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RE: Fisting - 11/18/2005 10:19:24 AM

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mmmmm fisting gives the best orgasms

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RE: Fisting - 11/18/2005 11:07:05 AM

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Must be that "G-spot" issue. Most mistake the two...

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RE: Fisting - 11/21/2005 10:14:41 PM

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My girlfriend just recently brought up fisting (and quite unexpectedly) so I'm lovin the comments. It should be interesting because I think its something we both really want to experience (giving and receiving). I'd be lying if I didn't say I'm kind of nervous, but in the good way.

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RE: Fisting - 11/22/2005 1:37:29 AM

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My ex used to love fisting. SHe had 2 kids so was already quite stretched, first time i did it to her i was very careful, but once you get used to it, it's lotsa fun. I found doing a clenching pulse thing with my hand really made her scream in ecstacy. Luckily she was also a squirter so we never needed lube lol.

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RE: Fisting - 11/22/2005 11:54:53 AM

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lots of good advice on fisting in this thread. from experience fisting and being fisted here's what works for me

1. lube, lube lube--not just one application. keep adding lube around the opening
2. get her very excited, lots of foreplay and go slowly. playing with the clit might help her relax.
3. do NOT jerk your hand out suddenly. just cease all motion until your sub can relax
4. do not force it. i expect a burning sensation but not tearing or bleeding
5. sometimes do it on my back but find it easier facing down
6. play it safe by using gloves. I'm very experienced but still use gloves. find that hand is more slippery, does not absorb any of the lube
7. fist will form naturally after knuckles pass through the tight part
8 what goes in must come out, so listen to the sub when pulling out. keep reminding her to relax. it is possible for the sub to help push out the hand, but not necessary
9. if it doesn't work, dont' feel bad. some hands are just too large, in my opinion

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RE: Fisting - 11/22/2005 1:39:38 PM

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Having been fisted against my will, ( i have a problem with safewords)
It is always best if you know who and what you are getting involved in. Just a word of caution.

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RE: Fisting - 11/22/2005 9:49:44 PM

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When being fisted does he actually place his entire fist inside you , as deep as the wrist

Yep and perhaps a bit more *grin

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RE: Fisting - 3/5/2006 7:25:04 PM

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Hi Tade:
I am a sub who LOVES to be fisted. I have had similar experiences when a Domme fists me right: a tremendous build up to a series of linked orgasms, sometimes crying as well (yes, a near religious experience), ending with one massive, shattering orgasm, while I squirt out a torrent of love juice. I sometimes black out for 25-20 seconds at that point but I love it.
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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 6:29:56 PM

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I've had it both ways: on my back with my legs spread wide and my ass up (sometimes propped up on a pillow or two) or on my knees doggie style. I agree that the latter actually gives more and better access to the wide open vagina, which in theory should make fisting easier.
However, at least for me, on my hands an knee it is harder to relax and be totally accepting, which is necessary to get the most out of fisting (most pleasure and self-lube, least pain) compared with being on my back and spread wide open.
So I will go whatever way the domme wants to go, though if she asks, I generally tell her to try it with me on my back spread wide open.

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 6:31:24 PM

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Has anyone been fisted with anyone there but the person fisting you, some watching it all?

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 7:27:12 PM

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Never fisted a female but, I've fisted a few guys.

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 7:37:54 PM

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OMG!! So this feels good? Sounds like everyone is saying it hurts a bit on the way in, but is ecstasy once it's in. Is that about right? Oooooooo. i'm intrigued.

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 7:46:18 PM

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My Master's hand is enormous. It dwarfs mine by two knuckles at each finger and it is much bigger across than mine. I have never had a desire to have anyone's fist up there, reminds me too much of the dr. going up there to check me out during labor and delivery of my unmentionables. *eek!*

typo, of course

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 8:28:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subsue6

I've had it both ways: on my back with my legs spread wide and my ass up (sometimes propped up on a pillow or two) or on my knees doggie style. I agree that the latter actually gives more and better access to the wide open vagina, which in theory should make fisting easier.
However, at least for me, on my hands an knee it is harder to relax and be totally accepting, which is necessary to get the most out of fisting (most pleasure and self-lube, least pain) compared with being on my back and spread wide open.
So I will go whatever way the domme wants to go, though if she asks, I generally tell her to try it with me on my back spread wide open.

Dam it sue.
Your tempting me Real bad to come back into CM as a Domme just to have a chance at you.. but, I am sure that has been tried before.........
Oh well. send pics when you can. *S*
~winks~

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 8:29:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

reminds me too much of the dr. going up there to check me out during labor and delivery of my unmentionables. *eek!*

And yet that's one of the reasons I've always wanted to experience it, besides the orgasms, of course. I've always imagined that it would feel the closest to actual birth...that feeling of a baby passing down and out was incredible. That feeling of being completely filled.

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 8:36:15 PM

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all i can say is WOW, what a hot subject. I look forward to exploring fisting more in my personal life, both giving and receiving.

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 8:42:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

reminds me too much of the dr. going up there to check me out during labor and delivery of my unmentionables. *eek!*

And yet that's one of the reasons I've always wanted to experience it, besides the orgasms, of course. I've always imagined that it would feel the closest to actual birth...that feeling of a baby passing down and out was incredible. That feeling of being completely filled.

That's true, that final push to get them out was like an endorphin high... but I always did hate having the nurses and the doctor venture "inward and upward" when I was already miserably uncomfortable beforehand.

Maybe different since fisting is supposed to be more of a sensual thing, but the thought of Daddy's gigantic hand up there just makes me feel kind of faint - but not in the swoony way.

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 8:49:28 PM

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Yup...gigantic hands would make me think twice.

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RE: Fisting - 11/1/2006 8:55:05 PM

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