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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 10/27/2008 10:41:32 PM

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 10/28/2008 6:52:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: Sundowner

... on a more serious note

I liked this from Sundowner, it made good sense to me.

if I were to enter into a relationship with a Dom,
I'd let him know straight away that not many years ago,
my jaw was badly shattered,
so IF He slaps me ... chances are good he'll break it again.
( I can't imagine that a Dom would ever want to seriously damage his sub )

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 10/28/2008 7:17:32 AM

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i love face slapping!!.. i do have tmj on the left side of my jaw so its almost aways on the right side of my face..i am a pile of mushiness!!... i rember asking friends to slap me.. and then telling them it wasn't hard enough....

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 10/28/2008 7:29:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

I have really bad tmj, so face slapping for me would be a seriously uncool thing as it could make a chronic pain issue worse. Additinally, it's an irritating thing and I suspect I would not like it even if my jaw was just dandy.
Davan

Me too on the TMJ. The left jaw joint is missing 80% of the cartilage, if someone (any one) slapped my face it would end up causing physical damage far beyond a red mark.
My entire jaw is fragile, I cannot even open more than 14mm which means that giving head is an impossibility. That totally sucks (ha) because its something I love to do but literally can't do.

Don't slap me or even grab my jaw area unless you want to be paying for reconstruction and physical therapy.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 12/19/2008 11:21:09 PM

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When it comes down to it it seems like there are many more people that absolutely hate face slapping versus those who enjoy it. My personal thoughts about face slapping: When its in a strictly sexual context, or otherwise negotiated as part of a scene, it's done correctly and not hard enough to do any damage, and it's my Master doing it it's something that absolutely turns me on and I love it.
It's something we started playing with super recently (and we've been together 4 months now), after I had made it very clear that it was not a limit and in fact was something that I've played with before and enjoyed. I think the big thing is that I always know that he would NEVER raise a hand to me in anger, that it's always done in an enjoyable context. I think if being slapped in the face was being used as a form of punishment that would begin to cross the line into being abuse. But yeah, so in particular context and with a partner I trust I love it :)

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 12/20/2008 12:13:45 AM

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seriously HARD limit for me, brings back flashbacks of my ex husband beating the hell out of me so thats one thing that i won't/can't tollerate if you do it your more than likely going to get punched back

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 12/20/2008 11:05:18 AM

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I don't like it, just reminds me of my ex-husband, which he was not a very nice person at all. I would probably hit back followed by leaving!

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 12/20/2008 11:06:13 AM

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I don't it makes me feel like my teeth are rattling.

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