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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/7/2007 11:18:59 AM

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Oh no no no! Slap my face, even playfully and this quiet girl will go ballistic! Funny response since I'm hard to anger but I get absolutely uncontrollable. And I wasn't beat as a child or as an adult, just how I react. Now hair pulling (in the gentle, I've got you and you aren't going anywhere way) is a totally different thing!

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/7/2007 11:32:49 AM

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i'm talking about the palm of an open-hand slapping my face and head, not a fist or nuckles. i'm not saying it can't happen but, i have never had a black eye or a fat lip or any other injury from an open-hand slapping me, no matter how hard.

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Main reason I dont like it as a top is that if you are just a little off your sub walks around with a black eye for a couple of weeks. My wife got a black eye from SM play, I was accused of abuse more than once, some were kidding when they said it, some were not.

sounds like you've just had gentle/good experiences with it. face slapping can be every bit as dangerous as punching, it all depends on where the strike lands and the intensity of it. i've had black eyes (both at once one time...that was great trying to explain to people) from being slapped in the face, a myriad of bruises, and sometimes when he gives me a really firm one i lose my hearing for a minute or so, or my ears will be ringing/buzzing for a while.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 6:30:38 PM

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No gentle slaps from my big hands. When I slap I make it count. I don't do gentle anything. My slaps knock my slave off balance and she usually sees stars but recovers quickly. Theres no black eyes or injuries. Just a good buzz for a few minutes.

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ORIGINAL: slavegirljoy

i'm talking about the palm of an open-hand slapping my face and head, not a fist or nuckles. i'm not saying it can't happen but, i have never had a black eye or a fat lip or any other injury from an open-hand slapping me, no matter how hard.

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Main reason I dont like it as a top is that if you are just a little off your sub walks around with a black eye for a couple of weeks. My wife got a black eye from SM play, I was accused of abuse more than once, some were kidding when they said it, some were not.

sounds like you've just had gentle/good experiences with it. face slapping can be every bit as dangerous as punching, it all depends on where the strike lands and the intensity of it. i've had black eyes (both at once one time...that was great trying to explain to people) from being slapped in the face, a myriad of bruises, and sometimes when he gives me a really firm one i lose my hearing for a minute or so, or my ears will be ringing/buzzing for a while.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 7:21:59 PM

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totally agree with lilbitshy. down with face slaps, up with hair pulls

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 7:32:07 PM

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I will appreciate your answer...

Not my favorite - but i tolerate because He likes it...

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 7:35:04 PM

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I hate the idea of any man slapping my face. This is a hard limit for me and I would go ballistic. I used to think that any man who slapped a woman in the face was an abusive bastard that deserved to be gang beat. Now I think any man who non-consentually slaps a woman in the face deserves such a fate, as I have come to realize that some women enjoy it. To each their own. Still, it's not my thing and never will be.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 7:43:23 PM

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Now hair pulling (in the gentle, I've got you and you aren't going anywhere way) is a totally different thing!

Edited cuz i can't type tonight... Oh no... no gently hair pulling for me... if He's going to pull my hair, i want His fist wrapped in it... and i want my scalp sore the next day as a nice reminder.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 7:55:41 PM

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No face slapping.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 7:58:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: yuyu777

I will appreciate your answer...

that would be me...I don't want anyone slapping me in the face. I have a tendency to slap back out of reflex.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/9/2007 11:28:48 PM

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I agree with the others here who say it's suggestive of abuse. Nobody has the right to treat me that way. Nobody. If they are stupid enough to lay a hand on me in such a way, they'd better be prepared to sleep with one eye open

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/10/2007 8:09:15 PM

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I will never understand the desire to bruise a slave's pretty face when on the other end lies a much rounder, fuller, and withal tempting target!

Kiss the face, slap/spank/beat the ass!

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/10/2007 8:30:53 PM

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Yyyes, Sssir

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/11/2007 9:34:21 AM

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Only if you like your nuts cracked.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 9/13/2007 6:02:54 PM

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My sub does not like it.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 6/30/2008 12:02:10 AM

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Just last week I had my right eardrum popped by slapping... now I get to wait about two months for my eardrum to heal. It is to be avoided now...

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 6/30/2008 12:45:39 AM

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Hard limit, unless a sub attempting to remove your genitals is a turn on.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 6/30/2008 12:49:47 AM

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i love it as long as it doesnt' get out of control...i'm not really fond of the possibilities of having detached retinas or bruises on my face.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 6/30/2008 1:37:54 AM

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I also love it, as long as it doesn't get too intense. Anything that causes detached retinas or popped eardrums is way too intense for me.

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 6/30/2008 1:53:32 AM

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adding to the pile of comments...
Face slapping is a trigger for me. It instantly brings back emotions caused by abuse, and makes me a very angry, very withdrawn person...I don't need to list it as a hard no, the Ones who care about me know the impact it would have and I'm confident they wouldn't do it without my consent. (which would be very unlikely)

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RE: Is there any sub who doesnt like face slapping? - 6/30/2008 4:26:21 AM

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I don't respond well to it.
In my experience, it just opens a different door. It's just a signal of abuse.

...That, and I know very, very few Dominants (or men within my life for that matter) that like moving their hand to stroke hair out of my face, only to have me cower back or cringe. Once you've smacked my face, that's the product you will get.

And, honestly, if you friggin' slap my face, I'm going to kick you in your baby maker/baby box.

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