never thought I would change my mind about this.

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