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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/5/2007 9:00:01 PM

Tajj

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Slapping for me is horrible. I can't even imagine why anyone would like it, but to each his or her own. Slapping is a huge insult. I'd rather be punched, to be honest.

Where my mother comes from, you get in a fight if someone punches you. If they slap you, you might kill them. It's like spitting on their face.

If a dom slapped me without permission--which they'd never get-- I'd hit them right back.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/5/2007 9:01:15 PM

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I like it. It motivates me when I'm hesitant. And the icing on the cake is that it turns me on.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/5/2007 11:35:04 PM

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For myself, if i liked it, there would be no connection to discipline,
punishment or correction. i can see such used in those aspects, but
as with all things in a relationship, there should be understanding of
the use and allowance of face slapping in the context of agreement.
i do not believe it should be done to cause intentional damage.

If it is done without provocation or invitation, expect the unexpected.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/5/2007 11:48:05 PM

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I don't know why but face slapping and hair pulling is such a turn on for me!

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 12:25:40 AM

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 12:47:55 AM

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no thank you, no slappin my face.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 4:18:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: Twice

I don't like facial ANYTHING. I don't like my face being touched, slapped, hell, I don't even like my face getting wet in the rain/dripping with sweat when it's hot.

...I'm very sensitive about my face.

i second this. i think there are all of two people whom i allow to touch my face at all....and Sir is one of them. (my husband is NOT.)

kitten, who is odd.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 4:26:39 AM

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I've never been a fan of Face-slapping either. It just strikes me as a bit brutal (no pun intended).

I guess I understand more how men might enjoy it coming from a Domme (or a femsub, God forbid) than a man doing it to a female. I admit my predjudice here is probably due to my my upbringing.

I am also not convinced that there couldn't be some kind of severe un-intentional damage done to my face, no matter how "practiced" the slapper claimed to be. It just plain worries me.

Nobody's ever done it to me as a "kink" and it's not a "Hard Limit" but it is definitely a "soft limit" for me.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 4:34:30 AM

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I don't like slapping, i can tolerate a little VERY light smack with the hand or cock when i am giving head. But straight out slapping, it's too close to abuse. Besides, doesn't a nice cherry red bottom just look and feel so wonerful?

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 4:46:33 AM

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Not me, nope, nope, nope. Funny thing though is I never thought of it as a hard limit, but it is. Between my TMJ and my "baggage", it's just not happening.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 4:48:31 AM

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With me it is likely to get you slapped right back. Big time hard limit, i'd almost rather listen to country music!

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 5:15:18 AM

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I absolutly love face slapping....yum.....but my Sir being the wonderful sadist he is....flat out refuses to do it.....kinda sucks.....

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 5:27:33 AM

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With me it is likely to get you slapped right back. Big time hard limit, i'd almost rather listen to country music!
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I don't understand why slapping someone in the face is even part of what people do in BDSM. Not being a jerk, here, just really would like to understand. I agree with all of those who liken it to abuse. What is the point of it?

Ok, so I could you could say that spanking or paddling or flogging is like abuse, but those are not the same to me as slapping a person in the FACE. Flogging and some other forms of impact on the back of the body stimulate nerve endings which release chemicals which in turn release emotions (learned that from my chiropractor), so I can understand why those things feel so good. And hitting the face in any way simply seems mean.

It's all interesting....

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 5:29:46 AM

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A proper full-on face slap would just rile me and ruin the session. But I think there's a place for a soft slap on the cheek occasionally, when the Dom(me) wants your attention. Very dismissive and contemptuous, but not outright insulting.

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

With me it is likely to get you slapped right back. Big time hard limit, i'd almost rather listen to country music!

Heh-heh! Country music used to be a hard limit for me, till two or three years ago. I think it was Laura Cantrell who changed my mind, and then I heard some old Carter Family stuff. Still can't be doing with Country and Western, though.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 5:34:07 AM

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Heh-heh! Country music used to be a hard limit for me, till two or three years ago.

I hate it so bad that it is actually listed under my hard limits, lol.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 5:36:07 AM

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No face slapping for me either. As soon as i see a hand fly at me i begin to cower and cover my face and it instantly scares me to the point of crying. My head also can't take such a blow, i almost black out from it.

*sweet caleigh*

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 6:54:55 AM

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No face slapping either for this male submissive... Hard limit.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 8:38:46 AM

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i never had been slapped. a friend stated she couldnt understand why i would like to be slapped around. i brought it up to Master who hadnt done it yet. . i told Him it was something i wouldnt like...so He slapped me. culturally face slapping shows disrespect and that the person is worthless. Master used it to show His dominance over me. it has turned out to be great. when He slaps me there's no doubt in my mind who owns me. any one else would be in for a good old time kick 'em when they're down dirty fight. but He owns me and will do what He will do to His slave.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 2:47:57 PM

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I haven't really had my face slapped before so not sure

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/6/2007 2:58:27 PM

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While i can't speak for others, as far as this girl is concerned, feeling an open hand whacking my face and head sends me into subspace faster than anything. i just love being slapped hard in the face, and anywhere else on my body.

Oh, yes, hair pulling, too. i'm with you, JerseyKrissi72, hair pulling is great, too!

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