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SlaveSoul -> RE: Resentment while obeying (8/25/2007 11:15:23 PM)
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greetings all,
mia apologises if this has been said before, but when mia and her Master were just starting the relationship (we both come from a BDSM background) mia was very very frequently resentful of commands, even though to be commanded, and enslaved, and "put beneath the whip" was mia's fondest wish, and most aching need. The only thing that fixed this issue for mia was time. A slave needs quite a lot of time to trust her Master (she is giving over her entire life, that is quite a risk for anyone to take). Slaves also need time to trust themselves (my desire is finally *out* in the open, can i do it? do i have the courage, and strength to follow my dreams???) and the dynamic of the relationship before they can let go, and just be what they are. Might mia suggest, instead of pushing her to be a certain way and trying to mould her at this early stage, maybe "stand back" and just watch her, sit and talk with her about *her* goals, *her* wishes for her slavery, and how she sees herself; get to know what you have at your feet; mia knows that if people do that with her, her slave responses come naturally, she bonds very easily.
mia hopes she hasn't offended, or displeased with her reply.
girl wishes well,
mia{L}
Property of Logos.
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