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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 1:48:20 PM

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tsk tsk....someone should cum beat you up.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 1:58:58 PM

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Wow, where is the rule book that this came from cuz i've never seen it before. You know the saying "Opinions are like assholes, everybody's got one?" Well, that goes for BDSM, M/s, D/s, and nilla as well, E/everyone has their own opinions as to what this lifestyle is to them and as long as it works for them, no O/one is wrong. It sounds to me like the OP is having trouble finding someone to fit his mold and decided to take it out in a rant on here looking for sympathy, but then again, i could be wrong, this is only my opinion

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 2:08:26 PM

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Wow, where is the rule book that this came from cuz i've never seen it before. You know the saying "Opinions are like assholes, everybody's got one?" Well, that goes for BDSM, M/s, D/s, and nilla as well, E/everyone has their own opinions as to what this lifestyle is to them and as long as it works for them, no O/one is wrong. It sounds to me like the OP is having trouble finding someone to fit his mold and decided to take it out in a rant on here looking for sympathy, but then again, i could be wrong, this is only my opinion

Judging by the black glasses, I'm guessing he ran out of lube.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 2:10:05 PM

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Every time you find someone new you have to find out what they need, because almost none of them know what they want, or even like. They just think they do.

i just read the OP's profile as well and it does seem like he is looking to cheat. Isn't it kind of contradictory saying what he did (see quote above) if he married a nilla wife, maybe he doesn't know what HE wants

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 2:17:49 PM

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I have the popcorn right here. This should be good...

Care to share?

Of course I will share dear, anyone can have some. *hands Celtic a bowl of popcorn*

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 2:18:06 PM

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quote:

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Wow, where is the rule book that this came from cuz i've never seen it before. You know the saying "Opinions are like assholes, everybody's got one?" Well, that goes for BDSM, M/s, D/s, and nilla as well, E/everyone has their own opinions as to what this lifestyle is to them and as long as it works for them, no O/one is wrong. It sounds to me like the OP is having trouble finding someone to fit his mold and decided to take it out in a rant on here looking for sympathy, but then again, i could be wrong, this is only my opinion

People often come from the other side of collar me to vent their frustration and promote their agenda. I am always though stunned at writing like the OP because you would think they before posting it for someone to read they would realize the complexity of people and anyone different from themselves is probably not going to want to be preached to in that manner.

This OP though is particularly hilarious because his profile is literally I only want kinky sex and it has to be at your place but yet he seems to have his view is the only way philosophy on a far deeper level.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 2:59:06 PM

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yawn.....buddy...as you can see, the audience here is not the usual sub you're trying to fill with your self-important crap. You could learn alot here however, if you stop insulting and just talk. By the way, my grandmother would have beat your ass for saying something like that, god rest her soul.
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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 3:02:32 PM

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That's your definition of submission. It isn't one that works for us. What works for us is what keeps the relationship strong. We've been together over four years and we're aiming for 30 or 40 more.

The Man is not a sadist, he's a dominant who is into bondage and forced orgasms. Doesn't matter how much he rubs me, if I'm coming down with a cold, I am not going to be able to satisfy him by having 30 orgasms and then shaking uncontrollably afterwards while he holds me.

He also enjoys me fighting back on occasion, struggling to get away while he tickles me or pokes me. Struggling in a time like that is what he does want me to do. By doing it, he gets what he wants, and I do what he wants. If I didn't struggle then I would be refusing to obey.

Hell, he enjoys a certain amount of brattiness, mostly physical. If I did the kind of stuff you look for, I would not be doing what he wants. In order to please him, my list of stuff to do is totally different than your sub's.

Of course there's a major assumption there, that you indeed have one. If you don't you may want to reconsider the fact that if all you want is a sub to do things they don't like, and don't enjoy, they will leave sooner and not later in order to get their needs met.

My grandmother was neither boring nor a breeding cow, and your put down of anyone different than you is neither wanted nor appreciated.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 3:05:34 PM

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Just for the record, there are some wonderful Dominants in St. Paul and Minneapolis. This guy is not the norm.

A public service announcement.

You are now returned to your regularly scheduled programming.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 3:09:38 PM

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Did I miss another "THE ONE TWUE WAY" installment?

You way doesnt work for me.
Your definitions dont work for me.
I dont even have to read the thread, or necessarily do more than scan the OP to know that.
I will continue to do it my way, and if you dont like it... my suggestion is dont do it my way.
I dont plan on doing it your way, so it should work out well for everyone involved.

Im in a mood today, obviously. And more "this is how it must be done and if you dont do it this way you are fake" trash isnt helping.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 3:49:10 PM

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Of course I will share dear, anyone can have some. *hands Celtic a bowl of popcorn*

Thanks! Can't have a trollfest like this without popcorn, ya know!

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 3:51:41 PM

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Hmmmm - I don't see the point of the OPs post. Of course i understood it - but my initial reaction was 'So what'! Every idiot has an opinion, unfortunately some of them have discovered the internet!
I read the profile too - i think it should be rewritten as follows: Married man seeks kinky woman for casual sex a few times a month!! At least that is free from grammatical errors and its honest and to the point - it is not pretending to be what it is not - he is not looking for a submissive/slave - just an affair!

Love the shades BTW dude!!!

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 3:51:42 PM

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Im in a mood today, obviously. And more "this is how it must be done and if you dont do it this way you are fake" trash isnt helping.

Perhaps some popcorn would help? *Offers bowl to DiurnalVampire*

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 3:59:16 PM

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Hey!

What about me?

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 4:01:59 PM

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Hey!

What about me?

Ummm....cuffnspankme? I think we need a bigger bowl here!

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 4:02:09 PM

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I need more than popcorn. Though, popcorn does some good.
**munches popcorn**
Now for some Baileys...

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 4:06:14 PM

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Now for some Baileys...

Personally...a pint of Young's Double Chocolate Stout is perfect after a hard day!

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 4:07:35 PM

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Now for some Baileys...

Personally...a pint of Young's Double Chocolate Stout is perfect after a hard day!

Sorry, but the Bailey's wins....everytime.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 4:08:26 PM

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::cracks up:: Yep, he deserves the troll roasting.He should just entitle his profile-- Jerk looking for Luv in all the wrong places. lolol.

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RE: This is very important to new users - 10/2/2007 4:08:47 PM

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Im in a mood today, obviously. And more "this is how it must be done and if you dont do it this way you are fake" trash isnt helping.

Perhaps some popcorn would help? *Offers bowl to DiurnalVampire*

I want popcorn!
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